White Women Are "Easy"?

[roseveltfranklin]

Theres one final thought I'd like to pass on about the CDC in particular. Its almost common knowledge in government circles that the CDC keeps two sets of books; in other words, some information is compiled and distributed for the benefit of the public, other information is compiled and distributed to gov. agencies. the difference between the two sets of books is like nite and day. For example, in public forums they say that its relatively easy to protect yourself from HIV, safe sex, etc etc... but they tell the gov. agencies a decidedly different story. For gov. agencies the story is indeed harrowing. they speak of unknown modes of transmission of the virus, robust mutations of the virus that continue to develope unchecked.... In this climate, its hard to know where the truth begins and ends. One thing we do know is that The US gov. will lie to americans in general, and black people, and other minorities in particular. anyone who doubts this need look no further than the infamous "Tuskeegee Experiment"

 

[7Seven]

The same center for disease control has said that black MEN are #1 in cases of AIDS. Newsweek, TIME, THe WAsh.POST and others have done articles saying that black men- in AMERICA, AFRICA, and the CAribbean- are the main source of AIDS infection and spread. How can you look at stats on black women and ignore worse ones in black men? Also note that the AIDS rates for black women in AMerica , Africa , and the CAribbean are being directly linked to their contact with black men NOT the reverse! Are black women in Africa sluts? Are married black women who are getting AIDS and other STDS from their black husbands-sluts? There are numerous studies and articles- including those put out by the CDC- that prove black men are infecting mostly girlfriends and wives- not just some black slut who met him 1hr before intercourse. White women on college campuses are having some of the riskiest sex in America. After colege, they will probably stop this, but during the college years, they will have more sex and with more partners in a span of 1-2 years than in any other time in their lives. Despite this, white women on predonimantly white college campuses ( who have sex with mostly white partners) are contracting AIDS, Syphilis, and other STDS at lower rates than many black females in longer term relationships. If you think these white girls are just choosing well, then you are niave about college sex and operating under the ignorant idea that someone with AIDS/stds LOOKS diseased. The CDC says gays, intravenous drug users, prostitutes, and hetero black males are the "at risk" groups. Balck woemn ,and hispanic women are the fastest growing NEW infections. Please see Wash. Post website,Newsweek, Time, and WAllstreet journal for conformation. Use keywords AIDS, black males, std's or epidemic and you will find a number of interesting facts. People , you are digging your own graves if you use statists, movies, or even so-called personal experiences to make racial slurs against black women. This is because any stat, story or movie you produce can be countered with far WORSE stats on black men, far more numerous stories of crime ,abuse, or abandonment (in DC, MD,VA are -black men are making and leaving mixed race children in droves- social services, adoption agencies and shelters are reporting that black and mixed kids are in the largest proportions in the "system" their only connection is that their fathers are black). These are Facts! That you can look up yourself! I'm not being racist-that's a red herring!! YOU CAN NOT SLUR OR REJECT ANY GROUP (white men, black women, JEWS, KOREANS...ect) that -at it's WORST- still causes less trouble,violence, hatred, misery than you. I placed this post because I have noted numerous site in the web where black men are making similar hateful and -pathological!! accusations against one group or another! Remove the term "black women" (or nigger bitches as you have said) with Jews/Kikes, white people/ crackers, asians/chinks, mexicans.ect and there are sites almost just like this one- using some greater issues( racism, black unity, urban poverty,ect) as a way to accuse other non-black men of attcking black men, spreading negative ideas/myths of black men, kiling black men, taking black men's jobs, immasculating black men,destroying the black family, putting black men in prison or poverty,being stupid, dirty or having diseases, and even palcing and keeping black men in plantation slavery!! I suppose you think the black men who are saying these things about whites(including white women) are racist and crazy, but you (by saying this and more about black females born after 1940) are perfectly sane. Racism breeeds racism folks! You will realize that in 10-15 years when your lives are worse and people hate black men MORE.

PS- Black men in AFRICA, Caribbean, and afro-latin countries LOVE white women and viciously insult, abuse, and abandon, darker black women. How rational is it of you to think that modern black American men
are justified in doing what black men AROUND THE WORLD (including America) have been doing to black women/girls for the past 100 years! New excuses for old behavior? Sorry this post is so long .I go on a number of websites in an attempt to challenge racsim, irrationality, and the justifications for it. I have defended black men and hispanic immigrants before. I don't care WHO the bigot is. They all follow a similar pattern of opinion and justificaion. God luck finding love. Judging from the opinions/tone of this sight, you'rre gonna need it.

Wow, the ingnorance is telling. I find it quite amusing that you only mention those who live in poverty, or below the poverty line. Where diease, crime, and the like is an epidemic. What about middle-upper middles class blacks? Let me guess the stats don't tell you about that huh? Those stats are general ones im afraid. But, i think you know that. Keep on with your, I hate bm speech. It is quite funny.

I think rosevelfranklin latter post pretty much 'sums' it up.

 

[blondenlovingit]

Has anyone seen this months Ebony magazine issue? It talks about how the #1 killer of black women between 20-35 in the USA is AIds. They talk of how it is due to black women being more careless sexually and having multiple partners with out protection.

 

[flaminghetero]

http://www.11alive.com/news/news_article.aspx?storyid=55521

the numbers are real. the alarming rise in HIV and AIDS is among women in general, and black women in particular.

i didnt see any articles featuring black men's HIV statistics,....

And dont forget CHINA. china has more incidents of HIV than africa... who's responsible for that? dont tell me, i think i know.....Black men...right???

Yeah..pretty soon they'll say black men caused world war 3. :shock:

WM infect women and children all over asia..especially in thailand and singapore during thier "sex vacations"

That never gets mentioned..

 

[solar flair]

White women aren't any easier than any other kind of women. They're *all* pretty easy in my experience (and that's no brag).

What's hard (for a black man) is finding one that's really down with you. Sex is so easy, it's nothing.

 

[suz]

With an ass like yours, Solar - all types of women are probably following you!

 

[solar flair]

With an ass like yours, Solar - all types of women are probably following you!

Thanks Suz!

A confession though -- that shot of my ass had been photoshopped.

Below is a real picture of my ass...

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A little hairier, but still cute??... :wink:

 

[suz]

I don't know, I think you need a good waxing

 

[HTownGirl]

To white women who date black men, what are your thoughts on this? Where do you think this characterization comes from? Have you experienced the type of scenario described above first-hand?

What are your thoughts?

That is is a shitty, juvenile stereotype.

Just as much that ww date black men because you all have big dicks.

 

[staceybrewer]

There is an opinion amongst many black women in America that black men date white women because white women are easy.

The only easy white women are the big fat white women that will have sex with whoever they want to. I haved dated white women and I can tell you that the ones I dated where never easy, sometimes we didn't have sex for weeks or until she got to know me well. If you get a white woman drunk then you can get an easy piece of ass but even that takes a while.

They advise that white women are "freaks" in bed, and will do things that a black woman's sense of dignity will not allow her to do.

I have had sex with both white and black women and the white women will just let go quicker than a black woman will. White women will do anything in bed. Black women are more conservative, reserved and have sexual hangups in bed.


They also explain that a white woman will put up with a black man's shyt, while a self-respecting, strong black woman will not. When black women see a black man walking arm-in-arm with a white woman, they will snicker amongst themselves, "That nigga couldn't handle a strong black woman. That's why he's with that white girl."

No white woman with any sense of decency would put up with any man who gives her a lot of bllshit. None of the white women I have been with ever put up with me if she did then I was out the door quicker than I could blink an eye. There are strong, independent white women and their are weak, timid ones.

To black men who date white women, do you find this "myth" to be true?

A white women is more tolerant and less likely to have a short temper and can handle problems in a relationship more than a black woman can. A black woman will loose her cool and blow her fuse and start to yell and scream at you. A white woman will talk things out or cry if she is hurt.

Are white women "easy"? Has this been your experience?

Some white women are easy. My experience with the white women I dated they where by no means easy. They are more easygoing or easy to get along with.

To white women who date black men, what are your thoughts on this? Where do you think this characterization comes from? Have you experienced the type of scenario described above first-hand?

What are your thoughts?

 

[staceybrewer]

Re: The strength of white women and black men who love them

Well, this is the first time I've heard this but here is my response:

You think I'm weak because I'm white? Like white people have no problems? Live ten years - any ten years - of my 27-year life before you decide I'm weak. Find out what it's like to be me and then make an educated decision. :?

I think white people have problems just like black people do. Black women tend to let their emotions get the best of them and they explode into rage. The white women I have dated tend to express their emotions as well but they can handle their tempers better. I think white women who are strong always speak their mind but they tend to communicate their emotions in different ways than many black women.

Perhaps the reason bm like ww is because ww can live through difficult times and become strong without becoming mouthy and tough.

That is why I like white women more than black women. Many black women are just pushy and mouthy. Their are some black women who are not this way but I haven't found very many if few that match this. White women and black women both live through difficult times but many black women have more obstacles to overcome and more barriers than many white women do.

We can have a quiet strength. We can be secure in ourselves without having to convince others of how secure we are.

That is why attracts me to white women is their quiet strength and not trying to act like they are God's gift to men. Many black women act like they are all that and assuming that many black men want to get with them. The mintue they see a black man with a a white women they are ready to roll their eyes, throw fits, and then think they are not good enough for many black men who date white women. Yet you don't see many white women going into fits of rage when they see a black woman with a white man. Some black men like black women but you are finding many more black men who like white women. That is why you will always find many black men dating outside of their race then other races of men and many counts of race-mixing among black men. That is why black men can come in more than one shade of color because of all the race-mixing.\

**edited for grammar

 

[staceybrewer]

To white women who date black men, what are your thoughts on this? Where do you think this characterization comes from? Have you experienced the type of scenario described above first-hand?

What are your thoughts?

That is is a shitty, juvenile stereotype.

Just as much that ww date black men because you all have big dicks.

The white women I have dated all tell me that some brothers are hung and others aren't. Black men generally are bigger in penis size but then so can other races of men be as well. It all depends on the type of white female that you are talking to. As for me as a black man I have been told by many white females that I have a very big dick. And then other white females have told me that they have had sex with black guys who didn't have big dicks at all. So it all varies on the type of white woman. Some men are hung like a horse and others aren't so gifted. Size matters to some white women but other white women have told that the size doesn't matter.

 

[staceybrewer]

I would like to get back to the original question.

I can honestly say that I am not "easy" in the sexual sense. When I was a teenager I decided that I wanted to remain a virgin until I was married. The fact that I have dated men of color hasn't had any impact on that decision. I'm a 28 year old virgin for God's sake, how easy could I be? lol

The white women I have dated have remained virgins and some I had sex with but their where many church white women who I didn't have sex with. I don't think you are easy but reading what you have posted.

I will say that among my group of female friends most of the objections toward non-vaginal penetration, non-missionary position sex have been made by black women. I don't know why that is the case, I can only tell you what my experience has been with my circle of friends. When I tell people that I have made this commitment to chastity (which is something that I do on very rare occasions, people usually think that I'm a loser or that I used to be really ugly and only recently started to look presentable) they usually assume that I'm frigid or a prude. I'm neither. I don't think that there is anything dirty about sex and I'm more than willing to try anything within the context of the marital bed unless it includes inflicting serious pain or involving another person. I don't think that my "free spirited" attitude has anything to do with my skin color, I think it has everything to do with having a healthy attitude toward sex.
It's my opinion that modern society has their ideas about sex completely turned around. If you understand that sex was designed by God, not only for reproductive purposes, but to make marriages strong, loving, and healthy, then you can't buy into the modern ideas about sex. So many people think that they need to have their fun before they're married and then resign themselves to a life of boring sex. That doesn't make any sense to me. Wouldn't we all be more comfortable with the person we've chosen to spend our lives with, the person we love more than anyone but God? I would think that it would be infinitely easier to indulge in fantasies with a spouse. You know that they can't go home and never call you again the next morning if you got a little too crazy. You now that you aren't going to scare them off. You can feel safe and secure in their love for you and therefore indulge in any kind of play you like.

I used to believe in waiting until you got married before having sex but I confess that more than a few times the temptation was just to strong not to say no so a few times I fell into temptation. Now I am not dating anyone right now and the temptation to have sex just isn't there as much. Oftentimes many churchgoing white females tell me that they want to have sex but their church tells them to wait until they get married. What if you never ever get married? What if you don't get married for a few years or more? There are few if any females who have waited until marriage before having sex but I have nothing against the females who believe in waiting. As a black male who has dated white women I have a lot of self-contorl and restraint when it comes to sex. I can hold off for days, weeks, months, and I even held off for a whole year. Whenever I did want to wait until marriage before having sex I was dumped by many of the churchgoing white females because they wanted to have sex and I didn't want to. So now if have sex with a white female it will when we are into a part of the relationship to where it is very serious and she loves me deeply.

Anyway, that's what I think. To each their own.

Anyway that is what I think, you have the right to disagree with me though.

 

[HTownGirl]

To white women who date black men, what are your thoughts on this? Where do you think this characterization comes from? Have you experienced the type of scenario described above first-hand?

What are your thoughts?

That is is a shitty, juvenile stereotype.

Just as much that ww date black men because you all have big dicks.

The white women I have dated all tell me that some brothers are hung and others aren't. Black men generally are bigger in penis size but then so can other races of men be as well. It all depends on the type of white female that you are talking to. As for me as a black man I have been told by many white females that I have a very big dick. And then other white females have told me that they have had sex with black guys who didn't have big dicks at all. So it all varies on the type of white woman. Some men are hung like a horse and others aren't so gifted. Size matters to some white women but other white women have told that the size doesn't matter.

Like I said, shitty juvenile stereotypes.

 

[staceybrewer]

FlamingSissy said: So that's why you're here..You want your ego stroked by disgruntled WW that have run afoul of no-good BM..You want to read horror stories about "disconnected" Brothers..hahaha...

Face it Omarosa...BM don't hate half as much as WM and BW... Face it, Rae Carruth, BM are the only ones who have to bring hate to attract women when they attempt to crossover. WW and WM rarely hate on their own to justify being with anyone. This is a propensity which makes BM unique.
Sisters always dog the BM/WW relationships but IGNORE the WM/BW couples..Ya'll never apply the "he must hate his moma" logic when WM date sisters..And BW don't cover their ears when WM trash WW either.. Again, they rarely bash WW only the individual WW they may have had a problem with. Slurring an entire demographic is a BM's domain.

If a white comic stood in front of a Black audience and said he loves BW because WW are ugly and flat-assed HE'D GET A STANDING OVATION from BW.. But this never happens since they don't hate their own people like YOU feel is necessary to curry favor with whites.
WM that date BW heave more bullshit at WW it's not even funny..And BW just SUCK IT DOWN LIKE HOGS..And I know plenty IR BW that talk mucho shit about BM..So don't come here like BM are the fuckin taliban or some shit..We ain't the ones draggin mofos to death and starting hate groups..We aren't the ones disowning our daughters and sisters because of who they date.. BW realize that if a WM hates a BM then he obviously has hatred for Blacks period. This is one concept you are YET to grasp. We don't get off on low rating BM to make WM feel better about themselves knowing we are all lumped in together in their eyesight anyway. YOU can never understand this though.
If all you have to complain about is what we say about ya'll THEN YA'LL HAVE IT MADE IN THE SHADE because women that date Brothers GO THRU A WHOLE LOT THAN BW THAT DATE WM.. I know the idea of a WW going thru BS to date BM is extremely painful for you guys. In fact, the rage renders you blind and COMPLETELY block out that it happens to BW also...but that's OK as long as the woman shares your tainted skin color.

Let's keep this shit real..

IF IT'S WRONG TO PUT-DOWN BW...THEN IT'S WRONG TO PUT DOWN WW.. I agree, but you're only bothered if it's a WW that's put down and you rise up and cheer if a BW is going through hell for the same thing.
IF IT'S WRONG TO BLAME EVERYTHING ON THE WM..THEN IT'S WRONG TO BLAME EVERYTHING ON THE BM... I agree with this too, however, you can't be objective in matters concernings whites period. You think WM block you from getting white and nonblack women since they prefer WM over you. And you cannot see anything wrong when WW exacerbate problems when they stir up shit with BW. You forget it wasn't that long ago when you got lynched just for looking in their direction.

You should be the last mofo coming here complaining about what people say about BW..Because you talk TOO MUCH SHIT YOURSELF.. We have a right to defend ourselves whenever and whereever we see fit. TOWMOTOR101, you have never had a problem when WW came on Blackvoices spouting BS that BM have told them. Don't think this shit remains on the messageboards. It's played out everywhere. Make no mistake about this.
Let's look at the celebs..

I don't ever see or hear WW hating on Robert DeNiro or Bill Maher for exclusively dating BW...EVER... You know why you don't hear WW hating on them? Because WM never step out (like Wesley Snipes, OJ and Wilt Chamberlain) to publicly hate on WW just to gain favor from BW. Only YOU believe these antics are crucial to getting attention from WW. You truly do not understand how pathetic and desperate you appear when employing these tactics.
But let Denzell stand next to a WW too long..Arsenio couldn't even shake hands with a WW without sisters grumbling..But Star Jones or Oprah can lick Micheal Douglas' dick on the air and ya'll won't utter a peep. Some BM don't feel it's necessary to pander to WW the way you desire them to do because they notice it comes from white society in general on a regular basis anyway. So they don't need to buckdance and coon to make BM like YOU feel you are somehow gaining ground and parity with WM. BM like you behave so clownish and over the top in the presence of WW you have many of them thinking ALL BM crave their skin, and this annoys and embarrass BM who aren't like YOU.
If Timberlake was a Brother BW woulda' CRUCIFIED him for exposing a "sister" like that in public..We woulda' heard all the plattitudes abouts no-good,disrespecful BM,and the poor sisters they abuse..But since it was a white boy involved..the flack from BW was comparatively small.. This is BS also! BM and BW both were angry about the treatment Janet Jackson received while Justin Timberlake skated off like the innocent lily white. She was crucified but he was cowardly and came out smelling like a rose. You're the only one who can never be counted on to be objective in anything since you believe the white hype more than they do.
BUT DO BM CARE WHO SISTERS DATE...NOPE... Towmotor101, you bragged on Blackvoices about how belligerent you became after observing a BW/WM together even though you were with a WW at that moment yourself! You gloated that the WM had the good sense to walk away from your ignorant goading. You had your WW right there and still acted a fool in her presence.
Sade didn't even date BM or put us in her videos but WE STILL HELP MAKE HER RICH...Lena Horne sure had a lot of Brothers buying her records and going to her shows..Do you think WM would buy Shania Twains records IF SHE NEVER DATED WM OR PUT THEM IN HER VIDEOS??...HELL NOW... Whites never put Nicole Kidman down for dating a BM, nor did it affect her career or those of Carmen Electra, Madonna or Calista Flockhart to name a few. You're so desperate for WW to step out and claim you as if it will open a floodgate of WW seeking BM. Any WW who really wants to be with you will do just that.

Look at the black directors that employ BW that have never been seen with a BM..You think White directors hire WW that won't even touch them..? The only reason black directors employ BW is to make a profit on their productions. What you don't understand is whites don't disconnect entirely from their people unless they have no other options but to be your queen. WW usually tell everyone straight up they can date BM and can still have feelings for their own. BM feel they have to go for broke and are disappointed when WW don't reciprocate.
Go to blackvoices and read the "tom cruise/jada pinkett" thread on the Entertainment board.. I don't have to go and read that thread anymore than the ones BM put up to praise nonblack women. If you're familiar with BV then you already know about this too.
BW(the same ones that hate BM/WW couples) are wetting themselves over the possibility that Jada is cheating on her Black husband for Mr Charlie..And some of the same females have the gall to start threads about the Black family.. You're just bothered that some BW do the same things that BM do to rub shit in our faces, and you join right along in those cases. BW are please to see a beautiful couple like Jada and Will together. Look how you jumped for joy when when a Black male dancer cheated on his pregnant wife with Brittany Spears. Look how you rejoiced when Seal's white girlfriend was dumped while she was pregnant by her white lover and he ran back to her. Nevermind that she dumped Seal for this Italian in the first place. All that matters was that she gave him another chance to serve.

When WW go on Black sites and say they like BM they get FLAMED..But if a WM shows up and says he likes BW HE GETS MUCH LOVE FROM THE SAME HATERS.. The WW usually show up to start shit with garbage BM have filled their heads with and you participate in the feeding frenzy, Towmotor101.

Many of you BM are highly frustrated and bothered because more of you yearn for white and nonblack women and the feeling is not nearly the same on their end. When you run on a platform that behooves you to wipe your feet on BW to endear yourselves to whites and others you make yourself look bad and undesirable as mates. If you were known to do right by your own you'd have a much better chance in this arena. It's not easy when you have to approach WW carefully in case they are repulsed by your advances, when they and nonblack women prove over and over again they prefer WM over you, but will use you as a BULL for sexual services while their husbands watch and videotape all the action to view and show their friends later. What a consolation prize that legions of you are all too willing to accept...guess it's better than nothing. However, some of you view WW as unsuspecting prey with a bottomless pit of patience and sympathy who will set things right in your life financially and otherwise. Some of you mess this up and make it harder for the next BM...then you can't understand why no one wants an evil knuckledragging cretin as a mate, and I am talking specifically about YOU.

I have read your post and as a black man it doesn't bother me to see a black woman with a white man. If that white man likes that big black booty and loves that black woman who am I to hate on that sister? I don't care what a white man dates, men are men and they can date whoever they want to. Your right in that you don't see many white women bashing black women for dating white men but brothers who hate to see a black woman with a white man need to check themselves first. Maybe it has to do with love and not the color of their skin? Since I date white women I get many comments from black women that I am a sell-out, black woman hater, and that there are not enough good black women for me. I don't care what the black women think and many black female that are my friends have no problem with a black man dating a white woman. Those kind of black females who hate on the brothers for being with white women wouldn't be any friends of mine in the first place.

 

[fly girl]

Maybe it has to do with love and not the color of their skin?

:wink: I couldnt agree more.

 

[tuckerreed]

I dont know if WW women are easy, are black women easy? I see tons of black women who are not married and teens who have children out of wedlock, so I guess the question should be, Are black women easy?

White women I would say are not more easy than any other women, they may be more open and direct but they are not any more Easy

 

[staceybrewer]

Are White Women Easy?

:lol:
As a black man who has dated only pretty hot sexy white women with hot bodies I can say that not all white women are easy. It seems like any hot-looking white woman with a sexy body and a nice face is always never easy unless you are extremely rich or just a superstud in bed. In my personal experience it seems like the white women who go to clubs to pick up black men are only easy to certain black men who have it going on. I think there are just as many easy black women as there are white women so a lot of it depends on how the white women is approached and how she responds to your advances.

 

[tuckerreed]

I agree, Stacey--most of the white women I know and all that I have dated or been in relationships with were Never easy. I treated them with respect, they treated themselves with respect and treated me respectfully.

most men go after easy prey, whatever the race.white women tend to be more open to having a conversation or accepting an offer to dance and get to know someone, while I see most black women at the club, even the unattractive ones, acting as if they are entitled to something and waiting for mr perfect--sistahs!!! its just a dance ok??

why are 69% of black women in the situation where they will never be married and cant find a decent brotha?? well it isnt because they are not easy, its because they are often not receptive to a good man and want a stereotype of a man. There are many white women in that category too, but doesnt make any one race easier than the other

 

[LaydeezmanCris]

I can honestly say that there is a double standard when it comes to black women/white men and black men/white women. Its seemingly "acceptable" for black women to date white men and those black women who do it don't get labeled with derogatory names like "Aunt Jemima", "Tom" and what not. but when black men do the exact same thing, such are the horrible, unjustifiable insults inflicted on them. Its really strange and tragic. Black women complain that they don't have a good stock of Black men to choose from, but then they do everything they can to push those same Black men away...and usually to women from other races. For example, they want the thugs, gangstas for a reason anonymous to me but they fail to realize these men are of no good to them. They see hard-working, upright black men like myself as wimps and nerds. But when we become successful tomorrow, they then expect us to date them. How on earth is that possible? how can you build a house where there is no foundation to start with? These women want the thugs and the good black men get taken by women of other races who want them. Then, the next comments are, "Oh, what a sellout!!!!!", "cant he get his ass a black woman", "typical house negro"; i could go on for ever.
Its harder for me to talk to Black women in a new social setting, they're more demanding of me without the compliment of being equally giving, they are more critical of my actions and motivations, they are less tolerant of my lifestyle and interests...the list goes on and on. Honestly, I feel like the question should be: DO BLACK WOMEN REALLY WANT US?
My experience with Black women has usually been negative while I can honestly say that I have only had one terrible experience with a White woman in my life. Why is that? I'm not a thug, or someone who needs a submissive female in his life (I believe that men and women should be submissive to each other equally), and I find Black women to be attractive. I am a professional, no criminal record, I own property with my girlfriend, I have a Bachelors degree, I come from a solid family where my mother and father were very equal in power and importance. So what is it, really? I've dated Black women that were recovering drug addicts, dancers, teachers, college students and fashion designers. The experiences have all been similar in regards to the negative issues that, in the end, pushed me away: attitude, games, hostility, intolerance, insecurity, ostentatious. It makes me angry to even think about.
When I would visit a club, its white and Hispanic women that would flirt with me and accept an offer to dance. When I offer women compliments in the course of my day, Black women often respond with a glare or a mumbled thanks while other women will smile, thank me, and offer one back. The list goes on...
A lot of black men are slipping into the hands of non-black women but its mostly black women's faults and no one else. White women are not on some mission to steal all of the Black men, and Black men are not forming movements to go out and be with other races - but its happening more and more.
I just wish someone - a Black woman particularly - would take a look at what BLACK WOMEN are doing to push their men away in larger and larger numbers.