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Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Bookworm616, Oct 7, 2011.

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  1. jen14

    jen14 Well-Known Member

    Yea, i think that unfortunately you're right... the crazy thing is that you really don't notice this in real life but I guess people show their true colors in the anonymity of the internet
     
    jen14, Aug 1, 2025 at 7:23 PM
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  2. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member

    Oh, you notice it in real life but you actively don't/won't engage with it when you see it. The internet unfortunately just provides a platform for individuals who engage in all kinds of ignorance to display it and pretend that whatever ignorance they subscribe to is normal.
     
    Ra, Aug 1, 2025 at 7:30 PM
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  3. jen14

    jen14 Well-Known Member

    I've been with a black man for 10 years now and honestly I haven't really encountered any situations where such things were really noticeable... I've caught some stares/double takes etc but nothing crazy... also a few white women asking me all sorts of questions about what its like to be with a black man and talking about it like its something crazy extraordinary or exciting but thats is few and far in between... and that has been it. I guess people just behave differently online
     
    jen14, Aug 1, 2025 at 7:35 PM
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  4. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member

    This.

    Online people will say & do all the untoward things that they are afraid to say or do IRL. They can spin the narrative that they were just being curious or what they said/ did wasn't negative when they get backlash. They become the "victim" and you become the "bully" for calling them on their bullshit.
     
    Ra, Aug 1, 2025 at 8:25 PM
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  5. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member

    And the fuckery continues. Latest member to join : CreampiesOnly2Get7Kids.

    Profile says male, so ladies would you want to make him your king just off the screen name? If that profile said female, I know there would be at least 2-3 ashy dick lames about it off the name alone....SMDH.
     
    Ra, Aug 3, 2025 at 6:11 PM
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  6. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Another example of a questionable white dude with a creepy, fetishy fixation on Black Men/White Women IR:

    Profile post from "Jonathan WhyteBoye":
    I wish these people would find someplace else to loiter. No doubt there are plenty of sites out there that cater to their creepy fetishes with content intended for them to jerk off to.

    And even when these creeps are given the boot, some of them keep showing up again with new identities. Case in point is the other white dude (with at least two profiles so far) who's always asking for discord, Facebook, and other pages with BM/WW IR he can fixate on. It's disturbing to say the least.
     
    Tamstrong, Aug 3, 2025 at 8:25 PM
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  7. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Hell no. He's obviously not king material. He sounds like he's into that trashy IR 'breeder' crap. LMAO @ "ashy dick lames"—that's a perfect description for the types who'd be all over that mess.
     
    Tamstrong, Aug 3, 2025 at 8:33 PM
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  8. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member


    Going to be "the hateful asshole" with this take: Why do we have individuals who are down with MAGA still wanting to come here & think they aren't going to be looked at & treated like the WTFs that they are? Why not go to some For MAGAs Only site? What's the appeal of coming here unless it's to troll & just be a contrarian asshole? Especially since none of them have any actual skin in any IR relationships or community IRL?
     
    Ra, Aug 3, 2025 at 8:43 PM
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  9. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    I don't have the answer for that. Just guessing, but maybe for some it's because there are likeminded black men and white women down with MAGA that makes it "normal" on some level to them. And those who do actually date or have dated interracially, they are the types that tend to end up together. For some reason they can't/choose not to see, that MAGA is against everything we represent here. But, like most of the MAGA cult, what they support and vote for is against their (and most people's) best interest. I agree that some of them see it as an opportunity to be contrarian trolls just for the sake of creating drama and arguing with people online, and/or maybe just for the attention for being "different" and to seem as if they're standing up for some worthy cause. For those who don't have any actual real life connection to the IR community, who knows.
     
    Tamstrong, Aug 3, 2025 at 9:14 PM
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  10. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member


    Proximity to legitimate IR couples/community. That's why the quest for other sites or discord channels and wanting folks (especially serious mined IR focus folks) to join.
     
    Ra, Aug 3, 2025 at 9:20 PM
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  11. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Frankly, I'd rather they keep their distance. Maybe they see it as being supportive or trying to convince us they are, but the way it comes across is anything but.
     
    Tamstrong, Aug 3, 2025 at 9:37 PM
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  12. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member

    I don't think it's for support of the IR community but more to try to legitimize whatever negative IR related fuckery they are about. Kind of like how racist white folks are okay with embracing self hating non-white folks to use as cover to claim they aren't racists.
     
    Ra, Aug 3, 2025 at 9:44 PM
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  13. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    We know that, but apparently they think we're all stupid enough to believe otherwise. As my daddy used to say, it's an effort to "baffle us with bullshit" to throw us off what they're really about. As with some of those white racist people who embrace the self-haters, sometimes it's an effort to convince themselves they aren't the shitty people they actually are. For some it's a cover, for some it's a form of denial, and for some of them it's a total lack of self-awareness. Regardless of the reason, it's messed up no matter what spin they put on it.
     
    Tamstrong, Aug 3, 2025 at 10:18 PM
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