Why is it that BM who date WW in the south lose all their "brotha points"

EspyInHeels said:
Darn, I'm an 8. I was going to tell you if you're ever in the neighborhood you're welcome to try on anything in my closet that catches your eye. Though with only a half size difference you could probably wear anything but the pumps.
Click to expand...

I wear an 8 in boots...lol

That's so sweet. Thank you.

My goal for my shoe shopping is as follows:

- Tan heels

- Some cute flat sandals

- Some black heels that differ from my latest fav

Besides getting tan shoes, what's on your list?
 
Inner Beauty said:
I wear an 8 in boots...lol

That's so sweet. Thank you.

My goal for my shoe shopping is as follows:

- Tan heels

- Some cute flat sandals

- Some black heels that differ from my latest fav

Besides getting tan shoes, what's on your list?
Click to expand...

I want a pair of flat sandals too for pedicures, because I detest flip flops, but you're kinda limited on what you can wear after a pedi. I really don't like flats, and they make my feet hurt, but something other than ugly flip flops would be nice on those occasions when I need flats.

Other than that, I want a couple pair of heels, one white sandal, one red sandal, one silver sandal, and one pink sandal.

I think I want these for sure:
http://www.endless.com/GUESS-Womens...002SWKRCE/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&cAsin=B002SWO3GA

and these I think:
http://www.heels.com/womens-shoes/dalle-heel-red.html

and I like these:
http://www.endless.com/bebe-Womens-...al/dp/B0035GTBD8/ref=sr_1_2/?cAsin=B0035GTB24

and I don't need another pair of black sandals really, but these are tempting:
http://www.endless.com/dp/B002K2SF9...e=380333&linkCode=asn&creativeASIN=B002K2SF9E

.
 
flaminghetero said:
Typical black female hypocrite fantasy.

It's like ya'll read from the same script..these fantasies always include some hot latino guy...or an Italian:lol:

Why can't ya'll keep all those super-hot hunks????:smt017

Lemme guess..

It didn't work out..

you felt an obligation to BM(lol)

It was nothing serious.

He lived far away.

...ect ect.
Click to expand...

Because they don't exist.
 
JayeBlaze said:
Hey wassup everyone?

I'm new to this whole forum stuff....but i figured that this site has some good ways to open up discussions.

But anyways, I from SoCAL and Palm Beach Florida and I go to college in Atlanta. When, I lived in Cali and FLA, from what I've seen and experienced, it's never really been an issue to see brothas date vanillas. Pretty much, Ive been used to seeing people of different backgrounds being friends and having relationships. With that said, I rarely saw brothas lose thier credibility when they chose to have a relationship with a white girl. However, when I chose to study in Atlanta, i thought that it really wouldn't be an issue due to the fact that it' has one of the largest populations of brothas. However, i've noticed that ever since I came to Atlanta, a lot of the black girls (i'm not trying to gerneralize) have given my and my friends issues for us to hang out with white girls. We enjoy hanging out with everyone, but when we go to many different colleges throughout Atlanta, black girls usually ask we are dancing with white girls, rolling to the parties with white girls...and so on. Race really isn't an issue to me because I come from a bi-racial family. But it seems to me if your a brotha who hangs out with white girls or even decides to date on...you lose your brotha points with the black girls. However, A lot of the black dudes i know don't mind.
Click to expand...


who gives out brotha points? your maker God? or your parents? or some random black person who you dont know and doesnt know you? think about it bro and stop giving into to societal pressures
 
if that's how you roll do you!

I'm from Louisiana and i date white women, and that point thing you talking about is some nonexistent foolishness so do take it personal. see as a people some of us still on the 40 acre kick and can't get pass that sure it's racism in the world and that ain't cool but it is what it is so whatever if your happy with your life that's all that matters.
 
dre318 said:
I'm from Louisiana and i date white women, and that point thing you talking about is some nonexistent foolishness so do take it personal. see as a people some of us still on the 40 acre kick and can't get pass that sure it's racism in the world and that ain't cool but it is what it is so whatever if your happy with your life that's all that matters.
Click to expand...
exactly my brotha, some black folks even bought into the slave masters one drop rule and go around saying that cause majority(white) society sees us as black then we must be. when scientifically, genetically we cant be.

they need to stop with the kool aid drinking that lets them succumb to such foolish peer pressure and group think thats killing our race
 
I will never ever lose brotha points because I keep it real with black women.I don't act all bougie just because im dating a white girl. Maybe you never had brotha points in the first place because you were cooning since birth.
 
JayeBlaze said:
Hey wassup everyone?

I'm new to this whole forum stuff....but i figured that this site has some good ways to open up discussions.

But anyways, I from SoCAL and Palm Beach Florida and I go to college in Atlanta. When, I lived in Cali and FLA, from what I've seen and experienced, it's never really been an issue to see brothas date vanillas. Pretty much, Ive been used to seeing people of different backgrounds being friends and having relationships. With that said, I rarely saw brothas lose thier credibility when they chose to have a relationship with a white girl. However, when I chose to study in Atlanta, i thought that it really wouldn't be an issue due to the fact that it' has one of the largest populations of brothas. However, i've noticed that ever since I came to Atlanta, a lot of the black girls (i'm not trying to gerneralize) have given my and my friends issues for us to hang out with white girls. We enjoy hanging out with everyone, but when we go to many different colleges throughout Atlanta, black girls usually ask we are dancing with white girls, rolling to the parties with white girls...and so on. Race really isn't an issue to me because I come from a bi-racial family. But it seems to me if your a brotha who hangs out with white girls or even decides to date on...you lose your brotha points with the black girls. However, A lot of the black dudes i know don't mind.
Click to expand...


thats pretty sad if you have to ask someone else to tell you if you are black. I know I am black,have been since birth, mom and dad are black too and so are grandparents, I come from african slaves, who were kept against their will to work on plantations, but made it out alive and strong and independent, and still BLACK

no one has to tell me that, if the KKK came to lynch me they wouldnt have to wonder if they were hanging a white guy, they would know right away, I am the guy they are after. Black , been black and will always be black and proud of it, i dont need some chicken heads telling me i am losing points, what points??

check yourself not look for afformation from someone who is probably putthing blond weaves in their hair and wanting someone to pay for their education.

and i dont have probs with sistahs personally we get on very well
 
Carter said:
I will never ever lose brotha points because I keep it real with black women.I don't act all bougie just because im dating a white girl. Maybe you never had brotha points in the first place because you were cooning since birth.
Click to expand...

LOL funny. But it's all good, sooner or later people like you need people like me who can read, write and talk. Most of the time we're lawyers trying to keep your ghetto asses out of jail. We don't do that good a job because you keep doing crimes.
 
karmacoma. said:
LOL funny. But it's all good, sooner or later people like you need people like me who can read, write and talk. Most of the time we're lawyers trying to keep your ghetto asses out of jail. We don't do that good a job because you keep doing crimes.
Click to expand...

He can't lose what he never had.
 
karmacoma. said:
LOL funny. But it's all good, sooner or later people like you need people like me who can read, write and talk. Most of the time we're lawyers trying to keep your ghetto asses out of jail. We don't do that good a job because you keep doing crimes.
Click to expand...

To quote the late great Jack Buck, pardon me while I stand up and applaud.

applausem.gif
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top Bottom