Black women who interracial date?

[chicity]

I'm trying to coy but yet you are trying to be hostile.

I don't think my post was that hostile at all. I had no idea you were so delicate.

ANd with your questions, you already have a preset-disposition about me and how I think.

I didn't actually, but you wouldn't give me a straight answer, which leaves me to guess. And if you can't give a straight answer at first, it tends to make me guess you've got something to hide.

No, I did NOT come on this site to be preachy and tell others how to run their life. Who do you take me for??? You do your thing, I do mines. Did I give any indication that I want to express my personal opinion about IR in general?

If you're posting on a board about IR, and you indicate you're no longer interested in dating IR personally, it leads one to wonder whether you're here because of your personal feelings about IR in general. Also, you being coy makes it seem like you have an agenda, and not a nice one.

See, that's another reason why I don't post as much. Too many assumptions.

If you don't answer the question, people have to guess. Next time, be more straightforward.

HOWEVER, I will give my two cents when I feel ablidge too. I am on this site because:

1. I am a black man
2. I did have interest in WW
3. I originally wanted to hear positive stories.


I don't lurk on the WM/BW orientated websites because that subject has absolutely NO interest in me whatsoever. I don't care what they (or y'all) do as far as dating is concern. However when those type of arguments leak onto boards that I am on and other dating-neutral boards, I will give my two cents on the matter with that as well.

You are still not answering. You've already expressed why you came here originally. That has nothing to do with why you are here now, since you indicate that you are no longer interested in WW, and you no longer want to hear positive stories. Why are you here now? I'm not asking why you stopped lurking. I'm asking why you're here. What is your interest in a message board about dating between White Women & Black Men if you've lost interest in the relationships between White Women & Black Men IR?

...And what is your opinion of WW/BM IR now?

 

[quato102]

"WM/BW do the vast majority of their fucking at work or on campus."



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[satyricon]

Exactly, it never takes long to spot a dumbass.

"WM/BW do the vast majority of their fucking at work or on campus."



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[chimex]

A bw friend of mine is recently divorced from a bm who used to beat her and generally treated her terribly. They had two sons together and she now has custody of them. She usually only dates bm, but there is a wm she's been out with a few times. The wm has a great job and seems to genuinely like her.

Last week, I was asking her how serious they were getting. She told me she didn't plan on getting serious with him, and when I asked her why, she looked at me like I was crazy. She said, "I have two black sons! I couldn't marry a white man!"

I was really blown away by what she said. I said, "Well, so you're saying the bm that hit you is a better father to your sons because he's black?" She acknowledged that I have a point, but she said she couldn't do it.

sorry to say here in africa bw only go out with wm just for one reason,money.nothing more nothingless.

 

[scott1618]

Man their are a lot of things a white person canNOT teach a black/biracial. Now if the he FATHERED the kids it would have been different, but not that much. This woman probably thought what type of message that would send to her black sons (and how her black relatives would think about this as well) if they were to have a white male as the guardian/father figure to her household. I wonder how old was he and what was his history. What was his background? How would he teach the boys about being denyed for a job, or the perverbial ceiling, or about how slavery effects the mentality and the country of whole, of every single person of African-descent in the Western Hemisphere to this day? I'm not one of those persons that say the MAN is holding me down, but still, discrimination of all class and creeds still happen in this country today, regardless of a black President.


Because that's history that effected all "races" of people, and that everyone could relate one way or another, rather you are Japanese, Chinese, German, French, British, Filipino, etc.

But can a white man can really tell about the pain and the history of slavery, recontruction, Civil Rights, Middle Passage (even though no one is alive to tell about it), lynchings, justice discrimination, etc? Will he teach about Cleaver, Fard Muhommed, Fanon, Garvey, Duboise, Nat Turner, or just MLK and Harriet Tubman? As the teacher, he could tell HIS version of the story, the PC pg-version, not the real nitty-gritty side, like a WWII vet can.

In a perfect I wish that was true...

From this post here I know I shouldn't waste any time getting into a logical discussion.

 

[bushdweller]

One thing I hate about these kinda threads (the kind that touch on black women, and the way they relate to men, ie. one of the major reasons black men end up "dating out" in the first place) is:

"liberal" white women are so eager to voice their sisterhood with black women by defending the attitude, etc. You'll find no demonstration of such sisterhood among black women.

If you need to see for yourself, visit the blog "whitewomensuck.blogspot.com" (written by a white man) and see the applause and support he gets from black women. If a black guy maintained a "black women suck" blog, you'd see white women condemning him. No such condemnation from the black women there.

Reminds me of the liberals who say any opposition to immigration is racism. Fact is, most of these immigrants they defend are unrepentant racists!

Like, if you claim to like black men, why defend the black women who are destroying black culture with their insecurity, attitude and entitlement complexes, while at the same time taking racist stances against bm/ww relations, while at the same time fucking pretty much any white man who'll have them?

Your "sisterhood" goes unrequited. Just be a thinking pro-human. That's plenty.

 

[LA]

While at the same time fucking pretty much any white man who'll have them?

Whoa, wtf?

 

[bushdweller]

I've seen it a lot. Many, many black women are easy for white men. Idea of being with a white guy gets them dreaming of the "white picket fence" etc. And damn right, they drop their standards for white men to something reasonable (or less) while being extremely "picky" when it comes to black men.

 

[LA]

I've seen it a lot. Many, many black women are easy for white men. Idea of being with a white guy gets them dreaming of the "white picket fence" etc. And damn right, they drop their standards for white men to something reasonable (or less) while being extremely "picky" when it comes to black men.

Wow, I can't believe you're serious.

 

[axum]

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...And what is your opinion of WW/BM IR now?

First of all jackass, when you say "you are trying to be coy" that implies I do have some type of hidden agenda. And then you were asking all your damn questions, like you trying figure me out, or trying to do some type of Sherlock Holmes type of detective work of trying to define a troll.

Yeah, I sensed your hostility, by the first thing you typed is trying to question why the hell I'm on this site. So, tell me, just who the hell you think you are anyways?

And to answer your question, BECAUSE I CAN, now, do you have a problem with that??

Get it through your head, that I'm not some random troll.

 

[axum]

From this post here I know I shouldn't waste any time getting into a logical discussion.

That's what I thought.

 

[chicity]

First of all jackass, when you say "you are trying to be coy" that implies I do have some type of hidden agenda. And then you were asking all your damn questions, like you trying figure me out, or trying to do some type of Sherlock Holmes type of detective work of trying to define a troll.

Yeah, I sensed your hostility, by the first thing you typed is trying to question why the hell I'm on this site. So, tell me, just who the hell you think you are anyways?

And to answer your question, BECAUSE I CAN, now, do you have a problem with that??

Get it through your head, that I'm not some random troll.

Obviously, you are determined to appear a troll. You CAN be here, and so can the white supremacists, the anti-IR Black Women, and everyone in between. You won't say WHY, you only get all offended and start crying when I ask. You claim you once wanted to hear positive stories, making the distinction of "once" to point out that you no longer are interested in this.

Obviously, there's one of two things going on:

You really don't support IR at all, making you yes, indeedy, a troll

or

You are such an emotional little pissant that you turn every direct question into a drama recital.

Either way, I was right in my original assessment: douchebag.

 

[axum]

Obviously, you are determined to appear a troll.

How so? Because you don't agree on what I say? And do you think I actually give a damn?

Either way, I was right in my original assessment: douchebag.

That's what I thought. You did have a preset-disposition about me, so I don't know why the hell you're trying to play Mr. Curiosity.

And, if you don't like what I have to say then you could do three things: ignore me, block me, or report to the moderators, but I stand by what I said; you are sitting up here saying that I get strung up over some damn questions, but here you are being bitchy because someone's opinion is different from yours.

 

[chicity]

How so? Because you don't agree on what I say? And do you think I actually give a damn?

If you are opposed to ww & bm being together, and you come to wwbm.com, you've come to troll.

If you felt that way, and spoke with someone in IR on a CNN messageboard, or myspace, then you wouldn't be a troll.

That's what I thought. You did have a preset-disposition about me, so I don't know why the hell you're trying to play Mr. Curiosity.

When I asked my first question, I didn't really. I've agreed with some of what you've posted, and I was trying to get a feel for where you were coming from.

The fact that you wouldn't answer pretty much screams douchebag tho.

And, if you don't like what I have to say then you could do three things: ignore me, block me, or report to the moderators,

Or I could keep posting to you as much as I damn well please, regardless of how the fuck you feel about it.

but I stand by what I said, you sitting up here saying that I get strung up over some damn questions, but here you are being bitchy because someone's opinion is different from yours.

If your opinion is that there's anything wrong with White Women and Black Men being together, then you're a shithead bigot and I don't give frog's flying fart how bitchy you think I'm being, bitchy was invented for motherfuckers like you.

And if you don't think that there's anything wrong with White Women and Black Men being together, and you've been dancing around the question this long just because you don't like being questioned, then you're not a bigot, but you are most definitely a douchebag.

 

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[Honest Brother]

One thing I hate about these kinda threads (the kind that touch on black women, and the way they relate to men, ie. one of the major reasons black men end up "dating out" in the first place) is:

"liberal" white women are so eager to voice their sisterhood with black women by defending the attitude, etc. You'll find no demonstration of such sisterhood among black women.

If you need to see for yourself, visit the blog "whitewomensuck.blogspot.com" (written by a white man) and see the applause and support he gets from black women. If a black guy maintained a "black women suck" blog, you'd see white women condemning him. No such condemnation from the black women there.

Reminds me of the liberals who say any opposition to immigration is racism. Fact is, most of these immigrants they defend are unrepentant racists!

Like, if you claim to like black men, why defend the black women who are destroying black culture with their insecurity, attitude and entitlement complexes, while at the same time taking racist stances against bm/ww relations, while at the same time fucking pretty much any white man who'll have them?

Your "sisterhood" goes unrequited. Just be a thinking pro-human. That's plenty.

I'm glad that someone decided to speak on this. You got black women and white men who date each other, and when they talk bad about black men, no one says a goddamn thing, but let a brother make an observation about black women and the whole world comes afer his ass, even some of these white women who are supposedly down for black men. I think a lot of these white women who go after black men, especial if they're from the US, have the same negative attitude that most other people have towards black men. Most of them are only with black dudes cause they looking for a big dick or they cant get a decent white dude. ANd some of these brothers will take anything that's white.

 

[LA]

Funny how all these people are signing up just to respond to this thread.

 

[Honest Brother]

Wow, I can't believe you're serious.

He's right. Tell you ain't seen those black girls who are down to fuck any white guy that looks in they directs but any brother has to have serious bank to get a them. And on top of that, they have the nerve to get pissed about BM and WW when they out fuckin white dudes, and no one says a damn word about it.

 

[axum]

If you are opposed to ww & bm being together, and you come to wwbm.com, you've come to troll.

If you felt that way, and spoke with someone in IR on a CNN messageboard, or myspace, then you wouldn't be a troll.

Now I know for a fact it's true what they say, ASSumption is the mother of all fuck-ups. I did not give ANY indication that I was AGAINST IR in general. And for a person who was interested in (IE dating) ww, then that doesn't mean that he is now all of a sudden AGAINST IR in general. You are not looking at the full fucking spectrum, everything is so damn black and white to you.

And to clear things up, when you said a "black" daughter, I thought you meant a non-biraicial child, therefore that's why I said the things I have said. If the ww is the bio-mother, than it would be different.

 

[chicity]

Now I know for a fact it's true what they say, ASSumption is the mother of all fuck-ups. I did not give ANY indication that I was AGAINST IR in general.

You don't actually know what the word assumption means, do you?

I asked you, specifically, whether you had anything against IR in general. You refused to answer. That means one of two things: You do, or you don't and you just don't want to answer the question. I adressed both possibilities.

And for a person who was interested in (IE dating) ww, then that doesn't mean that he is now all of a sudden AGAINST IR in general.

Which is why I asked you specifically, exactly, that.

You are not looking at the full fucking spectrum, everything is so damn black and white to you.

No, I'm not looking at the full fucking spectrum of things you won't say. I'm being really short sighted with my psychicness, I guess.

And to clear things up, when you said a "black" daughter, I thought you meant a non-biraicial child, therefore that's why I said the things I have said. If the ww is the bio-mother, than it would be different.

Whoopdeedoo.