What's going on with you 2.0?

archangel said:
let us know how it turns out.
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I will. Thanks!

Los Angeles said:
I was just curious.

For some reason, I had a feeling he wasn't.

Carry on...
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Yeah, well, I haven't had much luck finding a BM who isn't already taken, or one that lives in Chicago who wants to actually date me.

There is one BM that if we lived in the same city, I wouldn't have to worry about dating ever again, but it's too complicated. So, alas, I'm stuck in the crappy dating world. :smt088
 
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Bookworm616 said:
I've been texting back and forth with the ex for a couple of weeks now. We haven't had the opportunity to see each other yet. ARGH. Anyway, so a text he sent me yesterday made me a little weary of things. So, I sent him a "can I ask you a question" text. He said, "yes". I asked him, "How are you defining us at this moment in time? I ask so that I'm on the same page as you. I want to avoid any confusion, is all". I then sent him a "there isn't a wrong answer, I promise" to that text.

He replied by asking me what I mean. :smt091

So, I texted him back, "I mean are you wanting to date me again or have a casual thing or you aren't sure?"

He replied with, "what do you want". I said, "I asked you first".

He text me, "to be honest I want both and I know that doesn't make sense".

So I said, "you want to date me but not exclusively?"

He replied with, "no I would not want to date other people at the same time".

I so don't understand WTF is going on anymore. ARGH!! I'm gathering that he wants to date me exclusively but doesn't want to get serious. That's how I'm viewing it.
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Why are you texting an ex? Just curious. You torture yourself too much. :p
 
Bookworm616 said:
LOL!! In this case, I'm not venting, so advice is always welcome. I'm seriously confused here. He told me today that he doesn't want me to date anyone either. So, I don't know.

In either case, I'm off to the races!!:smt043 :smt023
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Well in that case... I'd avoid him like he had the plague Bookie. He's clearly immature, and I'm sorry but not speaking to you or telling you what he was thinking was rude, hurtful, and cowardly. I just have no time for people like that. If someone means enough to you to spend time with exclusively, then you darn sure ought to care enough about them not to just leave them wondering what the hell went wrong and blaming themselves when it's you who had the issues. If that's how he treats the people he cares about, then I think he's got a long way to go before he's Bookie worthy.
 
What he did to you was cruel, he does not deserve a minute of your time.
Unless he did a huuuge meaculpa and had a real darn good reason for bailing like he did. but it doesnt sound like he has changed:-(
 
I got one of those Facebook emails telling you have friends on there and I got one from this dude who I dated for 3 yrs. It made my heart drop. Not in a good way though....

Makes me think about what went down with him....:sad:
 
Thanks everyone for your words. I appreciate the comments and will take them all into consideration. :-D

I'm talking to him more out of curiosity than anything. He told me today that what he basically wants is an exclusive FWB type of thing. He wants us both not to see other people, but keep it casual.

Anyway, I had a second date with my coworker yesterday. I like him. He's nice. Though I thought the fireman was nice, too. :smt042

I also talk to the contractor/electrician guy on a daily basis. We haven't gone out yet.

I'm keeping my options open.
 
Long Time No Talk

Hi everyone,

I got a special e-mail from a special someone and just want to stop in and say hello. It has been a minute.....
 
Bookworm616 said:
Thanks everyone for your words. I appreciate the comments and will take them all into consideration. :-D

I'm talking to him more out of curiosity than anything. He told me today that what he basically wants is an exclusive FWB type of thing. He wants us both not to see other people, but keep it casual.

Anyway, I had a second date with my coworker yesterday. I like him. He's nice. Though I thought the fireman was nice, too. :smt042

I also talk to the contractor/electrician guy on a daily basis. We haven't gone out yet.

I'm keeping my options open.
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I may have to fly to ChiTown...
 
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