What U like About BM or WW Than Same Race

Tamango said:
Look I'm not holding a gun to your head :smt071, I told you why I am here and anyone who don't want to speak don't have to. As for my ego, it's just fine because I can date either but I a dating a white guy so it sounds more like you are the one with the bruised ego.
Click to expand...
I think not as I am not on a WM/BW site. Try again sista.
 
karmacoma. said:
I didn't know you were from the crib. Props. :smt023
Click to expand...

What up homie.:D

Raised in the Brewster Projects, yes sir. I was able to leave there through an education. However, even though it has been torn down, there are many people who have never left mentally.

Thought Kwame was going to make a difference but oh well.
 
KimboSlice said:
What up homie.:D

Raised in the Brewster Projects, yes sir. I was able to leave there through an education. However, even though it has been torn down, there are many people who have never left mentally.

Thought Kwame was going to make a difference but oh well.
Click to expand...
I voted for a old, sick Gil Hill over Kwame. Last Detroit election I voted in before I split.
 
KimboSlice said:
So if the white man you have is so fantastic, why are you even bothered with what black men do??? White men are good natured, couteous, romantic, sincere, hard working, generous, chivalrous, etc., etc. sounds like you like those kind of soft, prissy men.

Most people judge me on my outer appearance. I fit the mold of an urban, inner city black male. I'm 6'5", weigh 225 lbs, dark skin, bald head, goatee. I was raised in Detroit but live in Detroit and Chicago. I am comfortable walking the streets in both cities and when some street person gives me an intimidating stare, I stare back, to let him know I'm not the one.

Because of my size, I dwarf most of the people I meet. To many people that can be intimidating even though I don't mean it to be. Most people make their assumptions about me based on THEIR idea of how I am, being this big, black man from Detroit.

Certain white women, for some reason, can read me very well. They can be very intuitive, can pretty much tell what I'm about before they even meet me. One of the reasons I get along with them well is because they don't judge me from the exterior alone.

There's a poster on this board, Christine. Even though I've never met her and she lives on the other side of the world, she can be very intuitive on how I think. Can read my mind sometimes and post exactly what I was thinking.

I run into white women like her a lot.
Click to expand...

That´s what I meant with neutrality- you cannot appreciate the view, if there are a lot of trees in front of you..and thank you Kimbo !!
 
Tamango said:
I I beg to differ, my question is not seperating people. I realize the many people want be politically correct but many times political correctness leds us to be overly sensitive or unnecessarily sensitive over a topic or issue that that is ok to acknowledged and often should be. People are already seperated by color, race cultures and subcultures and I think it's great to come together and accept, embrace and most of appreciate each other differences. Why do some people always think that in order for everyone to get along we must all put on blinders and pretend every one is just like us?
Click to expand...

Screaming loud isn´t really an argument, isn´t it?

But it shows me that you are inferior to me- you cannot handle that situation.

You know- you are wrong
 
Tirkah said:
You got me there, my bad, though you're trying to get all technical about it. Misread the thread. You know damn well that it would be the same reason if the question was "What U like About BW or Wm Than Same Race".

P.S. Just as an extra, I have a feeling you're one of those manly woman that could pass as black man; Kansas Chief linebacker comes to mind.

^That was just totally unnecessary. Just my way of saying 'you don't belong here, honey'.
Click to expand...

Men and women of the same race still think and feel differently so that's no excuse. I am very attractive if you need to know but how I look is none of your concern. This is what I find so weird and I never seem to find this with other races who dates/marrys outside of their race except for some bm and bw. Why do you feel you must hate and insult me, a black women just because you prefer white women? :-?
 
tuckerreed said:
just a little advice from a person who does academic research, you are not suppose to be apart of the the process other than asking the questions. when you assert yourself into the equation the data gets flawed.

if you want to know what BM are interested in WW for then you must listen and not interject.
Click to expand...

Um, thanks, I really needed that.
 
christine dubois said:
Screaming loud isn´t really an argument, isn´t it?

But it shows me that you are inferior to me- you cannot handle that situation.

You know- you are wrong
Click to expand...

Simply using the bold button isn't screaming. I only hit it when I feel passionate about an issue like the one when intelligent people pretend that there are no color differences as though it's something negative. Sorry but your weak off the topic response only shows me the opposite because you can't be superior to someone that you can't relate to or debate with on the same high intellectual level.
 
Tamango said:
Men and women of the same race still think and feel differently so that's no excuse. I am very attractive if you need to know but how I look is none of your concern. This is what I find so weird and I never seem to find this with other races who dates/marrys outside of their race except for some bm and bw. Why do you feel you must hate and insult me, a black women just because you prefer white women? :-?
Click to expand...

They don't hate or insult you because you are a Black Woman. As a White Woman who loves and adores several Black Women in my own life, I find it infuriating when Black Women trolls who clearly and obviously hate BM/WW couples claim that any opposition to them is based on their race and gender. You are NOT every Woman, stop dragging all Black Women down with you when you are clearly wrong.

If people here insult you, it is because we know you are here to insult us. If they refuse to answer your questions, it is because your questions are bullshit. It is not our job to explain IR to you. Go get a fucking book. If you were really doing this for scientific/research/journalistic reasons, you have failed miserably with your first post. You do not do research on an open message board, that is so unbelievably juvenile that you earn a huge amount of negativity just for pretending you think such a thing is acceptable. Either you're academically retarded, or you expect us to be. Either way, epic fail.

I have seen anti IR bullshit like this thread going back as far as the Interracial Onelist listserv from the 90's, back before they HAD messageboards, and even back THEN people would come with the old "I'm doing research" bullshit. Here is a clue: this is not how you do research. There are a ridiculous number of uncontrollable variables on an open online forum, and any "research" you do here will be tainted. So you're not getting research. You're just trying to stir shit, because apparently you don't have anything else to spend time on in your miserable excuse for a life.

So bottom line: every time one of you assholes turn 18, since 1996, you assholes come up with the same dumbass bright idea that you're going to come to a BM/WW forum under the guise of "I'm just a lowly researcher". If you had a real education, you would have known not to come to a place in 2010 where just about everyone has a BA or advanced degree with such bullshit. Asshole.

Go get a fucking x-box or a manicure and leave us the fuck alone. We don't like you.
 
Last edited:
BlackMasterJay said:
If you you are a big black man (like me, though im only 200 lbs) and you look like Tyler Perry, women will generally LOVE you off (especially white)

Now if youre big and look like Kimbo slice??..Im afraid, women, especially white will treat you like a villain.

I look like kimbo slice....so i get the "scared of black man" reaction a lot.

:smt050
Click to expand...

I don't think you look like Kimbo first off, he's got a kinda rugged look and you've got that entitled pretty boy persona going on. Anyway, regardless of whether you look alike or not, I wouldn't be scared of either one of you because of your size or your skin color. I think that is just the most ludicrous concept. As if size and skin color have anything to do with how much of a threat someone poses. I honestly couldn't believe that this is apparently a widely known and accepted belief, but I've heard it from enough people on here to realize that it apparently is. I don't know where WW would get such an idea, especially considering it's clearly not factually based. I'm a WW and based upon statistics I am far more likely to experience violence at the hands of a WM than any other man. That's just a fact of life, so why any WW would assume BM pose a danger, or at least any greater danger than a WM is beyond me. I can only assume that's due to ignorance or having been incorrectly told that by other people whom they listen to? Regardless, it's just stupid to think like that.
 
BlackMasterJay said:
If you you are a big black man (like me, though im only 200 lbs) and you look like Tyler Perry, women will generally LOVE you off (especially white)

tp8.jpg



Now if youre big and look like Kimbo slice??..Im afraid, women, especially white will treat you like a villain.


kimbo.jpg



I look like kimbo slice....so i get the "scared of black man" reaction a lot.

I dont give a fuck though, so im good.

:smt050
Click to expand...

I'm not going to even go there with the Kimbo thing, but I don't know of any woman, White or Black who adds Tyler to their "Sexiest" or "Love Him" list. A lot of women think he's gay.
 
chicity said:
They don't hate or insult you because you are a Black Woman. As a White Woman who loves and adores several Black Women in my own life, I find it infuriating when Black Women trolls who clearly and obviously hate BM/WW couples claim that any opposition to them is based on their race and gender. You are NOT every Woman, stop dragging all Black Women down with you when you are clearly wrong.

If people here insult you, it is because we know you are here to insult us. If they refuse to answer your questions, it is because your questions are bullshit. It is not our job to explain IR to you. Go get a fucking book. If you were really doing this for scientific/research/journalistic reasons, you have failed miserably with your first post. You do not do research on an open message board, that is so unbelievably juvenile that you earn a huge amount of negativity just for pretending you think such a thing is acceptable. Either you're academically retarded, or you expect us to be. Either way, epic fail.

I have seen anti IR bullshit like this thread going back as far as the Interracial Onelist listserv from the 90's, back before they HAD messageboards, and even back THEN people would come with the old "I'm doing research" bullshit. Here is a clue: this is not how you do research. There are a ridiculous number of uncontrollable variables on an open online forum, and any "research" you do here will be tainted. So you're not getting research. You're just trying to stir shit, because apparently you don't have anything else to spend time on in your miserable excuse for a life.

So bottom line: every time one of you assholes turn 18, since 1996, you assholes come up with the same dumbass bright idea that you're going to come to a BM/WW forum under the guise of "I'm just a lowly researcher". If you had a real education, you would have known not to come to a place in 2010 where just about everyone has a BA or advanced degree with such bullshit. Asshole.

Go get a fucking x-box or a manicure and leave us the fuck alone. We don't like you.
Click to expand...

I haven't said anything in a negative way to any of the members here without first being insulting. Yet some of you have called names like manly looking woman, an assholes, inferior and told me to leave and that I wasn't welcome here just because you thought, (You Thought) I was here to insult you. Some of you didn't even give me a chance. Wow talk about prejudging ,stereotyping and gender/race discrimination, something I'm sure you hate when as interracial couple it happens to you.
 
Inner Beauty said:
I'm not going to even go there with the Kimbo thing, but I don't know of any woman, White or Black who adds Tyler to their "Sexiest" or "Love Him" list. A lot of women think he's gay.
Click to expand...

True but I heard many females say that they are attracted Shaq.
 

Attachments

  • African-American-women.jpg
    African-American-women.jpg
    21.7 KB · Views: 21
Tamango,
I don't think they want to answer your questions. You constantly wanting to defend yourself is what's making you seem like a troll. I think in this day and age, there shouldn't be any questions about interracial dating. If you're attracted to a certain person, than no explanation is needed. No one needs to explain their attraction. You like who you like, and you don't have to answer to anyone.


There are black men here who have said their negative experiences with black women have caused them to turn to white women. That doesn't mean ALL black men feel that way, or ALL black women are bad. That also doesn't mean ALL white women are perfect angels. These particular men have these particular feelings. If you want to look at it on the flip side, there are black women who have turned to white men after bad experiences with black men. That doesn't mean ALL black men are bad, or ALL white men are good. No one wants to be judged by their worst examples.

I just don't think interracial dating should be looked at as this "shocking" issue anymore.
 
Tamango said:
I haven't said anything in a negative way to any of the members here without first being insulting. Yet some of you have called names like manly looking woman, an assholes, inferior and told me to leave and that I wasn't welcome here just because you thought, (You Thought) I was here to insult you. Some of you didn't even give me a chance. Wow talk about prejudging ,stereotyping and gender/race discrimination, something I'm sure you hate when as interracial couple it happens to you.
Click to expand...

This is very poorly written, especially compared to your prior posts.... ???
 
Last edited:
Loki said:
The fact that there is only one, human, race is not crap it is an indisputable biological and scientific fact. As I said, all of the stereotyping, prejudice, and bigotry that we as humans ascribe to others with differing appearance is and always will be a social construct used to control and manipulate the stupid, lazy and frightened. Of course there will always be those who are more attracted to certain features that are more commonly found within a certain group of people. It is also true that there are literally thousands of reasons for such a preference, and a reasonable discussion could be had about the "why" people have such preferences.

One thing is for sure, anyone who is truly stupid enough to use skin color/physical features as their sole determinant in who to date is surely setting themselves up for a lifetime of heartache and suffering, because underneath it all, people are people with the same capacity for greatness or evil, regardless of appearance.
Click to expand...
:smt038
 
Tamango said:
I haven't said anything in a negative way to any of the members here without first being insulting. Yet some of you have called names like manly looking woman, an assholes, inferior and told me to leave and that I wasn't welcome here just because you thought, (You Thought) I was here to insult you. Some of you didn't even give me a chance. Wow talk about prejudging ,stereotyping and gender/race discrimination, something I'm sure you hate when as interracial couple it happens to you.
Click to expand...

Clearly you have a problem with literacy, so I will try this in fewer words:

No one is prejudging, stereotyping or discriminating against you based upon your gender or race.

This is the internet. Presumably we just met you. We have no idea what race or gender you are. We only have your own self description.

You describe yourself as an idiot. Only a completely empty brain could concoct the idea of using an online forum for research.

So either you are an idiot, or you think we are idiots, because you expect us to buy the whole "I am here for research" crap.

Either way, we don't like you. Not because you tell us you are a Black Woman. But because you tell us great heaping piles of bullshit. If people don't like your bullshit, it's not because you're a Black Woman. It's because bullshit never smells like roses, no matter how many times you tell us it does.

Now begone, worthless one. Don't come back.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top Bottom