tucker, thank goodness many threads have expired but I can't help but feel you do not even believe what you just wrote here. I've been reading this forum for 3 years and recognize many inconsistencies. You revived this thread after months of inactivity just to take a swipe at black women. Silver also picked you out on that thread dedicated to saying positive things about bw and we know why. The thing about you is I think you are indiscriminate in your disdain for blacks equally IRL. I forget the title but you started a thread about your total lack of affinity for bw and how you can only view them a certain way. Feeling as you do it's only natural that you are given to display your unbridled contempt at times, which I feel is couched in rejection for the most part. I believe you naturally treat blacks differently than whites and therefore you get different types responses as well. I remember a very interesting comment you made when it crystalized that ww who deal with you do not have hatred for wm and do not encourage it from others. If you notice I don't post on all topics, but I think it's crucial for bw to at least know about men like you whether they comment here or not. I've learned some invaluable lessons that I share with others.tuckerreed said:
White Women Are "Easy"?
- Thread starter Zen_Disciple
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This thread was started by a bm, who eventually to his surprise, ended up dating a bw. BM love to regale others about their exploits with ww but always manage to find a way to drag bw in mire somehow. I was reading threads on another board and a ww posed a question to a bm about why they always say the same dirty about bw. He replied that it was a smokescreen designed to tell them what they wanted to hear. I got the feeling she was expecting something different. Some bm are extremely zealous when they first start dating IR and come with a lot of negativity towards bw to jump things off. After they settle down they sometimes become more realistic and balanced it appears.justhereforaminute said:
tucker, some people make a conscious choice to view and treat black and white differently and that's all there is to it. I've seen movies and read books depicting white men as doggish as any other man, and there's plenty in the media everyday about incidents between wm/ww. Your craving has nothing to do with bw but with what ww are supposed to represent in this society. I can only hope for basic civility from you or any bm, but it gets sickening how you and others merely repeat a "movie" title or "phrases" like they are your mantra but can find all kinds of forgiveness for any woman as long as she's not black. Yes, some major damage has been done from which we will never recover so I hope you guys can make some serious inroads with whites for the coming years.tuckerreed said:see now sistah, we are speaking the same lingo. i dont understand black people tearing down one another either. I love my black people, especially when they are acting right, but I cant stand negroes(like chris rock says) when all they do is play a victim(white man did this to us, this country is racist, etc).
I am old enough to remember the old days when there was no affirmative action. black folks owned businesses in Jim Crow South, black folks when to college and universities in Jim Crow South, black folks had our own in Jim Crow South, Black folks loved one another in Jim Crow South and we were proud and we still did the right thing. Then came integration and our schools went to secular humanist hands and all was lost. Now all we depend upon is a handout from rich whites(called Scholarships) or even worse, Government Programs. we were independent once and now we think the Democratic party is our new savior, liberalism our new God.
We have forgotten to treat the black elderly with respect. we have forgotten that black women are beautiful and need our protection as men, we have forgotten(BW) that you are women first, you are nurturers, made to be feminine and soft, not to try to be hard like men. we have forgotten that it is not white liberal handouts that take care of our children or the socialist democratic party government, but it is US, We take care of our own.
If I have made a desparaging remark about any black woman I beg your forgiveness, i personally apologize. I love black women, but because of the state of society black people have lost our way. and we no longer share the sme community space and ideals we once did. Now, it is WW who are being more nurturing and feminine(not all and not all sistahs are hard). But many brothers feel that they have to compete and fight with a sistah, when they want to be loved and cared for. sistahs feel that the black man has let them down and they have been emasculated by the welfare state(black victimhood perpetuates the ghetto and welfare state mentality and white liberals love to see us as Projects to save) and cant support, stand up and protect and raise their children. We let white Liberalism/socialism turn us from men to sex objects and addicts, we let liberalism/socialism turn us into refugees and lost souls.
I agree with all that you have said and i will retract what I have said about what you were writing before. I see your point now. I wish that there were more sistahs out there who could speak to this deadly divide and start a dialog with the community, not competing but communicating.
in grad school I had two wonderful black women as apartment mates, and i could have these convos with them--but we drifted because they wanted to date thugs, who ultimately let them down, impregnated them, beat them up or used them(probably because they didnt have positive male role models) and because I was seen as a nerdy brother and sistahs dont dig that.
the dialog should start with trying not to control each other, not trying to say who is black enough and who isnt. I was born to a black mother and a black(multiracial) father. I am as black as they come color wise. history wise, knowledge of my family, and peoples history, I am blacker than most, especially the bros and sisters who dont know their own family history, never owned anything solely black and dont know where they come from in the motherland or here.
then we can move forward to a brighter day
tuckerreed
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lexington, please post that thread, where did I have disdain for any woman?
tuckerreed
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and bw knowing about me is their right if they so choose, this is not a website for bw, so it would make no sense for them to have a problem.
again, where did i say i have "disdain" for bw. Just because I dont date them, as I have written earlier, doesnt mean I wouldnt if I were dating.
again, where did i say i have "disdain" for bw. Just because I dont date them, as I have written earlier, doesnt mean I wouldnt if I were dating.
tucker you've made numerous comments where you couldn't contain your contempt for bw, but I guess it comes natural for you. You once had something negative to say about bw taking out loans to get an education. Does that ring a bell? This is one of the threads I was referring to, and it explains everything IMO.tuckerreed said:
http://www.whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=2753
kissing, dating a black woman is like kissing your sister!?
I find that dating a black woman often times felt like being with my own biological sister, so I had no emotional, sexual attraction to most black women growing up.
Has anyone else felt that way?
this is for white women too, who might have had the same experience with white men??
tucker, when you can only view whites through loving rose colored glasses, it's natural that you would overlook everything that you zero in on blacks. I think it would be a great experience if you were sent to rural, small and midsize cities to deal with the crystal meth crowd and witness a few first hand. You don't even have to travel that far to come in contact with crude and coarse behavior from nonblacks but it's far easier for you to empathize with and give them a free pass due to your natural affinity for that group. I don't see how it's possible for you to be objective on any matters concerning blacks.tuckerreed said:
Silvercosma
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Lexington said:
That's all you can come up with? You really do have some problems .... :roll:
tuckerreed
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what does crystal meth whites in the small, rural towns have to do with disdain for black people? please point out where I said whites were better. again, this is BM/WW website, and I dont see what you are saying has anything to do with it.
thanks silver, i was thinking of the same thing. the only thing i said that kissing a black woman, to me feels alot like kissing my sister--they look alike and thats weird to me.
that is not being disdainful of black people though.
thanks silver, i was thinking of the same thing. the only thing i said that kissing a black woman, to me feels alot like kissing my sister--they look alike and thats weird to me.
that is not being disdainful of black people though.
tucker, think back to why silver pulled your card for having the nerve to say something positive about black women. There was obviously a reason for it.tuckerreed said:
You keep talking about blacks are hard and coarse so I brought up that instance so you could take a good look at those you defend so fiercely.
tuckerreed
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where did I say blacks were hard and coarse? and please in context of the entire statement
Here's one instance here:tuckerreed said:
tucker, you've made several statements similar to this, yet you fall head over heels for women who hunt and do all kinds of things normally considered quite masculine. There is one thing I'd like you remember...in everything you write about blacks your whites are no different. Refer to your post where I took the above quote from. Why don't you address why silver checked you for saying something complimentary towards bw?
tuckerreed
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Lexington,
Evidently, you dont read very well. If you did you would know that when I made that statement it was in the context of talking with justhereaminute about building strong black families and why we were in such a mess, thus the word "WE".
Again, what does women who hunt have to do with this topic? I know black women who hunt and fish too, but this forum is about Black Men and White Women. The WEbsite is for black men and white women who date Interracially to share ideas of mutual interests, share ideas of mutual attraction, and with the personals perhaps even date. I am still curious why you are here if you are not a White Woman and do not understand what the website is for. I know you are here to harrass black men who do not fit your mold but I am unclear what my statements to justhereaminute have to do with your attacks. READ the entire thing first before picking out one piece and trying to twist it.
i see you are trolling
Evidently, you dont read very well. If you did you would know that when I made that statement it was in the context of talking with justhereaminute about building strong black families and why we were in such a mess, thus the word "WE".
Again, what does women who hunt have to do with this topic? I know black women who hunt and fish too, but this forum is about Black Men and White Women. The WEbsite is for black men and white women who date Interracially to share ideas of mutual interests, share ideas of mutual attraction, and with the personals perhaps even date. I am still curious why you are here if you are not a White Woman and do not understand what the website is for. I know you are here to harrass black men who do not fit your mold but I am unclear what my statements to justhereaminute have to do with your attacks. READ the entire thing first before picking out one piece and trying to twist it.
i see you are trolling
tucker, you evidently have a short memory span if you can dismiss all the negativity you've spewed about bw on this board. It's funny how you keep reminding folks who this board is designated for yet you consistently make reference to bw to counter any negativity towards ww. That's exactly what you did to revive this old thread. At some point you've called everyone a troll so it really has no meaning.tuckerreed said:
I must commend you on your diversionary tactics but the fact remains that a ww (and certainly her opinion is a valid one, right?) called you a hypocrite for complimenting bw because she understood and took your previous comments as a reflection of your true feelings. tucker, I can assure you that I could never begrudge a man who openly and proudly refers to himself as an Oreo and Uncle Tom his birthright to love ww. I've been reading your amusing comments for 3 years and your story has changed dramatically. Keep up the good work my blueblooded friend!
Silvercosma
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Lexington said:
One time you state that Tucker "has the nerve to say something positive about BW", next time you claim he has "nothing but disdain for BW". For heavens sake, if you can't resist to manufacture your own realities, stay at least with one version.
What I and Tucker argue about is no concern of yours, but if you can't stay out of our business, then at least make sure that you have the mental capacity to understand WHAT we are arguing about.
I know that you love to trick yourself into believing that everything we talk about here is about you, but I have to disappoint you: My argument with Tucker and some other men on this site had nothing to do with you or BW in general, it was all about a WW who was criticized by some men for talking about her non-black boyfriend.
If you could take off your blinders of hatred for only a few minutes, you would see that there are many Black men on this side who at several times expressed their positive feelings for BW, and that there are even Black men on this side who are currently in relationships with non-white women. You will not find even one post by a WW complaining about it, or criticizing them for their opinion.
When will you learn to tailor your concepts to fit reality, instead of trying to stuff reality into your concepts??
You and I know damn well what prompted you to call tucker a hypocrite when he offered those fake compliments on bw in that particular thread. In a way I don't blame you because no wm would ever worship and adore you to the extent that he does. You're that distinct kind who openly attempts to bond with bm using their hatred for bw as your trump card and that's abundantly clear. On another note anything placed on internet messageboards is never just between certain individuals and that's why you feel free to pipe in with the usual drivel no matter who comments are actually directed towards. Even you aren't that stupid to believe you have business no one else can take note off.Silvercosma said:
PhillyLove3242
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Zen_Disciple said:
I wouldn't say this is true, at all. However, my experiences have led me to conclude that, on average, White women are more sexually open and adventurous than Black women. My experiences with both races have been pretty consistent: Black women are a lot less willing to be wild, sexy, slutty, or loose with themselves, even with their man, than White women are. Again, these are only MY experiences so I can't speak for everyone.
It was deleted but here's another place where she made reference to it and inserted the hyperlink when she took a swipe at Tucker on this thread below which is still current. You may have seen it already.justhereforaminute said:
http://whitewomenblackmen.com/forum...start=15&sid=0f3d34d12a236421952394f36d62a942
Why I love fat white women!
silver: One just needs to count who posted most often in this forum to see who the real hypocrite is.
MistressB, don't waste your time with jealous fakers.