'Why I Prefer Black Men': A White Woman's Story

[Sabinne]

You quoted things I wrote in an unrelated discussion, which is stupid and racist.

If you say something and think it, why does it matter where you say it? How is it racist to quote someone? A person doesn't hate a particular race because they quoted something a person of that race said. I don't understand your logic.

I didn't say it in this conversation, so it does matter. What part of that don't you understand? Especially if you are no better than what you claim to be against (using black men only for sex) but then, argue with me about it just because you don't like my opinion about the article, but somehow still agree with me, like a racist. The only faulty logic in here is yours, continuously playing the victim over and over again. You don't have to hate another race to be racist. All you can do is put words in our mouths out of denial, like a troll. Pathetic.

Okay...so if say, President Bush said that he didn't give a shit about New Orleans and all the black people there could die twice, it wouldn't count later? No one could bring that up again later when discussing his choice about say...a Supreme Court Justice? Your argument for it being a different discussion means nothing. You said it and that's that.

 

[SardonicGenie]

You quoted things I wrote in an unrelated discussion, which is stupid and racist.

If you say something and think it, why does it matter where you say it? How is it racist to quote someone? A person doesn't hate a particular race because they quoted something a person of that race said. I don't understand your logic.

I didn't say it in this conversation, so it does matter. What part of that don't you understand? Especially if you are no better than what you claim to be against (using black men only for sex) but then, argue with me about it just because you don't like my opinion about the article, but somehow still agree with me, like a racist. The only faulty logic in here is yours, continuously playing the victim over and over again. You don't have to hate another race to be racist. All you can do is put words in our mouths out of denial, like a troll. Pathetic.

Okay...so if say, President Bush said that he didn't give a shit about New Orleans and all the black people there could die twice, it wouldn't count later? No one could bring that up again later when discussing his choice about say...a Supreme Court Justice? Your argument for it being different discussion means nothing. You said it and that's that.

Why would it be important if it's a different discussion? That's dumb, and there is no way you can make sense out of that, especially when you are just trying to change the subject again.

 

[Sabinne]

You quoted things I wrote in an unrelated discussion, which is stupid and racist.

If you say something and think it, why does it matter where you say it? How is it racist to quote someone? A person doesn't hate a particular race because they quoted something a person of that race said. I don't understand your logic.

I didn't say it in this conversation, so it does matter. What part of that don't you understand?

I didn't say it didn't matter, you did. My whole point is that what you say does matter, no matter if it's this discussion or another. You can't stomp your foot and cry about not saying it in this discussion. You still said it.

 

[SardonicGenie]

You quoted things I wrote in an unrelated discussion, which is stupid and racist.

If you say something and think it, why does it matter where you say it? How is it racist to quote someone? A person doesn't hate a particular race because they quoted something a person of that race said. I don't understand your logic.

I didn't say it in this conversation, so it doesn't matter. What part of that don't you understand?

I didn't say it didn't matter, you did. My whole point is that what you say does matter, no matter if it's this discussion or another. You can't stomp your foot and cry about not saying it in this discussion. You still said it.

As if you have a good point. What I said doesn't matter because I wasn't talking about the same thing when I said it. It doesn't make a difference if I did say it. It doesn't prove you right. It only makes you seem even more petty than usual to bring it up. Just because I disagree with you, and wrote something else in another unrelated thread that you half-quoted just to show more of your ignorance doesn't automatically change everything you said in this thread that I can go back and quote. Still learning, I see.

 

[Sabinne]

part of it is her arrogance and when others tell her that the view of looking for a date for sex with a black man, is very offensive and racist

Does this mean you don't look for dates with white women?

 

[SardonicGenie]

At first, you claim that there's nothing wrong with only wanting sex from black men, and then you contradicted yourself about it throughout the discussion, but still think that you are right, and I never said that I only wanted sex from white women, in fact, most of the men in here don't say things like that, nor write articles about it, which you would probably have a problem with, unless it's a white woman.

You're not even trying. It's almost like you don't care how idiotic you sound.

 

[Sabinne]

As if you have a good point. What I said doesn't matter because I wasn't talking about the same thing when I said it. It doesn't make a difference if I did say it. It doesn't prove you right. It only makes you seem even more petty than usual to bring it up. Just because I disagree with you, and wrote something else in another unrelated thread that you half-quoted just to show more of your ignorance doesn't automatically change everything you said in this thread that I can go back and quote. Still learning, I see.

I do find white skin attractive on a woman

Do you know the difference between being attracted to someone's body part, or simply the color of their skin? Seems like you don't...

Fuss all you like. You said you were attracted to white skin and then called a woman racist because she said she was attracted to black skin.

 

[tuckerreed]

absolutely right Sardonic, no one here said that they only went out looking exclusively for white women, that would be wrong. If a nice woman of any color is interested in me and I in her, then thats a great thing. my preference, based on experience, things we have in common, attraction is first for WW but they are not the only people and i dont use them for sex. Its about the individuals personality, interests shared and looks.

 

[Sabinne]

At first, you claim that there's nothing wrong with only wanting sex from black men, and then you contradicted yourself about it throughout the discussion, but still think that you are right, and I never said that I only wanted sex from white women, in fact, most of the men in here don't say things like that, nor write articles about it, which you would probably have a problem with, unless it's a white woman.

You're not even trying. It's almost like you don't care how idiotic you sound.

I wasn't denying a thing that I said. I have admitted to whatever faults I may possess. If thinking a black man is sexy and then having consensual sex with him is wrong, you'll have to hate me. My boyfriend is a sexy man and I fuck him every chance I get.

You have a reading comprehension issue, which I can't even attempt to help you with. If you deny scientific facts that even fourth graders know to be true, a lesson in reading is quite beyond you.

 

[tuckerreed]

Sardonic, this troll needs to be reported

 

[PearlGirl]

After I finally took the time to read through all this, I still don't understand what all the attacks against Sabinne are about.

To see skin color in the same way like for instance hair color, eye color, breast size or what have you, in short just like any other physical characteristic, is in my book not a racist notion. If it would be a racist notion, than 99,9% on this side here are racists as well, since we all have expressed our preference for certain ("black" or "white") features at one time or the other.

If sex only relationships are an okay-way-of-life for you, logic dictates that you will have those sex only relationships with people you are attracted to and not with people you are not attracted to. That means, if you are attracted to blackmen, you will have sex-only relationships with black men, and if you are attracted to white men, you will have sex-only relationships with white man. Quite simple, isn't it? Or do you seriously believe that there are people who have casual sex with non-attracive people only, but long term relationships with attractive people only? Sounds quite silly to me.

I'm very surprised about the bigotry expressed by some of the men here. There are countless posts and some hundred pictures objectifying white women. Men here are commenting their breast sizes, their body shapes, toe length, hair colors, eyes, etc etc, etc, there are also many posts about one night stands with white women, "friends with benefits" relationships, posts about how and if white women suck dicks, the way we fuck and ride and if sex with "white" is "better" than sex with "black", but, sadly enough, no posts asking us about our daily lives, dreams, goals, hobbies, cultural customs, etc. No, there are no posts about that, it's all about how do we look, are we good in bed, will we still look right when we get older and will white women from other countries appreciate black men, and that's about it. But now all over sudden everybody wants to get touchy and develops a holier than you attitude. All I have to say about this is: don't throw stones if you are sitting in a glasshouse!

Yeah, being objectified is no fun, and I guess if somebody knows about it, then it's black men and white women, since we are the ones who are objectified most often. There we have the mandingo - well hung but with no brain, there we have the stupid blondes who can do nothing right but spreading their legs, there we have the testosterone driven black animal, doing nothing but chasing after women all day long, and there we have the redhaired vamp, the man-eating nymphomaniac. The porno industries live from the display of giant black dicks and oversized white breasts attached to anorexic bodies. But instead of teaming up in this mess we obviously have nothing better to do than to start a pissing contest about who is the most pitiful victim?

Last but not least:
The day people can express their preference for an individuals skin color with the same implicitness as they can express their preference for any other physical characteristic without causing havoc, is the day we will know that we overcame racism.

I could not agree with you more.


I am completely bored with this topic.
All of you are just running around in circles.
Let's move on.

 

[tuckerreed]

pearl if you are bored with it, move on dear, or start your own topic. there are plenty to choose from also

 

[Silvercosma]

Sardonic, this troll needs to be reported

Black skin is very sexy and I date black men exclusively.

There, I said it.

Now report me along with her.

 

[tuckerreed]

sure

 

[tuckerreed]

I owe Sabine an apology, she has her right to think the way she chooses and i think that my charge of racist was wrong as well, sorry

 

[lainarain]

In my opinion, Sabinne shouldn't be banned. She hasn't said anything worse than other posters have said.

Also for the record, I never called her a racist. I was trying to make her aware that white people have racism embedded within them through white privilege. It is society's making in how we are. I have admitted on this site some thoughts or words I have said that are racist. Does that make me racist? A little bit, probably. However, what do I do with those racist thoughts? I have chosen to use that awareness, that I have the capacity of racism, to be anti-racist. How can you work against something that you are not aware of.

Thirdly, I never said she wasn't intelligent. I said that there were people on this site who did not have the formal education that she and I have. However, their words and ideas can be just as intelligent and just as worthy - and often, more so.

I thought she lost credibility by responding with "fuck you's" and such and was trying to make her aware of this. And despite the disagreements on a few issues that we have, I do not believe she should be banned. I doubt, though, that this was coming near.

 

[tuckerreed]

no one said you called her a racist, i was the one apologizing

 

[lainarain]

Didn't say you were, Tuck. But a few people were and a couple were saying they didn't think she was. I was giving my opinion.

 

[Sabinne]

Sorry, lainarain. I'll say "fuck you" when someone calls me a fat, racist whore. I'd lose credibility with myself if I didn't and that's far more important to me.

**I did apologize to him later, but that's because I actually started liking him. It's so sad that I'm afraid to say anything without the fear that someone will jump out of the bushes and tell me I'm a member of the KLAN.

 

[tuckerreed]

sabine, i am apologizing to you, say what you like. i am sorry ok, so lets drop it and move on and forget the Klan comment