thats cool to appreciate what you have. My ex didnot do that for me. that is really painful for me. she is really an evil woman. she gives me a hard time about seeing my daughter and she is the one that destroyed the marriage. maybe im niave but it seems as tho everyone has had a great experience ( overall) in their IR. is that the case ? my marriage was not an IR relationship.
It's nothing more than natural attraction. It can be on a physical, mental or spiritual level or a combo of all three. Some people find true love and others just find a good time, but regardless of the reasons for the attraction it's completely normal and people shouldn't make such a big deal about it.
I don't know what she was refering to, but IMO very dark eyes are beautiful, both in men and women, I think they are stunning, penetrating, captivating, and grounding somehow. However my guy, WOW!, his eyes are the first thing that drew me to him, he is sooooo...... expresive with his eyes, he speaks with them more than anyone else I've ever met. I miss that about him the most when he's gone because he doesn't say near as much over the phone or in a text or email, because his eyes speak so clearly.
Yes Sir, the same guy, he's stateside now, I should see him next month. He's taking care of business on the East Coast!!
My ex-boyfriend I dated for four years was Black. Since we've broken up I've been on dates with both Black and White guys. I seem to have a stronger attraction to Black men. I think it's because a)I dated one for so long, b)They seem more "real," can really understand you and your problems, and c)Not as shy, if you will, as White guys. Of course this is all simply personal opinion.
caribbean black men Iam sorry you feel that caribbean men are controlling,news flash not all caribbean men are like that babe. I am from trinidad, we were brought with strong family values,to respect our woman. dont judge all caribbean as the same and i think caribbean are still world class men no wonder english woman and german woman are comming to trinidad for their black men :smt008
oh wow - it took me a minute to read through all of the postings on this thread. I would say that for me, personally, I was interested in IR before I even realized the very first boy I liked & I were different races or even knew about dating (I think we were in 3rd or 4th grade). I distinctly remember his sunny disposition, dark curly hair, deep brown eyes & a smile that lit up his face and made my heart beat faster. Unfortunately my family relocated shortly thereafter so we lost touch. Even through HS I kept an eye out for a similar connection, but it was rather difficult due to shyness and being an outsider (Yankee transplant) living in a small rural Southern town where "small minded mentality" dwelled at the time. .....so I'd say my attraction for BM is based on my childhood friendship. therefore - my search continues )
Such a complicated question. I'll just say that I've alway been most attracted to and drawn to Black Men right from the start. Most of all, I love the differences between black and white and it creates a lot of chemistry (of the good kind) !!!
