Why is it that BM who date WW in the south lose all their "brotha points"

Flyingeek said:
I can see it now:

Athena to seadoorenterperson
- I have 14 ww points, can I trade that in for an hour on a seadoo?
- Have they been validated up at the ww point office?
- No, I just thought I could trade them in right here, no?
- You have to pay taxes on those at the ww point office, you know. After taxes, you really only have 9 ww points left - you can have this broken fin for that.
- never mind, I go to the bar now
- they dont take ww points
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madscientist said:
Just a couple of days ago I came across a blog post (which I can't find right now) in which a black woman explains why she is against interracial dating. What she said was the black men who date white women lose credibility in the black community because that man is dating a woman whose people oppressed blacks. She stated that "I don't want to hear anything about racism from you if you are sleeping with the enemy".

That is what someone said on the issue. I would guess that most famous black freedom fighters then become irrelevant since most of them did date white women.
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Ive definately seen my fair share of irational hypocrisy dealing with this issue.
 
tuckerreed said:
welcome to the forum, remember this is WWBM so we dont really care if we lose brotha points with the sistahs

i grew up in the South, i know what you mean. But the flip side is even if you dont date white women(i was at an HBCU)in Jackson Mississippi, the sistahs if they dont think you are what is popular wont give you the time of day, then when you do start dating a WW, the sistahs all up in your face about leaving your race.

just do what you enjoy doing, if they sisthas arent paying your way through school or own you then you will be just fine
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OMG. I was critized for calling it like it was . On the blackplanet forum I called it the angry bw thang and brothas got mad. But you guys see it for what it is. they (bw) get angry.

a guy said it best " bw women treat you like the DMV . the dmv is the only place where you can get you drivers license thus you have no where to go and they can give you bad service.

In that they (BW) feel they should have all the business and treat you like crap. But when you take your business somewhere else they feel the competition. thus they have to step up. they dont want to step up. they want to treat us like crap.

Please note NOT ALL BW are like that. just the ones who are mad at you for dating outside the box.

I always say go where you get good customer service and be a repeat customer
 
Italian Princess said:
Of course they don't mind; why would they? They date white girls too.

Black women are just mad because no one is dating them. If white guys dated black girls with as much regularity as black men date white women, they wouldn't bug you about your dating choices.

That is not the case, however. I never see non-black men with black women. It's always the opposite.

As far as losing "brotha" points, I can see why it would be hard to convince a black woman you're in "her corner" when you're walking around with Vanilla as your show piece.

Why you even care about losing "brotha" points with black women is beyond me anyway.
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Oh blacks girls can get men of other races. The problem is that 45% don't want them, 45% are too scared to ask them out and the remaining 10% have to fight for the few sistas that actually want WM. Black women don't really trust white men outside of business...(the plethora of sistahs I know anyway).

Black women are not "mad" anymore than brothas are "mad" when it comes to dealing with WM in education, employment etc. Besides that, black women AND black men are the least likely of any minority to date and marry outside their race.

WW and WM are just as likely (sometimes more likely) to give crap of BM/WW dating as BW....I"m all for IR but all this sista bashing isn't productive. If you plan on being with a brotha...understand that your daughters will be black women...I don't think they'd appreciate these characterizations.
 
Italian Princess said:
Black women are just mad because no one is dating them. If white guys dated black girls with as much regularity as black men date white women, they wouldn't bug you about your dating choices.
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That is no different than me saying that white women are mad because white men are dating east asian women....i'm guessing that it isn't entirely true.

It is a chicken or egg question; perceiving black women as angry about IR means you are more inclined to notice the relative few who care enough to become upset.

Your daughter is bi-racial but our society determines how you are viewed. Barack Obama is bi-racial and he's proud of his white mother...but he also knows that no one would consider him anything but black unless he told them so. I don't think it's right...it's just the way it is...which will change when there are more bi-racial children...so many that they must be warranted their own identity.
 
TheChosenOne said:
Oh blacks girls can get men of other races. The problem is that 45% don't want them, 45% are too scared to ask them out and the remaining 10% have to fight for the few sistas that actually want WM. Black women don't really trust white men outside of business...(the plethora of sistahs I know anyway).

Black women are not "mad" anymore than brothas are "mad" when it comes to dealing with WM in education, employment etc. Besides that, black women AND black men are the least likely of any minority to date and marry outside their race.

WW and WM are just as likely (sometimes more likely) to give crap of BM/WW dating as BW....I"m all for IR but all this sista bashing isn't productive. If you plan on being with a brotha...understand that your daughters will be black women...I don't think they'd appreciate these characterizations.
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Words of wisdom, as usual.
 
TheChosenOne said:
Oh blacks girls can get men of other races. The problem is that 45% don't want them, 45% are too scared to ask them out and the remaining 10% have to fight for the few sistas that actually want WM. Black women don't really trust white men outside of business...(the plethora of sistahs I know anyway).

Black women are not "mad" anymore than brothas are "mad" when it comes to dealing with WM in education, employment etc. Besides that, black women AND black men are the least likely of any minority to date and marry outside their race.

WW and WM are just as likely (sometimes more likely) to give crap of BM/WW dating as BW....I"m all for IR but all this sista bashing isn't productive. If you plan on being with a brotha...understand that your daughters will be black women...I don't think they'd appreciate these characterizations.
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TCO - well spoken as always..
Something that many might not think about.

Chris Rock said on TV a few nights ago "that being a little bit black is like being a little bit pregnant" - he went "a little bit black, come on, your black" and he is of mixed background.

I agree, its not right, but it is......
ergo: dont bash BW
 
Italian Princess said:
Yea, and Barack is the one all about "change"... let's change the fact that half-black/white people should be identified as such! BLACK!

HE AIN'T JUST BLACK!

As far as white women PERHAPS "being mad" about white men dating other race women! Hell! We have all these OTHER race men who are more than happy to take up the slack! There goes that "argument"!

And I would like to see where do the statistics come from about what black women want as far as interracial dating goes, particularly when it comes to white men?

I'll tell you this: In 2009, my 13-year-old daughter has already told me that she prefers being around other children that are half-white/black (or the background of) and they are tired of being only considered BLACK!

START A MOVEMENT!
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So why don't you date those "other" races of men...because obviously you aren't interested in black people;)
 
That's great if your (imaginary) daughter wants to identify as biracial but she doesn't speak for all black/white mixed people. People should be allowed to identify themselves anyway they want.

You sound like you hate black women or something, weird. Oh and you need to get out more. MOST people don't care about interracial dating (minus a few).
 
If a White man has a child from a woman except Black it is considered White. The privilege of being White does not extend to a biracial person of Black blood.
 
Los Angeles said:
That's just how a lot of BW are. Especially in areas that have high concentrations of blacks like Atlanta.

Same can be said for WW who hang w/ and/or date BM. Some WM will give them shit for it.
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so what?? it happens with BW date WM also, the black women get black balled from BM especially if she is good looking:smt102
 
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