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About my failures in with European women?? LOL, maybe I'm being a bit harsh on myself but for all this, I have nothing to show for it thus far....
I am a bit interested in writing a book but only if I succeed in finding that woman....
Let me help.
Firstly, European is a huge generalisation but if you are thinking non-Anglo Europeatn (as in Slavic- from the East, or Med) you firstly need to switch things a bit.
I have been fortunate to travel to most corners of this globe, sometimes as a single gal and sometimes 'au duex'.
Now I don't know you, so I don't know if you make any of these mistakes. I didn't catch the feel with most American men I met (sorry boys) for the below reasons:
1) The throw it down, homeboy style won't wash at all with most of us. And when I say that, I mean, it really really won't. If you can do it with a sense of humour- not taking yourself too seriously- that's ok. Other than that, it's sooo hard for me to keep a straight face otherwise. I love hip hop (actually, I love dancheall and roots alot more), but life's not a hip hop video.
I undersrtand this is a totally legit way of being for most guys, and that's ok, just as long as you are being real, it's ok I guess.
2) Being mean because you think she will then want your affection. Big wrong. She will just think you think she's stupid, and therefore, will assume you are too.
3) Have something to talk about
4) Be polite, be nice and have some manners, but you still need to be a man too.
5) Don't grab anything, at all, without permission first (and this can be sexy, just catch her eye). Don't pat her on the butt, the side, nothing, she knows you are down, that's why she's talking to you, but let it build up.
6) Know something about where she's from, or if you don't, don't pretend you do. Just ask.
Good luck!
My destination isn't Moscow, but Kazan, the capital of Tatarstan. I have a feeling that i'll be much safer there, and also in Izhevsk, where Dinara's family will be. 
