Essence Comments On OBSESSED/Black Men & White Women

False. Anything that is not an innate characteristic of the natural world can be classified as "unnatural" or artificial. As a case in point, consider the computer you're using (unnatural) and contrast it with the computer known as the human brain (natural).

Trees, oxygen, water, soil = natural.

Sidewalks, cars, skyscrapers = artificial (unnatural).

This also applies within the parameters of human behavior as we're capable of engaging in actions that do not conform with needs or desires.

AfroLove said:
That isn't (necessarily) true. This may be besides the point but the idea of something being "unnatural" is a fallacy. Because we are material beings (comprised of the same subatomic particles that everything else in nature is comprised of), all human behavior is natural phenomenon. For something to be 'unnatural' it would have to be magic (ie. supernatural).
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I AM SICK OF TIRED OF THE "AGE OLD ISSUE OF BLACK
MEN DATING WHITE MEN". Because the reality is that
black women has too been dating white men for decades.
It is on and poppin now days especially on t.v. and the big screen.
Didn't beyonce just portrayed a woman that was involved with
white men.

People on here are failing to realize that White Men are also
the most desirable and consider the most beautiful race amongst
males in this world. I dare anybody to name a female celebrity
when asked about "Hollywood's" sexiest men you tell me how many
times you hear a brotha's name. For the past 10 years now black
women's beauty has been put on display from black music videos
to the small screen and big screen. A woman's beauty is now
equal in this country. But the most desirable and sexy men is
still white men and that has never changed. Check people's magazine sexiest man alive contest or whatever it is, check
mainstream's interest in R&B & Soul rise when Justin Timberlake got
into to it versus when someone like Joss stone does it.

Bottom Line is black women are interested and is dating white
men by the numbers and it is in full display in mainstream media.
So it's time to leave black men dating white women alone.
For whatever reason bm and ww date each other fact is it is
their dating life, their interest, their personal life rather you like
it or not unless that person allows you to have say in their dating
life, you don't have say. They are nothing but opinions and
when it comes to a person's personal life nobody else's opinions
doesn't matter.
 
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False. Anything that is not an innate characteristic of the natural world can be classified as "unnatural" or artificial. As a case in point, consider the computer you're using (unnatural) and contrast it with the computer known as the human brain (natural).

Trees, oxygen, water, soil = natural.

Sidewalks, cars, skyscrapers = artificial (unnatural).

This also applies within the parameters of human behavior as we're capable of engaging in actions that do not conform with needs or desires.
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Natural resources are manipulated by humans to create cars, skyscrapers etc. but all physical objects are comprised of the same fermion and boson particles, these particles are just arranged differently. When we create computers, cars, vcr's etc., we are only rearranging already existing matter, we aren't creating anything fundamentally different. Would you say that a house is "unnatural" but a bird's nest is "natural"? Why, because houses are more complicated than nests or is it because humans are more intelligent than birds? Both humans and birds manipulate resources around them to create shelter and doing so is instinctual behavior in both cases.


Human beings are a part of nature, we are comprised of the same subatomic particles that every other physical object in the universe is comprised of. The carbon, nitrogen, hydrogen and oxygen atoms we are made up of are subject to the laws of physics, they don't have the option of behaving "unnaturally". We intuitively think of ourselves as something more than the atoms and subatomic particles we are made up of but we aren't, we are the sum of our parts. As for our actions not conforming with our needs and desires (I'm not sure I even understand this argument), our behavior is guided by our desire. We have conflicting desires but the stronger desires prevail. For example, if someone is on a diet and a part of them wants to lose weight or be healthy while another part of them wants to eat cake, they will abstain from eating caking if their desire to lose weight/be healthy is stronger than their desire to eat cake (and vice versa).
 
BlackMasterJay said:
I know most dudes will not admit that "sex" is the force that propels them to find a mate, but come on,,who ya kidding??...By watching porn, i believe we begin to have a different perspective of WHITE women. They look a little easier, a better target if you will. A walking prey waiting to fucked, and this is not the view we have of black women.

Clearly, the only reason white women are pursued so aggressively and relentlessly by so many men of all nationalities; is primarily based on sexual intercourse. I doubt these same brothers (or asians) would treat a "sister" with such condensation and objectivity
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The WS's would love this post.
And some wonder why IR is disregarded by most.
 
nobledruali said:
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This is nothing that should be looked deep into. The majority(not all of course) of black women I have encountered have issues with BM dating WW and issues with proper relationship dynamics in general.

CBQ said:
God I hate that argument. Oh, I don't have a problem with BM/WW, so long as it's REAL, and they aren't together for the wrong reasons.

As if that ever happens. As if any Black man decides to "value, respect, or desire women of other races simply because they are of another race", and any White Woman would be cool with that. Where are these relationships based ONLY on race? They must be plentiful, I'm always hearing about them.
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I agree, but you're equally as lost if you don't believe that some BM and WW only hook up based on sexual stereotypes/fetishes alone.

BlackMasterJay said:
We are socialized to believe white women are the epitome of womanhood (Books of facts, 2009). Any nurse or midwife will tell you that babies tend to perceive their biological mothers as being the most beautiful thing (ever). How then, can this perception we have of our mothers as babies suddenly and drastically alter as we get older?? How can we not aim to have children that reflect the nature of our beings?

You see as children we were in love with she who birthed us, but something went drastically astray along the journey. Something called PORN.

I know most dudes will not admit that "sex" is the force that propels them to find a mate, but come on,,who ya kidding??...By watching porn, i believe we begin to have a different perspective of WHITE women. They look a little easier, a better target if you will. A walking prey waiting to fucked, and this is not the view we have of black women.

Clearly, the only reason white women are pursued so aggressively and relentlessly by so many men of all nationalities; is primarily based on sexual intercourse. I doubt these same brothers (or asians) would treat a "sister" with such condensation and objectivity
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What is funniest about this is the fact that you actually attempted to make this post sound intelligent/logical.
 
kenny_g said:
I AM SICK OF TIRED OF THE "AGE OLD ISSUE OF BLACK
MEN DATING WHITE MEN". Because the reality is that
black women has too been dating white men for decades.
It is on and poppin now days especially on t.v. and the big screen.
Didn't beyonce just portrayed a woman that was involved with
white men.

People on here are failing to realize that White Men are also
the most desirable and consider the most beautiful race amongst
males in this world. I dare anybody to name a female celebrity
when asked about "Hollywood's" sexiest men you tell me how many
times you hear a brotha's name. For the past 10 years now black
women's beauty has been put on display from black music videos
to the small screen and big screen. A woman's beauty is now
equal in this country. But the most desirable and sexy men is
still white men and that has never changed. Check people's magazine sexiest man alive contest or whatever it is, check
mainstream's interest in R&B & Soul rise when Justin Timberlake got
into to it versus when someone like Joss stone does it.

Bottom Line is black women are interested and is dating white
men by the numbers and it is in full display in mainstream media.
So it's time to leave black men dating white women alone.
For whatever reason bm and ww date each other fact is it is
their dating life, their interest, their personal life rather you like
it or not unless that person allows you to have say in their dating
life, you don't have say. They are nothing but opinions and
when it comes to a person's personal life nobody else's opinions
doesn't matter.
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I somewhat agree and alot of bw and wm would like to keep it like this. Despite this, black men are still desired. First mistake some black males make that are interested in white women is caring what the average black women with this sort of mindset has to say in the first place.

CBQ said:
A little preoccupied by the idea, aren't you?
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Nope.
 
I posted this in the wrong thread seconds ago..LOL,,,,,but what the hey....i'll post it again.

If this site is even a small representation of the average blackmen/whitewomen community, then my post is 100% correct

Based on a study i conducted seconds ago (research results will be posted soon).Threads that had the most hits on this site had a sexual content (explicit or not).

The political, news ,religion and Science sections had the least amount of hits.

Threads in the "for lovers only" section are popular based on sexual content

The males room is filled with "explicit" sexual content. Little is ever discussed regarding black male issues and such.......nothing but naked white women getting fucked by black men

Either:
1. Black males(as well as white females) on this site are perverts
2. Are interested in sex way more than they are in politics, news and poetry

Or this site is not a good representation of quality black males and white women

You decide...


anyways----im going out to bone a few white hoes

take care:smt074
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If this site is even a small representation of the average blackmen/whitewomen community, then my post is 100% correct

Based on a study i conducted seconds ago (research results will be posted soon).Threads that had the most hits on this site had a sexual content (explicit or not).

The political, news ,religion and Science sections had the least amount of hits.

Threads in the "for lovers only" section are popular based on sexual content

The males room is filled with "explicit" sexual content. Little is ever discussed regarding black male issues and such.......nothing but naked white women getting fucked by black men

Either:
1. Black males(as well as white females) on this site are perverts
2. Are interested in sex way more than they are in politics, news and poetry

Or this site is not a good representation of quality black males and white women

You decide...


anyways----im going out to bone a few white hoes

take care
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OMG! Human beings on the interwebs are more interested in sex than anything else?!?!!?

This must have something to do with IR & babies because preoccupation with sex doesn't sound anything like everything every everywhere else in human history.
 
CBQ said:
OMG! Human beings on the interwebs are more interested in sex than anything else?!?!!?

This must have something to do with IR & babies because preoccupation with sex doesn't sound anything like everything every everywhere else in human history.
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Wow.:smt042
 
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