I've been texting back and forth with the ex for a couple of weeks now. We haven't had the opportunity to see each other yet. ARGH. Anyway, so a text he sent me yesterday made me a little weary of things. So, I sent him a "can I ask you a question" text. He said, "yes". I asked him, "How are you defining us at this moment in time? I ask so that I'm on the same page as you. I want to avoid any confusion, is all". I then sent him a "there isn't a wrong answer, I promise" to that text.
He replied by asking me what I mean. :smt091
So, I texted him back, "I mean are you wanting to date me again or have a casual thing or you aren't sure?"
He replied with, "what do you want". I said, "I asked you first".
He text me, "to be honest I want both and I know that doesn't make sense".
So I said, "you want to date me but not exclusively?"
He replied with, "no I would not want to date other people at the same time".
I so don't understand WTF is going on anymore. ARGH!! I'm gathering that he wants to date me exclusively but doesn't want to get serious. That's how I'm viewing it.