suprchic73
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No prob, chica! And you're totally HOTT STUFF!!...no shame in your game, lol. :smt003
ps: did you get my email?? hook a white girl up now!!...LOL
I will admit I have and will continue to chubby chase
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No prob, chica! And you're totally HOTT STUFF!!...no shame in your game, lol. :smt003
ps: did you get my email?? hook a white girl up now!!...LOL
suprchic73
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Wow suprchic your pics on the other thread are hot! Gorgeous face AND body.
As for chubby chasing, uhhmm I've never been with someone drastically overweight but wouldn't rule it out. Bodywise I'm not too fussy these days. Can't lie, I love me some abs but it's not a dealbreaker. I do not think I could be with someone like Bizarre from d12. I apologise for being shallow but...
For real though I do have a lot of stairs going up to my apartment.
Thanks, girl!
And I'm with you - a man without a washboard stomach is so not a deal breaker. I actually kinda like a "thick" man - mainly that filled out, manly body that men seem to get around 30. Any other ladies know what I'm talking about??
Inner Beauty
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Wow suprchic your pics on the other thread are hot! Gorgeous face AND body.
As for chubby chasing, uhhmm I've never been with someone drastically overweight but wouldn't rule it out. Bodywise I'm not too fussy these days. Can't lie, I love me some abs but it's not a dealbreaker. I do not think I could be with someone like Bizarre from d12. I apologise for being shallow but...
For real though I do have a lot of stairs going up to my apartment.
LOL! I remember when he was on Celebrity Fit Club. We see that didn't work out for him.
Liquid Swords
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Thanks, girl!
And I'm with you - a man without a washboard stomach is so not a deal breaker. I actually kinda like a "thick" man - mainly that filled out, manly body that men seem to get around 30. Any other ladies know what I'm talking about??
Yuppppp... I met a guy last May who was a little (hmm maybe quite a bit) older than me and he had that kinda body. :heart: He taught me things too. He wasn't fat per se, quite muscular but not defined muscles. I suck at explaining things.
The Dark King
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Thank God for men like you!!rayer:
I resent that statement.
I'm a dress size 14-16. While I've always been confident in the person that I am...I have struggled with my physical appearance - mainly b/c I'm not a size 2. I'm not gonna hate on you Andrae, b/c you've give me much love, but it's b/c of the statement above that you made and many statements like it [from other men] that I was MORE than hesitant to post these pics: http://whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/showthread.php?p=319039#post319039 I know I'm not all that - there will always be someone prettier and with a better body - but all be damned if I'm not gonna work what I got. I think the biggest problem with size(s) in today's society is that most men (and some women) have an idea in their head about what they believe a size 12 or 14 or 16 looks like. And most people (men and women) think lard ass when they hear the term plus-size or full-figured....BUT they make these assumptions based on the fact that a lot of fat women like to refer to themselves as plus-size. I'm not hating on fat girls b/c God knows I'm no skinny minnie! But, oh how it pisses me off when people want to put the two pics below in the same category. For so many years, I've struggled with this issue that I'm not thin enough, I'm not pretty enough...and I probably will continue to struggle with that as long as there are men who, without thinking, throw out statements like "someone who is a size 16 ain't hot". I would like to think if for some reason I were ever thrown back into the dating pool, that there would be men who appreciated my body and wouldn't be totally repulsed by the fact that I don't have a washboard stomach or a perfectly sculpted ass. There's a huge difference between being a big girl and being a fat girl.
I'm gonna go now, b/c I'm not sure I'm making any sense. :smt102
SC you're a fricking amazon so my statement obviously didn't apply to you love but as a guy who tries to keep himself in shape I am so turned off by women don't take pride in themselves and as a model you have to agree a size 14 at 5'5 is totally different at 6'2 sheesh lol
suprchic73
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lol...you did fine!
i'm with you on the not-so-defined muscle thing. it's fun to look at, but in reality i could take it or leave it.
Inner Beauty
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No prob, chica! And you're totally HOTT STUFF!!...no shame in your game, lol. :smt003
ps: did you get my email?? hook a white girl up now!!...LOL
Thank you Fluffy....lol
I'm on it!
Liquid Swords
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LOL I saw d12 live last April and I was shocked at his size. He looked like he was in his 3rd trimester with octuplets (ha little exaggeration). He was sweaty as hell too. I guess I couldn't with a guy like that cuz I don't want the guy to be panting and dripping buckets of sweat after 3 thrusts LOL sorry graphic.
suprchic73
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lol...well, yeah, i definitely agree with your last statement. a woman 6'0" could easily pull off 180lbs and look damn amazing....but a woman 5'0" at 180, not so much. i wasn't trying to jump on ya...i just get really tired of generalized, ridiculous statements. i'm sensitive today...blame it on pms, lol. :-?
Loki
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Hi Supr, good to see you posting again. Certainly understandable that you would resent such a statement. That being said, I don't see anything wrong with Andrae feeling that way, it is just his opinion. What is or is not attractive is always in the eye of the beholder. I hear many of my single guy friends complain that even in these modern times, most women will not ask out men, which means that men must be the aggressor and put themselves out there to be judged by their looks when asking a woman out for a date.
I know it is easier said than done, but I do hope you win your ongoing battle to love who you are, hell the world would be a very boring place if we all looked the same. I know you know that there will always be those who are kind or unkind in their opinions about the appearance of others, the trick is to let it roll off your back and not let it affect your opinion of yourself. I remember back in college I asked a gal out freshman year and she shot me down saying I was too skinny, (I was a string bean freshman year), well by my senior year I was 245 lb's with 6% body fat, my body finally filled out and I had hit the gym hard all throughout college. The same girl now tried to get with me, and I turned her down, but it was not out of spite, or revenge (although I must admit it was slightly pleasurable turning the tables), point is I was always secure in who I was, skinny or bigger, and I hope the same for you.
suprchic73
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LMAO....is that a fat joke my fellow Fluffy? I mean we are in the "chubby chase" thread??....lol
:smt043:smt043:smt043:smt043
Inner Beauty
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LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!
His shit looks like he's carrying the globe around....
Speaking of graphic, I was watching a porno the other day and dude was sweating and dripping. :smt078 (and he wasn't putting in that much work either)
Inner Beauty
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LMAO! I thought about that after I hit send.
I'm Fluffy for real...LOL!
Marshmallow Fluffy....
The Dark King
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Can someone please send this beautiful woman a hug. You know I think you're gorgeous as do the rest of us baby girl
suprchic73
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Thanks for your input.
I did say in my original post that I've always been comfortable with the person I am, but I've still struggled with the size issue. Me and Andrae are cool - I don't have an issue with him. But just like I told him, I get damn sick of men walking around talking about how women have to be under a certain size and weight to be considered hot. It's ridiculous. One of the biggest double standards in our society is how much weight a woman is allowed to carry vs how much a man can carry. But whatever - this horse has been beat too death many times. I'm done.
:neutral:
The Dark King
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I would like to point out that you guys are being insensative. Losing weight isn't easy. He. Has feelings too and shouldn't be subjected to being ogled
See how gay shit like that is lol
suprchic73
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whoa....D12 was in a porno?? Eww. :smt095
Inner Beauty
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LOL!!!!!!! He's a guy, it's a lot easier for men to lose weight...
LOL! Eewww. Could you imagine? That tummy would just be resting on you making dents and shit. Then you couldn't get to the dick, so you'd have to ride him while you push his stomach up to get to "it".
suprchic73
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