What U like About BM or WW Than Same Race

BlackMasterJay said:
"black" women started the gay roomer.

Just because a brother is sophisticated and well spoken, awe he must be gay.

pffftttt, fuck outa here
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You're right about the rumor. I should've prefaced my statement with a lot of BW think he's gay (or maybe I should say "some"), but my whole point was that I've never heard any woman find him attractive and I don't think it's cause of the gay rumor thing either. I think only the ladies he dates find him appealing.

I don't subscribe to the theory that just cause a brother is sophisticated and well-spoken that he's gay.
 
Inner Beauty said:
You're right about the rumor. I should've prefaced my statement with a lot of BW think he's gay (or maybe I should say "some"), but my whole point was that I've never heard any woman find him attractive and I don't think it's cause of the gay rumor thing either. I think only the ladies he dates find him appealing.

I don't subscribe to the theory that just cause a brother is sophisticated and well-spoken that he's gay.
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its ROOMER not rumor, thanks

Besides, my whole point was in reference to how black men are initially perceived (i.e based solely on immediate first impression). And i pointed that HE would get better reception, especially from white women, than would a guy like kimbo slice. What you’re referencing is his character and demeanors, which "could" be perceived as "gay" (just like dennis rodman was called gay) and thus less attractive to some women (or as you said most women)….still though, women would love him off based on first sight.
 
BlackMasterJay said:
its ROOMER not rumor, thanks

Besides, my whole point was in reference to how black men are initially perceived (i.e based solely on immediate first impression). And i pointed that HE would get better reception, especially from white women, than would a guy like kimbo slice. What you’re referencing is his character and demeanors, which "could" be perceived as "gay" (just like dennis rodman was called gay) and thus less attractive to some women (or as you said most women)….still though, women would love him off based on first sight.
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Aiight, it's roomer...

I hear what you're saying, especially if it's Kimbo vs. Tyler.

I personally don't think he's gay, but he does have a little twang going on, but that's not why I don't find him attractive. I just don't find him physically appealing and I like men who are more of the strong silent types. He's a little too out there for my taste and this is not cause he's tall. I LOVE basketball players or taller men in general.
 
BlackMasterJay said:
"black" women started the gay roomer.

Just because a brother is sophisticated and well spoken, awe he must be gay.

pffftttt, fuck outa here
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I'm a black guy and I think dude is gay or bisexual. I think I saw him on 60 minutes or some show basically saying he was abused as kid. I don't think he ever said he was sexually abused but I got the feeling that he wanted to say that but was ashamed or embrassed to admit that which is typical for guys to feel that way. I think its even harder to admit for black men because our community is VERY homophobic probably due to our strong religious beliefs.
 
chicity said:
They don't hate or insult you because you are a Black Woman. As a White Woman who loves and adores several Black Women in my own life, I find it infuriating when Black Women trolls who clearly and obviously hate BM/WW couples claim that any opposition to them is based on their race and gender. You are NOT every Woman, stop dragging all Black Women down with you when you are clearly wrong.

If people here insult you, it is because we know you are here to insult us. If they refuse to answer your questions, it is because your questions are bullshit. It is not our job to explain IR to you. Go get a fucking book. If you were really doing this for scientific/research/journalistic reasons, you have failed miserably with your first post. You do not do research on an open message board, that is so unbelievably juvenile that you earn a huge amount of negativity just for pretending you think such a thing is acceptable. Either you're academically retarded, or you expect us to be. Either way, epic fail.

I have seen anti IR bullshit like this thread going back as far as the Interracial Onelist listserv from the 90's, back before they HAD messageboards, and even back THEN people would come with the old "I'm doing research" bullshit. Here is a clue: this is not how you do research. There are a ridiculous number of uncontrollable variables on an open online forum, and any "research" you do here will be tainted. So you're not getting research. You're just trying to stir shit, because apparently you don't have anything else to spend time on in your miserable excuse for a life.

So bottom line: every time one of you assholes turn 18, since 1996, you assholes come up with the same dumbass bright idea that you're going to come to a BM/WW forum under the guise of "I'm just a lowly researcher". If you had a real education, you would have known not to come to a place in 2010 where just about everyone has a BA or advanced degree with such bullshit. Asshole.

Go get a fucking x-box or a manicure and leave us the fuck alone. We don't like you.
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Chi you are not helping the sterotype of white women being passive and nice with this post. You are "coming out swinging like Tiger Woods wife". Is she a researcher or writing an article probably not but I think people have been attacking her. I know there are alot of trolls on here but I think people should wait until she says something disrespectful before attacking her. She may not be telling the truth about being a researcher but maybe she is just curious.
 
chicity said:
Clearly you have a problem with literacy, so I will try this in fewer words:

No one is prejudging, stereotyping or discriminating against you based upon your gender or race.

This is the internet. Presumably we just met you. We have no idea what race or gender you are. We only have your own self description.

You describe yourself as an idiot. Only a completely empty brain could concoct the idea of using an online forum for research.

So either you are an idiot, or you think we are idiots, because you expect us to buy the whole "I am here for research" crap.

Either way, we don't like you. Not because you tell us you are a Black Woman. But because you tell us great heaping piles of bullshit. If people don't like your bullshit, it's not because you're a Black Woman. It's because bullshit never smells like roses, no matter how many times you tell us it does.

Now begone, worthless one. Don't come back.
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How is this any different than a survey?
 
andrae09 said:
How is this any different than a survey?
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Oh come on.

Online surveys
  • can use web or e-mail
  • web is preferred over e-mail because interactive HTML forms can be used
  • often inexpensive to administer
  • very fast results
  • easy to modify
  • response rates can be improved by using Online panels - members of the panel have agreed to participate
  • if not password-protected, easy to manipulate by completing multiple times to skew results
  • data creation, manipulation and reporting can be automated and/or easily exported into a format that can be read by PSPP, DAP or other statistical analysis software
  • data sets created in real time
  • some are incentive based (such as Survey Vault or YouGov)
  • may skew sample towards a younger demographic compared with CATI
  • often difficult to determine/control selection probabilities, hindering quantitative analysis of data
  • use in large scale industries.
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Statistical_survey#Online_surveys

The strength or weakness of a survey depends in part upon how well unknown variables can be controlled.

On a board like this, the problem of online survey research is far worse: how many people have been accused of having more than one handle? How many times per month do people sign up describing themselves as something they turn out not to be?

It would be like leaving a stack of survey questions unattended in a room and then taking the responses as valid, but it's worse because the subject is controversial enough that respondents are actually motivated to skew.
 
chicity said:
Oh come on.



http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Statistical_survey#Online_surveys

The strength or weakness of a survey depends in part upon how well unknown variables can be controlled.

On a board like this, the problem of online survey research is far worse: how many people have been accused of having more than one handle? How many times per month do people sign up describing themselves as something they turn out not to be?

It would be like leaving a stack of survey questions unattended in a room and then taking the responses as valid, but it's worse because the subject is controversial enough that respondents are actually motivated to skew.
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Ok point made
 
BellaLucia said:
Tamango,
I don't think they want to answer your questions. You constantly wanting to defend yourself is what's making you seem like a troll. I think in this day and age, there shouldn't be any questions about interracial dating. If you're attracted to a certain person, than no explanation is needed. No one needs to explain their attraction. You like who you like, and you don't have to answer to anyone.


There are black men here who have said their negative experiences with black women have caused them to turn to white women. That doesn't mean ALL black men feel that way, or ALL black women are bad. That also doesn't mean ALL white women are perfect angels. These particular men have these particular feelings. If you want to look at it on the flip side, there are black women who have turned to white men after bad experiences with black men. That doesn't mean ALL black men are bad, or ALL white men are good. No one wants to be judged by their worst examples.

I just don't think interracial dating should be looked at as this "shocking" issue anymore.
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Hello
I only defend myself and reasons for comming here when I feel I'm being attacked. No, IR relationships between bm and ww isn't shocking anymore and rather mundane but that still doesn't make them any more acceptable to some people. Believe me, I know this.
 
chicity said:
Clearly you have a problem with literacy, so I will try this in fewer words:

No one is prejudging, stereotyping or discriminating against you based upon your gender or race.

This is the internet. Presumably we just met you. We have no idea what race or gender you are. We only have your own self description.

You describe yourself as an idiot. Only a completely empty brain could concoct the idea of using an online forum for research.

So either you are an idiot, or you think we are idiots, because you expect us to buy the whole "I am here for research" crap.

Either way, we don't like you. Not because you tell us you are a Black Woman. But because you tell us great heaping piles of bullshit. If people don't like your bullshit, it's not because you're a Black Woman. It's because bullshit never smells like roses, no matter how many times you tell us it does.

Now begone, worthless one. Don't come back.
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Clearly you have a problem with remembering the the good manners you were taught as a child. I would never deliberately insult another person like you do.
 
Tamango said:
Clearly you have a problem with remembering the the good manners you were taught as a child. I would never deliberately insult another person like you do.
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Tamango said:
Hello

I'm not here to pass judgement or bash black men,white women or interracial relationships. I am a black woman merely here to gather some information for a an article on relationships between black men and white women and out of curiosity also. So black men what do you find more appealing about white women than women of your own race and white women what do you find more appealing about black men then men of your own race?
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Lady, if you're writing an article, I'm Dwight Gooden. If you don't have the desire to write reasonably well to fake us out or can't be honest about your intentions, that's not my problem, though. I'll straight shoot with you. I like black men for the camaraderie and the laid-back cultural attitudes. I like their appearance. I've never claimed to be terribly complex. It's a preference. Why do I like lemon sorbet over raspberry? I think lemon has a cleaner palate, but really, it just boils down to inexplicable personal preference.
 
Tamango said:
Clearly you have a problem with remembering the the good manners you were taught as a child. I would never deliberately insult another person like you do.
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So when people see through your bullshit, you whimper that you're being mistreated.

Some of us have progressed past childhood. You might want to catch up.

Most Black Women I know are proud of their strength. You're kinda sensitive, emotional, and easily hurt. You might also want to do something about that.


Alternately, go cry, emo kid.


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