Will she be faithful seems men can tell just by looking.

orejon4 said:
All the worrying in the world wouldn't have stopped any of them from doing it, so why worry? I have enough on my plate to worry about as it is.

I'm not sure that a conversation would have told me much. It's not like anyone is going to say "Hi, I'll date you until I identify a fatter wallet or larger biceps in the immediate vicinity." Lol

In my experience those who will, will, and those who won't, won't.
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orejon4 said:
Good point. I've never been good at reading people, though. Books? Yeah. People? Not so much.
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Lol. I had to learn but u dont have to be a phd to get the signs.

Ill give u an example. This one woman i dated was fine as hell. She will tell me about the arguments of her and her ex

Then her and her grown son would get inti argumenrs and he was very disrespectful.

After a year of listening to her convo and the interaction of her son...she was dissmissed.
 
goodlove said:
Lol. I had to learn but u dont have to be a phd to get the signs.

Ill give u an example. This one woman i dated was fine as hell. She will tell me about the arguments of her and her ex

Then her and her grown son would get inti argumenrs and he was very disrespectful.

After a year of listening to her convo and the interaction of her son...she was dismissed.
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LMAO! You gave her her "walking papers"? :p
 
goodlove said:
Heck yeah . She was a cool chick but i seen it coming if i got deep with her.

U dont need a complete picture.just enough to know what it may look like
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When does the semester start at the "Goodlove School of Game-Peeping" ? Lol
 
orejon4 said:
Great comment. I assume it will happen and just try to be the best me I can be. I try not to let a woman's monogamy dictate how I feel about her, either.
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Be you. Don't be Tom Cruise'' character Dr. Bill Harford from Eyes Wide Shut. My mother often told me, in her simple bible way, that the ways of woman are not known. There are too many things to figure out when it comes to a woman. You can learn to accept her as she is or dig deeper at your peril. Billy Joel said it best in the songs Always A Woman To Me, Uptown Girl, Big Shot and Christie Lee.
 
orejon4 said:
When does the semester start at the "Goodlove School of Game-Peeping" ? Lol
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Lol.

I had to learn thru experience and thats not a good way of learning. Someone posted that about experience being your teacher.

Bros need to talk to get around that crap
 
goodlove said:
Lol.

I had to learn thru experience and thats not a good way of learning. Someone posted that about experience being your teacher.

Bros need to talk to get around that crap
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Can you really learn from someone else's experience though? Imo sharing your struggles doesn't really do anything to help anyone...just lets the venter get it off their chest.
 
RaiderLL said:
Can you really learn from someone else's experience though? Imo sharing your struggles doesn't really do anything to help anyone...just lets the venter get it off their chest.
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Some people are too thick headed to realize what they're in; sometimes it takes a second perspective to shine a light on what should be an obviously bad situation.
 
MilkandCoffee said:
Some people are too thick headed to realize what they're in; sometimes it takes a second perspective to shine a light on what should be an obviously bad situation.
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That makes sense. If my friend is, for some reason, blind to the reality of her abusive relationship, I'll most definitely speak up. I thought he was talking about pow-wowing with his friends about their general relationship woes. That, to me, serves zero purpose. Intervening when a friend is in need, is most definitely understandable though.
 
Gorath said:
Be you. Don't be Tom Cruise'' character Dr. Bill Harford from Eyes Wide Shut. My mother often told me, in her simple bible way, that the ways of woman are not known. There are too many things to figure out when it comes to a woman. You can learn to accept her as she is or dig deeper at your peril. Billy Joel said it best in the songs Always A Woman To Me, Uptown Girl, Big Shot and Christie Lee.
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I'll leave the digging deep to public works projects. Lol
 
RaiderLL said:
Can you really learn from someone else's experience though? Imo sharing your struggles doesn't really do anything to help anyone...just lets the venter get it off their chest.
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MilkandCoffee said:
Some people are too thick headed to realize what they're in; sometimes it takes a second perspective to shine a light on what should be an obviously bad situation.
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RaiderLL said:
That makes sense. If my friend is, for some reason, blind to the reality of her abusive relationship, I'll most definitely speak up. I thought he was talking about pow-wowing with his friends about their general relationship woes. That, to me, serves zero purpose. Intervening when a friend is in need, is most definitely understandable though.
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U rite . Having a pity party serves no purpose or at least a long one. Afterwards, u need to learn from it.

What i was saying that people need to share their experiences and tell what they learned.

When u really see the story for what it is....the woman attract too much drama. I dont want to be around that. She has a disrespectful son and crazy arguments with her ex (husband at the time). I saw whats coming cause i learned from it and also listened to other men.


IF people stop being sexblind then they would avoid alot
 
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