Pretty and ugly are subjective, but still important. It's just different for everyone. There are probably very few chicks around here who wouldn't want to bang Tyrese (or at least think about it
) because he's a fine specimen of man, but I certainly don't expect every day guys to be so damn fine. There are different types of beauty. You have beauty in perfection, like with gorgeous rippling muscles, a perfect smile, a perfect ass, etc. But then there's the kind of beauty you can see in real people.
I prefer the latter, because the ones who are so damn fine that they can get pretty much any girl they want...well, as previously stated, they're dicks generally because they -do- get all the chicks they want. I don't like assholes.
When I meet guys the first thing I pay attention to is how nice they are. How polite they are. How respectful. Physical attraction is important, but it doesn't mean a man has to look like Tyrese. A man like that is better suited in our fantasies most of the time anyway (less stds that way, I'm sure), and "average" people can be gorgeous with the right pair of eyes looking at them. Anyway, as for the the asshole guys. Assholes don't get a second glance from me, unless they end up getting told off, which happens sometimes. If a guy thinks he can behave like a prick towards me (or other people around) without being put in check, then he's stupid.
Why does it seem so hard for nice guys to get a girl, or at least keep a good one? One thing I've noticed is that the nice guys don't always seem to have the most confidence when it comes to the ladies. Most of the assholes I know have no problem with rejection, because they'll just move onto an easier girl. The nice guys? They end up pining over a girl they know for months and never telling her. I know a guy in that exact situation right now. He's definitely a sweetheart, and he's also definitely pining after a mutual friend of ours, but he won't say anything to her about it. If he were an asshole he probably would've already tried to fuck her, and maybe even succeeded if he tried hard enough.
One of the problems with girls ending up with assholes is that some assholes masquerade as nice guys until they get what they want...or until they get tired of being nice. Not always the case, of course, but sometimes it certainly is.
"Bad Boy" doesn't always have to mean a guy is an asshole, though. Some bad boys can be quite nice and just do things they really shouldn't be doing, which adds the whole "thrill" thing in there.
I like nice guys. If I ever get married again, he'll be a nice guy who has a heart as big as mine, and believes respect to be as important as I do. And he certainly can't be an asshole, because assholes don't like fluffy puppies and babies, and I like both of those.
I just realized that sounded a bit snippy. I really didn't mean it that way, and I meant I had pictures to prove I was "getting younger everyday", not to prove I was beautiful, because beauty is in the eye of the beholder. 
