I haven't been talking to the mothers, I've been listening to the dark skin Black fathers.
I agree that all parts need to be acknowledged and addressed. It's funny because you and I actually seem to be in agreement. I just simply addressed Ricardo's comment about letting him know when lighter skin/eyed are followed around in stores and shot by cops by saying it happens every day. I don't think that means it's at the same rate as darker skinned, but it is happening. I understand colorism is a major problem. But that doesn't mean that lighter skinned people aren't being followed in stores or shot by cops. NONE of it is ok.
I don't agree that it would be the same as saying white people have their own issues. Again, I just don't think it's productive for groups to further segregate themselves and feed more into the issue of colorism. You yourself made the comment about Black people being the most inclusive. I would agree. So then why devalue what a lighter skin man says about the issues. Is what he said valid? Should he not stand up and speak to the issues because he's lighter? Should it be dismissed or discounted because he's lighter? IDK, I happen to be one that thinks that ALL people (dark, light, medium, olive skinned, etc) should be standing up and doing something about it.
I started all this by asking Ricardo who, how, and where he suggest the issues to be addressed in a better way. I asked what he suggested to solve the issues. I will ask the same of you.
I just don't think turning against one another and picking things apart seems to be the way to do it. I think that just fuels the issues more and just gives those on the other side more ammunition.