Before I begin, I'd just like to say... great poem Chosen.
IMO, this dude who's posting is obviously a tro-l. I know we're not supposed to say it, but there you go. Probably insecure white dude looking to stir up trouble.
His point seems to be why do the folks on this board seem to have special preferences when it comes to dating?.
Pretty dumb question, since you're on a forum called White Women Black Men.
Others have basically answered this point well. In essence, in the real world, most people have preferences. Some go for dark hair, some go for fair hair. Some go for white skin, some go for black skin (and every shade in between the two).
You can question these preferences -- but it's pretty pointless really. Most reasonable folks would agree that in a free society, you should be able to date who-ever the hell you want. Whatever your preferences, or for whatever reason you deem fit.
Now if you think liking particular physical traits is shallow - then you may have a point. I don't doubt that. After all, beauty is only skin deep. Most of us have been raised not to judge a book by it's cover but by the contents within.
All I have to say is that if you're going to argue this type of point, you better be willing to see it through to it's logical conclusion - no half-assing. In other words, if there is an extremely obese woman who has skin like a crocodile and looks that would have made Shrek yelp out in terror but has a heart of gold, you'd better be up for dating her. Coz otherwise your point sounds like it's full of shit.
As soon as you start distinguishing features from one another you're bound to have preferences. At least, as a human in the real world. Whether for specific eye shapes/colours, nasal cavities, or whateva freaky thing you are into.
It sounds as though the OP does distinguish people for physical characteristics. For example blacks who dress like Fiddy from those who don't. And he discriminates against them. Without even knowing what they are like.
Which is pretty silly logic given that he has expressed his dislike for those of us who do have physical preferences.
To round up, I'm also a little tired of hearing rants about Muslims. My family background is Islamic (though I'm not really a strong believer in any religion), and 90% of the folks I know are the most loving, tolerant people that I know.
If Muslims break the law (by flying planes into buildings, or assisting in bombings, for example), then they should be punished.
But if they are totally law abiding -- then what exactly is your problem here?
So they have thier own cultures and customs... so be it. Lots of folks do. And providing it's within the realms of the permissable law, it's no more "weird" or "foreign" than the next lot of immigrants in a land full of them.
But perhaps the OP (who's from Sweden), doesn't really understand that.
