Marriage is hardly a priority to many BW...you can't it all on BM. I asked my cousin why she didn't marry the guy she had a baby with and she looked at me like I was speaking Cantonese. It NEVER even occured to her.
It's actually hitting a soft spot with YOU and those others that...for some reason...TRY to make Black men the most dangerous oppressors of gays on earth. Fuck outta' here with that shit. Compare our treatment of gays to LATINOS...ARABS AND REDNECKS..Brothers are like ANGELS compared to those mofos.
Nah Bruh....There are no ANGELS when it comes to gay bashing: http://www.religiondispatches.org/archive/sexandgender/267/can_a_morehouse_college_man_be_openly_gay ^^^A guy almost got killed at MoreHouse College, simply for being gay.
And why do you think that sista doesn't value marriage....many of them don't grow up with a FATHER in the home so they don't know what to do with a good man if he walked up and threw eggs in her face. This is a "chicken or egg" type problem...and no....I'm not going to say that everything is BM's fault...but considering there are hardly any sistas on here....I"m going to speak to the audience that is here.
I'm sorry that I'm not one of those Negroes that thinks that all BM's shit doesn't stink. I love being a brotha but I recognize our shortcomings...just because you "made it" and are (I presume)...educated, accomplished etc...doesn't mean WE have made it. I'm not as easily satisfied as some of you...we have to start aiming higher than just 2nd string. Maybe some of y'all are ok being the white man's lapdog...but I'm not. If you don't have the heart to criticize and analyze your own...you might as well dig that 6 foot deep plot and start digging. Besides...I have never said that Latinos, Arabs or Rednecks were NICER than brothas to gays...I'm only talking about us in a vaccum. I'm going to tell y'all this one time...stay on topic and don't go off topic again.:smt068
And you got the nerve to call yourself "hung brother"...now who is living up to stereotypes again? Pardon me Mandingo while I go take a walk:vom:
In other words...hate but don't lynch...got it. And callin' yourself "hung brother" instead of...I dunno...educated, charming, funny brotha etc....yeah we have a self hating negro in this house...it's negroes like you that keep us down...."you can't criticize black people because it's anti-black"....sounds like you want us to remain a notch below on the totem pole....
But I am assuming you have qualities beyond your dick size...if you are so much about uplifting the black man...you wouldn't name yourself something that conforms to the worst bm stereotypes...even if it's true.
And what are you gonna do.......... exactly nothing if you are a homophobe it's ok...but you don't have to get upset just because the WW now know it...stand up for your beliefs but don't get mad at me for being the WWBM's Personal Truth Serum!
I just think there's more to life and relationships than the size of a man's dick. I think it's pretty childish and in bad taste to go around talking about the size of your dick and the size of dick someone prefers. I also don't think it's very mature to use what some white women say in the Personals as an excuse for your own behavior. JMO. If that makes me a prude, then so be it. This is not the Personals.