Very good point When I see a brotha with a fine white girl I won't lie I give an internal thumbs up to them, like do your thing playa, but wouldn't try to cockblock the dude. Shit I want to see more IR couples, plus there are so many different personalities of black men and white women that doesn't mean one size fits all. I'm more eclectic/jazz/lounge/cafe/chillout/downtempo style, so if a chick is looking for a swagged out thug I wouldn't be the black man for her, ya heard. I like intelligent women that exude class, style and femininity so if she is loud and hood rat acting, we won't have anything to say to each other.
Oh, damn this is the truth right here. I have no idea why so many black dudes do this. It's not just with white women either.
Now y'all remind of this dude who worked at my job, every time I was talking to a chick this motherfucker would jump in my got damn conversation looking at it as a opportunity.
lol it be like that sometimes. I try not to be rude one time I just got really pissed and was like "DAMN MAN! AIN'T NOBODY TALKING TO YOU!!!"
lol...... LOL you never know: maybe the girl was waiting for the "cockblocker" to save her from your lameness eh? Maybe you were boring her to death and her eyes signaled the cock blocker to approach her eh? Either way, in a free world, where free will exists, every woman is free for the taking. Fuck your feelings
I totally remember our conversations on this topic. I agree that guys who think of themselves as Alphas get emboldened and feel like "Thanks for warming up the meal, now I will sit down to feast." LMAO It happens to me all the time. I think it's funny, even when the woman goes off with the guy or they hook up later.
It doesn't seem like an ALPHA move to eat off someone else's plate. But yea my friend...yea she's a bit more touchy feely on me heh.
i thought of this very subject yesterday when my gf told me that a lot of the black guys hit on her now, especially since some of them have seen me with her.
What it amounts to is a subtle form of disrespect....You are right in the sense that they are gaging the woman thru her interaction with you to see first if she is approachable and accepting of black men....But then the disrespect comes in the form that they are actually signaling to the woman that they are a more viable option than you.............."Look at over here and upgrade to me honey,...... I look better, I dress better, my wrap is more intoxicating, my program offers you more".......Black players, particularly professional ballers, do have that mind-set...... To make things worst, many women are starry-eyed and do allow themselves to be wooed away if the overall package is better than yours........Your best bet in retaining her is if she is wise and perceptive enough to discern your good intentions from the ulterior motives of the player.........
Any ethnicity of men may do this very thing. Say you're seeking a Latina and a Latin man feels he has more to offer her, he may do the exact same thing. Or if you're seeking a Middle Eastern woman, or a WW. It can happen many different ways, for many different reasons. Ultimately, if she chooses another man instead of you after all you've done, it wasn't meant to be. This is the game of 'cockblocking'. It's a dirty game but it happens all the time.
Big bank takes little bank...survival of the fittest...only the strong survive...etc. It's just how nature works. I personally don't do it, because I'm just not that thirsty.
I don't think I've read anything that's makes more sense and as coherent as this was from arch. Indeed LA.
You motherfuckas are hilarious. None of you are as smooth as you pretend to be youre not taking anyones girl away. Youre allowing a scandaloys ho to do what she does. Hop from one dick to the next. Enjoy the ride but dont act like your "game" is good enough to talk a decent xhick into leaving a decent dude. Besides pussy aint no prize that shit is everywhere. Now a womans heart is a different matter all together
