Where to meet a DECENT girl

Like other people have said before, things that interest you usually bring about people that you have something in common with to start. I volunteer with a lot of inner-city school kid's groups, I watch football games in sports bars every weekend, going to the gym.....I've met a lot of great guys doing all of these.

You also really do have to evaluate what kind of bars you're going to.....crowds of like-minded women usually enjoy hanging out in places together. I know there are definitely bar scenes in Kansas City that I neeeeever go to simply because there's no way I'm going to 1. Expect to have some guy buy all my drinks simply because I have a skirt riding up my ass and 2. I'm not the kind of girl to go to a bar where the dress code requires a skirt riding up my ass.:smt018

You said you like dancing...have you ever thought of taking a dance class or going to more of a social group to dance instead of just the clubs?

again....no idea what your area/interests are...just a thought;)

Side note: Can someone please explain to me why meeting someone at CHURCH is acceptable??? Since when is going to a service to reflect on your personal beliefs suddenly now an open forum for trying to find a mate??

Maybe it's because I was raised Catholic....but it just seems very strange to me.:smt104:smt104
 
GrecoJones84 said:
Hey ya'll. I got a question that is directed mostly at the ladies. I've been on the bar scene for about a year and a half now. It's a good time but all the woman i meet out there have the mentality of a middle schooler. I've become totally fed up with the shallowness and immaturity. So to all my fellas and ladies on the board where the hell are all the decent well rounded woman? I'm talking about a girl that can be on the bar scene dance and enjoy herself within moderation and can also hold a conversation on an intellectual level. I'm wide open for suggestions! Thanks.
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damn sure aint here

evidenced by OPs question and subsequent absence

:p
 
StephanieMarie said:
Like other people have said before, things that interest you usually bring about people that you have something in common with to start. I volunteer with a lot of inner-city school kid's groups, I watch football games in sports bars every weekend, going to the gym.....I've met a lot of great guys doing all of these.

You also really do have to evaluate what kind of bars you're going to.....crowds of like-minded women usually enjoy hanging out in places together. I know there are definitely bar scenes in Kansas City that I neeeeever go to simply because there's no way I'm going to 1. Expect to have some guy buy all my drinks simply because I have a skirt riding up my ass and 2. I'm not the kind of girl to go to a bar where the dress code requires a skirt riding up my ass.:smt018

You said you like dancing...have you ever thought of taking a dance class or going to more of a social group to dance instead of just the clubs?

again....no idea what your area/interests are...just a thought;)

Side note: Can someone please explain to me why meeting someone at CHURCH is acceptable??? Since when is going to a service to reflect on your personal beliefs suddenly now an open forum for trying to find a mate??

Maybe it's because I was raised Catholic....but it just seems very strange to me.:smt104:smt104
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Why not Church? I think finding someone who shares your moral values and belief in God is better than meeting someone who likes the same football team as you. Don't you think?
 
StephanieMarie said:
i find it strange to use church as a dating service. So no....i don't agree.
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Well it doesn't have to be a dating service but just a place to meet like minded people. Religion doesn't have to be so rigid. What seperates church from school or work as means to meet people who are similar to you.
 
andrae09 said:
Well it doesn't have to be a dating service but just a place to meet like minded people. Religion doesn't have to be so rigid. What seperates church from school or work as means to meet people who are similar to you.
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I never said church had to be rigid. I just see the experience of going to church as a celebration of whatever kind of spirituality you have and I see that as a very personal and unique experience for people. From my experience, there's no way that you could say that simply because someone is in the same room as you listening to all the same things....that they are similar to you. They are experiencing something entirely different than I am. And meeting guys during that time is really the last thing I'm thinking about.
 
StephanieMarie said:
I never said church had to be rigid. I just see the experience of going to church as a celebration of whatever kind of spirituality you have and I see that as a very personal and unique experience for people. From my experience, there's no way that you could say that simply because someone is in the same room as you listening to all the same things....that they are similar to you. They are experiencing something entirely different than I am. And meeting guys during that time is really the last thing I'm thinking about.
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I think the fact that you have spirituality is something great that you can build on together. I think it also gives an idea of what their mindset is opposed to other realms of interaction. You don't have to be actively seeking people out to date but its not a bad place to meet like minded people.
As far experiencing spirituality differently, I think it would be great to meet someone who experiences it all.
Love is awesome you really can't dictate or control how you'll find it. I don't se why church should be any different than the supermarket or the bar.
 
andrae09 said:
Why not Church? I think finding someone who shares your moral values and belief in God is better than meeting someone who likes the same football team as you. Don't you think?
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Cause religion is DEEPLY FLAWED, advocates HATRED and more deaths have been related to religion than anything else. Plus its used to suppress the thought process.

If you can't leave the house without praying to the Almighty first you got issues.
 
dj4monie said:
Cause religion is DEEPLY FLAWED, advocates HATRED and more deaths have been related to religion than anything else. Plus its used to suppress the thought process.

If you can't leave the house without praying to the Almighty first you got issues.
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Religion works flawlessly fam. It controls the masses mission accomplished
 
GrecoJones84 said:
Hey ya'll. I got a question that is directed mostly at the ladies. I've been on the bar scene for about a year and a half now. It's a good time but all the woman i meet out there have the mentality of a middle schooler. I've become totally fed up with the shallowness and immaturity. So to all my fellas and ladies on the board where the hell are all the decent well rounded woman? I'm talking about a girl that can be on the bar scene dance and enjoy herself within moderation and can also hold a conversation on an intellectual level. I'm wide open for suggestions! Thanks.
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If you're searching the bar, then you're in the wrong place my good man. You'll have to meet them outside of the scenes, preferably more cozy places of interest.

Try the following:

1. Coffee Shop
2. Book Store
3. Gothic Stores
4. Parks
5. Beaches

They are pretty decent starts to find a decent girl.
 
BigBrotherWise said:
If you're searching the bar, then you're in the wrong place my good man. You'll have to meet them outside of the scenes, preferably more cozy places of interest.

Try the following:

1. Coffee Shop
2. Book Store
3. Gothic Stores
4. Parks
5. Beaches

They are pretty decent starts to find a decent girl.
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LMAO! That was a joke, right? LOL
 
Was it a joke!? :-O

Arwen said:
LMAO! That was a joke, right? LOL
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My comment sort of paid homage to my ex-girlfriend. She's gothic actually. I didn't meet her through Hot Topic, but her personality going there made her feel like she's under the skies. :-P :smt066
 
GrecoJones84 said:
Hey ya'll. I got a question that is directed mostly at the ladies. I've been on the bar scene for about a year and a half now. It's a good time but all the woman i meet out there have the mentality of a middle schooler. I've become totally fed up with the shallowness and immaturity. So to all my fellas and ladies on the board where the hell are all the decent well rounded woman? I'm talking about a girl that can be on the bar scene dance and enjoy herself within moderation and can also hold a conversation on an intellectual level. I'm wide open for suggestions! Thanks.
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Top Five:

5) Nightclub/bar

4) Gentlemens club

3) The Stroll

2) Brothel

1) Chatsworth, CA
 
Gatinho said:
Top Five:

5) Nightclub/bar

4) Gentlemens club

3) The Stroll

2) Brothel

1) Chatsworth, CA
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wait what? you meet folks to have a relationships with in brothels?

are they customers or erm do you just think your dating a hooker?
 
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