what do white women love about black men?

christine dubois said:
I love black men and white men. In fact, I love men. I don´t want to make any difference between the race. When I love a man, I love the man, not the skin colour. I love the character, how he looks at me. And I need to be proud of my man, he is the closest person for me.

And the plus points are not always the same. One i loved very much, because he was so strong, reliable, protective. Another one was just extremely sexy for me and he was easy to talk to.

At the end, I cannot see the difference of race, I also don´t want to....
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well stated.
Basically every person should be looking for someone who brings balance in ones life
 
amy said:
That would describe my friend, Heidi. Thought she'd have some fun by dating a black man against her dad's wishes and wound up having a kid with the guy.
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has she regretted dating a black guy or that guy or does she have any regretts ?
 
firsttimelasttime said:
I am slightly above average built southern raised girl. Half of my family would give me a hard time about my man I have had for 4 years now. I had never dated a black man before this and I am asking myself why not??? It's the best experience I have ever had and I am so happy to share my life with him.

He is a fantastic man, father and friend. He knows how to please me in bed, he never skimps on the fantastic love making. I like how my skin contrasts with his and his lips the way that they kiss me. They cover me like that is where they are supposed to be. He is protective and giving. He looks good even on his bad days. His smile is like the beacon that shines the way for his lesons that guide me through life. I am very greatful to have insight opposite to what I grew up in. I feel like I have everything with him.

Unlike previous men, he appreciates my body and the way my booty jiggles. He likes me for who I am and makes me a better person. The other ones were pompous jerks who think their crap don't stink. He will straight up tell me how it is and that's what I need. He is real and he has been through it to say that. I feel comfortable and secure knowing that if things get bad he won't buckle under pressure so easily. He is thick and thin just like I am.

Im not going back... Im not going anywhere. He had me from hello and now he has me for life.

I love listening to him sing to the kids at night. His voice is great and he can move his body just as well.
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thats cool to appreciate what you have. My ex didnot do that for me. that is really painful for me.

she is really an evil woman. she gives me a hard time about seeing my daughter and she is the one that destroyed the marriage.

maybe im niave but it seems as tho everyone has had a great experience ( overall) in their IR. is that the case ?

my marriage was not an IR relationship.
 
It's nothing more than natural attraction. It can be on a physical, mental or spiritual level or a combo of all three. Some people find true love and others just find a good time, but regardless of the reasons for the attraction it's completely normal and people shouldn't make such a big deal about it.
 
Galiant said:
Black men have beautiful eyes? I have had comments on my eyes before but that is because of the reflective glow of them and the shape. Are you referring to eye color or something else?
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I don't know what she was refering to, but IMO very dark eyes are beautiful, both in men and women, I think they are stunning, penetrating, captivating, and grounding somehow.

However my guy, WOW!, his eyes are the first thing that drew me to him, he is sooooo...... expresive with his eyes, he speaks with them more than anyone else I've ever met. I miss that about him the most when he's gone because he doesn't say near as much over the phone or in a text or email, because his eyes speak so clearly.
 
Tinkerbell said:
I don't know what she was refering to, but IMO very dark eyes are beautiful, both in men and women, I think they are stunning, penetrating, captivating, and grounding somehow.

However my guy, WOW!, his eyes are the first thing that drew me to him, he is sooooo...... expresive with his eyes, he speaks with them more than anyone else I've ever met. I miss that about him the most when he's gone because he doesn't say near as much over the phone or in a text or email, because his eyes speak so clearly.
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It sounds like you you're dating a very intuitive person there Tinkerbell.
 
My ex-boyfriend I dated for four years was Black. Since we've broken up I've been on dates with both Black and White guys. I seem to have a stronger attraction to Black men. I think it's because a)I dated one for so long, b)They seem more "real," can really understand you and your problems, and c)Not as shy, if you will, as White guys.

Of course this is all simply personal opinion.
 
caribbean black men

bosoxlady said:
pettyofficerj,

You are right, white men ARE at the top of the totem pole in many countries, but when I soent time in both Jamaica and Bermuda, they were not. I feel that for that reason Carribean men have a little more, for lack of a better word attitude than men raised here, but on the flip side, in my experience, they are a tab bit more controlling than black men raised here. So, I prefer dating black men FROM America.
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Iam sorry you feel that caribbean men are controlling,news flash not all caribbean men are like that babe. I am from trinidad, we were brought with strong family values,to respect our woman. dont judge all caribbean as the same and i think caribbean are still world class men no wonder english woman and german woman are comming to trinidad for their black men :smt008
 
carzy trini said:
Iam sorry you feel that caribbean men are controlling,news flash not all caribbean men are like that babe. I am from trinidad, we were brought with strong family values,to respect our woman. dont judge all caribbean as the same and i think caribbean are still world class men no wonder english woman and german woman are comming to trinidad for their black men :smt008
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Uh huh and if you only knew the TRUTH.... :smt039
 
oh wow - it took me a minute to read through all of the postings on this thread. I would say that for me, personally, I was interested in IR before I even realized the very first boy I liked & I were different races or even knew about dating (I think we were in 3rd or 4th grade). I distinctly remember his sunny disposition, dark curly hair, deep brown eyes & a smile that lit up his face and made my heart beat faster. Unfortunately my family relocated shortly thereafter so we lost touch. Even through HS I kept an eye out for a similar connection, but it was rather difficult due to shyness and being an outsider (Yankee transplant) living in a small rural Southern town where "small minded mentality" dwelled at the time.

.....so I'd say my attraction for BM is based on my childhood friendship.

therefore - my search continues :o)
 
Such a complicated question. I'll just say that I've alway been most attracted to and drawn to Black Men right from the start. Most of all, I love the differences between black and white and it creates a lot of chemistry (of the good kind) !!!
 
life5577 said:
I am gonna find me a brotha and make my own colorblind poster!


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sexy pics babe
 
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