WORST Cities for IR Dating

Bex said:
I have no idea why some women do this, you see young kids on the streets drinking to destruction.. maybe they are so unhappy that this is their only form of release? I don't know, but I hate seeing these young women out drinking so much, they don't know what they are doing and normally end up going home with some random.

By the way, what part of London are you from? I don't mean to take the thread too off topic, but there is no PM or other messaging service on here??
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Leafy Harrrow on the Hill, (NW London) near the famous school. I think if you add someone as a 'friend', you can send him an email. There are a few people here on my Yahoo mail.
 
Jaybee in WWBM said:
Leafy Harrrow on the Hill, (NW London) near the famous school. I think if you add someone as a 'friend', you can send him an email. There are a few people here on my Yahoo mail.
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I've only every driven through Harrow, never visited as such, borders onto Middlesex doesn't it.

My brother lives in Hackney.. and I have a few friends dotted around London, I'm in London this weekend :partyman:
 
Jaybee in WWBM said:
How big a number was it? Just kidding mate, we've got a city of almost 8 million, inevitably you will see IR couples. I was talking about the prevalence of IR sex, not couples holding hands.

British girls don't get sloshed until Friday/Saturday nights, but when they do, they're a pretty ugly sight. A lot of them will tank up with a bottle of Chardonnay before they've even applied their lipstick, after which it's off to down 10 shots of Vodka Amaretto mixes in 15 minutes flat. Ask any nightclub manager whose door charges under £5 for 'ladies', his cleaning staff spend more time cleaning puke around the latrine edges than cleaning the whole gents toilet.

But also, a lot of British women do have self-respect and a sense of honour. It's a question of class, like everyone else, a lot of girls have it, and a lot of them don't. It's the latter group the Police have to haul off the sidestreets - literally - on every Friday night in every english city, who get the most publicity.
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I agree with you, some of the women you see here are just an embarrassement. But do you honestly think it's better in other cities? I've travelled around Europe and have found that the way they drink is different to us, they stay out until much, much later.
In places like Spain, Italy, France etc. the girls make absolutely no effort when they go out. You don't see girls in nice dresses or high heels like you do here, so I think this makes it worse when you see a pissed girl here to be honest. Appearance does make a difference, and seeing a drunk girl in trainers and baggy jeans stumbling around somewhere in Spain somehow doesn't seem as bad as a girl in five inch heels and a bodycon dress here.

And when I went to Poland, I personally saw many more pissed and easy women there than I have seen in England. Even my male friends who have been say that whilst girls here look like they might be 'easy' because they make an effort to go out, girls in countries like Poland and Russia actually are easier. Two of my friends who don't know each other went on two seperate occasions and one got head off a girl after buying her one drink, and one got a shag.

I do find that the girls in England have an aggression problem though. I don't understand where this has come from but I've seen this so much, girls starting fights on other girls AND guys when drunk. It's insane!
I think the problem with a lot of girls here is that they like to act like they're on the same level as lads. Match them drink for drink, be as loud and have as much banter. It doesn't work, even physically. A guy drinking 8 pints will get him pretty tipsy, a girl will be pissed. I don't personally understand this need to prove things like 'I can drink so much!' to a man and then ending up walking through the centre of town, holding your shoes and covered in puke.
Not speaking from experience there, thankfully!!
 
On my past visits to London including a few days ago,I had seen a very few laddettes. One Saterday night I try to find one with no avail. Even with the ban on drinking on the streets,they be present few in number. With the high affection brothers show towards their White girlfriends I had seen it up close compqired to the drunk women I've seldom seen.
 
RussiaLove,I believe you since I had seen some of it on YouTube. It is the first time I heard on the Polish women however:
 
Bex said:
I've only every driven through Harrow, never visited as such, borders onto Middlesex doesn't it.

My brother lives in Hackney.. and I have a few friends dotted around London, I'm in London this weekend :partyman:
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Hackney's just north-east of Central London, Harrow is Londons northwesternmost borough, if you're passing through Harrow then drop me a line and we'll go for a Cappuccino in town.

Ask your brother to take you to Church St in Stoke Newington - some pretty cool artsy cafe's, bars and galleries around there. Above all make sure your mates take you to Leicester Square, absolute bundle of fun!!
 
im soooooo glad i havnt been on a night out since i was 18, even back then the agressive girls really scared me
 
Soulthinker said:
Leicester Square is great if you have the mates. You rarely find any laddette there.
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It's not even about specific places. The vast majority of British women are not ladettes. Just avoid the type of women who stand outside Wetherspoons with a pint of lager in one hand and a cig in another shouting abuse at any passers by, you'll be fine.
 
fromrussiawithlove said:
I agree with you, some of the women you see here are just an embarrassement. But do you honestly think it's better in other cities? I've travelled around Europe and have found that the way they drink is different to us, they stay out until much, much later.
In places like Spain, Italy, France etc. the girls make absolutely no effort when they go out. You don't see girls in nice dresses or high heels like you do here, so I think this makes it worse when you see a pissed girl here to be honest. Appearance does make a difference, and seeing a drunk girl in trainers and baggy jeans stumbling around somewhere in Spain somehow doesn't seem as bad as a girl in five inch heels and a bodycon dress here.

And when I went to Poland, I personally saw many more pissed and easy women there than I have seen in England. Even my male friends who have been say that whilst girls here look like they might be 'easy' because they make an effort to go out, girls in countries like Poland and Russia actually are easier. Two of my friends who don't know each other went on two seperate occasions and one got head off a girl after buying her one drink, and one got a shag.

I do find that the girls in England have an aggression problem though. I don't understand where this has come from but I've seen this so much, girls starting fights on other girls AND guys when drunk. It's insane!
I think the problem with a lot of girls here is that they like to act like they're on the same level as lads. Match them drink for drink, be as loud and have as much banter. It doesn't work, even physically. A guy drinking 8 pints will get him pretty tipsy, a girl will be pissed. I don't personally understand this need to prove things like 'I can drink so much!' to a man and then ending up walking through the centre of town, holding your shoes and covered in puke.
Not speaking from experience there, thankfully!!
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I disagree about (west) european women, public drunkenness is a uniquely british phenomenon, it simply doesn't happen on the organised, massive scale you see in this country, weekend after weekend like clockwork. Not guaranteeing you will never find the odd dark-eyed brunette beauty tottering down Rue Beaubourg toward the taxi rank, the worse for wear, but you won't find her accosting passers-by, or in a group of fellow young female lushes, waving handbags and screaming obscenities at the police.

As for dress, like England it all depends on how smart/casual the venue is. But I've been to dozen towns in the South of France, and on Saturday nights...well, I've had a hard time keeping my tongue inside my mouth.

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But like I was saying to Bex, I think these girls in Britain drink that way to fill a lack of something in their lives...what, I don't know. I have a few guesses, but that's all they are. If I wanted to find out, I'd start by taking a look at their families, and probe deeper.
 
Laddettes

RussiaLove,if I see one next year I will just watch and not say a word since shagging blokes are not in their minds and unknown issues bubble out if encountered.
 
My Opinion The worst cities are...

NOTE: These are based on my personal experiences!!!

In the USA:

1) Philadelphia PA


IN Europe:

Berlin Germany, Brussels Belguim TIE!

In Africa

Johannesburg South Africa
 
Really? Berlin? :confused: Germans tend to fetishize BM, which is annoying, but outright opposition to IR dating surprises me.

As for the US, in Knoxville, TN, the portrayal of IR dating is unflattering. :smt012
 
Kid Rasta said:
I think you could add W Virginia & Kentucky....two states that Barack Obama lost to Billary in the recent primaries. Nuthin' but ignorant white trash (except for Louisville, KY). Some even admitted they would not vote for a Black man.

The Kid Rasta 8)
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i know of a couple cities in West Virginia that might surprise you on the IR scene; martinsville and morgantown.
 
Berlin.........

Well I did stay with a German Girl in Berlin!! However not all over Germany is like Berlin. Munchen, and Frankfurt are the complete opposite. A lot of them like the chocolate out there. But Berlin, I was last there in 1998. Maybe it has changed??
 
PeyBackTime8818 said:
Macon, Georgia: My ex-girlfriend of 3 years is from the south and grew up down there. Before she moved here to NY and met me, she never even KNEW a black person before. Well anyways, she moved back down there after we broke up and I visited her there this past June. Man did I feel out of place! I did not see ONE black person! NOT ONE!!!!! I felt like people were waiting to lynch me just cuz i was with her. I felt like a celebrity, everyone constantly staring at me. I'd never live down there. The weather was nice and the southern accents the women had (my ex had one too :lol: ) were AMAZING but I couldnt wait to get the heck outta there and back to NY where a black guy can walk down the street and not bee looked on as a criminal or animal.

Eagle, Colorado: One word...KOBE! LOL He's my fave basketball player and when in july 2003 that whole rape case came out between him and that 19 year old blonde hotel worker i did some research on the city and MAN are they racist! If you are black and want a white chick, DO NOT go there EVER! (In fact no matter what race guy you are, stay away from Colorado girls. All they do is cry rape. Look at the Colorado football university scandal. Why didn't those girls press charges or testify in court? Why didn't the young woman accusing Kobe of rape go forward with her case?)

Wilmington, South Carolina: One of THE MOST racist places on earth. You see rebel flags everywhere and KKK guys patrol the streets like its fun.

Salt Lake City, Utah: Mormon town. What more can i say?

Anybody else know any AWFUL cities in the U.S. for interracial dating?
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Philadelphia, racists whites and blacks stare and ask the most racist questions

boston, the whites are soooo racist here

southern Jersey and Pennsylvania, the aryan new homeland

Rochester NY
 
On the Eastern part of Berlin but not the Western side of the city. Brussels? Which one loves the brothers the Walloons or the Flemish?
 
bonsaiiKITTEN said:
Really? Berlin? :confused: Germans tend to fetishize BM, which is annoying, but outright opposition to IR dating surprises me.

As for the US, in Knoxville, TN, the portrayal of IR dating is unflattering. :smt012
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germany is a great place for the bro's there is a lot of racism there but the IRing is popping off there
 
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