Is there really double standards in dating overseas?

Its not like America where people make up assumptions about cultures and people that never met.

Talk about the pot trying to call the kettle black. :smt042

And Girle Girl this is five years after Katrina hit New Orleans and you're stupid claims of post-racial South are constantly blown up by a wave of news reports. The latest being the Nettleton Middle School in Mississippi and of course the massive cover up of police murdering Black Men during Katrina.

So when you can bring some real ammo to this discussion you let me know.

I didn't mention the South, but since you did, I'll redirect you to the post (aka ammo) I made to you a year ago that you have still yet to respond to. This will be the third time that I brought it up to you, and you always seem to go MIA instead of responding to it.

Then how come (almost) every Southern Congressman stands up and says, almost to a man that Obama is not from America, march around with Nazi signs, booklets that read USS Constitution (which is a SHIP), still have random acts of violence, especially vs other people of color?

Elected Mark Stanford and numerous other things I can't list them all. Just because there pockets of intelligence and Blue, everybody says LA is full of fake people and "fruits and nuts", now how come I can't make a blanket statement too?

I've already been to Europe twice and I will be going back as soon as my car comes back from the body shop. I'm setting it up so I can live there at least part time.

Nevermind I have many family members from Mississippi, Alabama, Georgia and where that crazy ass Governor Rick Perry lives, Texas.

I've spent enough time in the South to know I don't wanna live there, no matter how cheap it is. I use to run for J.B Hunt Trucking and ran Walmart loads out of LA/TX/GA for 4 months, plus spent Superbowl weekend in Jacksonville off a US Mail run.

How do you know I have no knowledge of something??? Your neighbors vote these kind of morons, you don't get a pass just because you like Black Men, Married One and Have Children from One.

I'm not sure where to even start so I will just jump right in. Please inform me of what type of pass you are referring to because I have no idea what you mean. I've never thought that dating black men gave me any special privileges. I don't see it as being any different from dating any other man. It doesn't make me any more or less special than anyone else.

In the county that I live in, the vote was 40% Obama and 60% McCain. I wasn't in the poll booth with my neighbors so I don't know how they voted. I will say this though. In my neighborhood, there were more Obama signs than McCain signs. So, I don't feel my neighbors are the ones that voted-in any morons. Several of my colleagues and I campaigned for Obama. Some of them even spent the last weekends before the elections in the battleground states of Missouri and Ohio knocking door to door trying to get voters to the polls and to vote for Obama. Unfortunately, we didn't win the battle in our state, but we did win the war. I suppose that you think all of us are dumbasses too just because we live in the South even though we were on the same page as you for who we wanted as President.

Out of curiosity, how do you feel about the other states that elected McCain? There were several red states that were not in the South. Do you feel that all of them are idiots too, or is your prejudice just restricted to the South? I'm a die-hard Democrat and proud of it. I could say that everyone in California is an idiot because you have a Republican governor and that 19 out of 53 of your House of Representative members are Republican. However, I know that blanketed statements about people make me just as assinine as the group that I think I'm putting it down. It would only make me look like an asshole. (Side note: I don't think badly of people that are Republicans because of their party affiliation. I'm just using that as an example to make my point. So, please keep that in mind.)

I hate to burst your bubble, but racial problems are not limited to the South. I'm not saying that we don't have any problems because we do and have a way to go in resolving those problems; however, I don't feel that we are alone in that. To read your posts, it sounds as if California became perfect on race relations after the 1992 beating of Rodney King. Here is a link to a report issued by the ACLU called 'The Persistance of Racial and Ethnic Profiling in the United States.' ttp://www.aclu.org/pdfs/humanrights/cerd_finalreport.pdf The online version of this report was released on June 30, 2009 so it is a current publication. If you will go to page 41 of that report, there is a section called 'State Updates and New Cases of Racial Profiling.' Ironically, there are other states mentioned in that section besides Southern states. California, Michigan, New Jersey and New York are all in the list of updates. So, I guess that the whole nation has a long way to go as far as race relations is concerned.

As far as random acts of violence, here is a link to the FBI's website where there is a statistics reports on hate crimes by state for the year 2007, which is the most recent year posted. http://www.fbi.gov/ucr/hc2007/jurisdiction.htm If you look at Table 12, it gives the incidents of hate crimes reported by state. California has the most reports; however, I realized that you can't take that report and say California had more hate crimes than any other state and use that as a comparison because of the population of California. I took the liberty to take the number of hate crimes and divide by the population of the state to get a percentage of hate crimes by population. Here are the top 10 according to those statistics: New Jersey, District of Columbia, Michigan, Delaware, Massachusetts, South Dakota, Maine, Kansas, Oregon and Virginia. It looks like hate crimes are everywhere and not just in the South as you would like to have us believe.

I will sleep a lot better tonight knowing that you aren't planning on moving to the South. I'm not trying to convince you to either. I'm just trying to point out that your blanketed generalizations about the South and American white women are ridiculous. You can't judge a whole group by what a few people do. If I came on this board and made sweeping generalizations about black men the way that you do about the South and American WW, I would be called out for it everyday; and I feel that I would eventually be ran off by the board. So, what makes it right for you to be able to do it and never be called out on it?

For future reference, I would appreciate it if you would use your superb California education to make complete sentences, use punctuation and try to have a coherent train of thought the next time that you post to me. It would also be helpful if you would post links to verify your statements instead of just making random statements without any support. Thank you.
 
Talk about the pot trying to call the kettle black. :smt042



I didn't mention the South, but since you did, I'll redirect you to the post (aka ammo) I made to you a year ago that you have still yet to respond to. This will be the third time that I brought it up to you, and you always seem to go MIA instead of responding to it.

I'm getting a pedicure at the moment so I have to make this shorter than I'd like. Your points are excellent as always GG, one of the many reasons I luv you. Hope all is well with your family.
 
I think its safe to say I know more people on this planet than you do.

How do I feel about States like Kansas or Missouri ? One phase - Dr. George Tiller.

This is where the culture wars are waged because frankly you don't see many "outsiders". This is where IR dating is largely a novelty and deep economic segregation exist. This is also known as the Bible Belt -

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QtD8S5SnViQ

Look, people called up Thom Hartmann and Mike Malloy and say "Hey I live in X-place and I have a bunch of moronic assholes that live here. Latest nonsensical argument; Islam - http://beforeitsnews.com/story/153/..._as_Mosque_Voted_Down_by_City_Government.html

Don't get me started on Fix News and the reactionaries on the Right. But it doesn't help when its on at every Restaurant, Truck Stop, Barber Shop, Beauty Salon, Train Station or Bus Station either.

I didn't support Obama, not in the way you believe. In fact I was and still a Rep Dennis Kucinich supporter. Obama is an opportunist and centrist at best and his policies reflect that. Did I support a Black Man getting into office? Sure but as I told my stepfather, its okay for a Nigga to be President, the country is so fucked up why not let him have it? To prove he can't fix it, he's a failure and people will say "Oh that experiment didn't work out as planned". I don't want his Presidency to fail but that's a whole another subject.

There are morons in California I didn't say that. We have "Tea Parties" here but they don't get much traction that's the BIG difference. We also have the KKK, pork and beans eating Militias, shoot first ask questions later law enforcement and all the rest of it.

But these are minor distractions from the REAL work which is making Life better for everybody here. That's the work that's being done here. We don't have to canvas cities and towns, go door to door, its a luxury we take for granted. The big difference is the South largely went from George Wallace types to Haily Barber when I actually see NO difference.

So who are the people that put these morons in office? I didn't say you did it, I didn't even say those in your family have done it but somebody is doing it.

I can point out all sorts of grammatical errors and mis-spellings all around the net. I often think faster than I type and sometimes I don't proof read it, that's hardly an indictment on my level of education.

I'll close by saying this -

I don't really have a personal beef with anybody, this is just a discussion. But I am not going to let somebody tell me something different when I have the facts on my side. The fact remains that South is still upset over "War of Northern Aggression". Fact remains that Iowa has one of the highest incarceration rates of Black Men in America. The fact remains that while we play culture war games with Bibles, Koran, Gays, Relationships and our Children. Class Warfare largely goes unnoticed and trillions of dollars that could be used to help you is going to people that really don't need it.

The last place you need to be is where 60% of the local population is working against you.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/08/04/prop-8-overturned-gay-mar_n_671018.html

http://www.thetransportpolitic.com/...raigosas-3010-gambit-for-los-angeles-transit/

http://www.cahighspeedrail.ca.gov/ - With help from Siemens

http://californiaonecare.org/ - Canadian/European style Single Payer Health Care Reform

http://elections.firedoglake.com/20...36-us-majority-supports-legalizing-marijuana/

http://www.triplepundit.com/2010/08/ab32-kills-jobs-proposition-23/
 
I'm getting a pedicure at the moment so I have to make this shorter than I'd like. Your points are excellent as always GG, one of the many reasons I luv you. Hope all is well with your family.

What points did she make?

As I said, you (and her) choose to stay and deal with bullshit I could and would not tolerate.

She's just mad I seemed to a throw an entire population of people under the bus. All I'm saying is that the South largely hasn't changed and neither has the rest of "Fly Over Country".

Also like many they assume all of California looks like this -

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When the majority of it looks like this -

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The WW on this site are different than the ones who are not on this site. The latter has not guts to approach a brother of her choosing whereas a European woman could.
 
What points did she make?

As I said, you (and her) choose to stay and deal with bullshit I could and would not tolerate.

She's just mad I seemed to a throw an entire population of people under the bus. All I'm saying is that the South largely hasn't changed and neither has the rest of "Fly Over Country".

I choose to stay where I am, but there is no bullshit for me to tolerate. IR is not an issue here at all, I see IR couples everywhere and no one is giving them a second glance. I grew up in rural Kansas and dated IR starting in my mid-teens and never once caught hell from anyone. You will find ignorant people everywhere, but that doesn't mean everyone is like that. I think that's all we're trying to say here. You should not make a broad generalization about an entire state, or part of the country based upon what you read, without having some direct knowledge of your own. I don't take anyone's word on anything, I have to see it for myself.
 
I choose to stay where I am, but there is no bullshit for me to tolerate. IR is not an issue here at all, I see IR couples everywhere and no one is giving them a second glance. I grew up in rural Kansas and dated IR starting in my mid-teens and never once caught hell from anyone. You will find ignorant people everywhere, but that doesn't mean everyone is like that. I think that's all we're trying to say here. You should not make a broad generalization about an entire state, or part of the country based upon what you read, without having some direct knowledge of your own. I don't take anyone's word on anything, I have to see it for myself.

What makes you think I don't have direct knowledge?

I have family all over this country, the Pickett/Gibson clan is at least a couple of hundred deep and in almost every State from California to New York. My cousin Jeffery is married to his White College Sweetheart and they have two children, live in Wichita, KS.

I didn't say Kansas was racist did I? Its a holier than now Bible Thumping Midwestern State. Being against IR is largely a non-issue and hypocritical if they are the evangelical Christians they say they are.

Where did I generalize a country? The US? Which I know extremely well maybe? A country were 20-25% of the population drives political debate?

These people right here? -

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As I said I don't get buthurt when people call SF the Fag Capital of the country. I don't scream when people say LA is full of fake people.
 
no offense to the big city people but the big cities suck ass

Rural America is where the devil resides as far as I'm concern. I've been to alot of major cities around the world. I hardly see any negatives. You have crime in Rural America its just type that people aren't willing to talk about - :smt018

Besides this is off-topic...
 
Rural America is where the devil resides as far as I'm concern.

You have crime in Rural America its just type that people aren't willing to talk about -
There's some sick crimes that occur in the city as well.

I've seen plenty of the devil in the city.
 
There's some sick crimes that occur in the city as well.

I've seen plenty of the devil in the city.

no joke..the man is entitled to his opinions, but the city can be brutal. Cops get killed like regular people, school faculty get swarmed on and killed on trains (happened before, google it), neighbors get shot for playing their music too loud in cramped apartments (im not making that one up..i see why it happened tho :p), etc

not to mention bed-bug infestations....u cant beat that..just ask them New Yorkers
 
no joke..the man is entitled to his opinions, but the city can be brutal. Cops get killed like regular people, school faculty get swarmed on and killed on trains (happened before, google it), neighbors get shot for playing their music too loud in cramped apartments (im not making that one up..i see why it happened tho :p), etc

not to mention bed-bug infestations....u cant beat that..just ask them New Yorkers

That's a stereotype bruh. Google it lol
 
Countries I've been to in Europe are Germany, France, Netherlands(shorter than I would like to have spend), and Belgium

I thought Germany was the best. Berlin, Koln, and Dortmund was nice, and a couple of the smaller cities in the west were cool also. Unfortunately I didn't visit Munich or Frankfurt. I heard nice things.

What would you say was the best country overall and/or the best city overall in Europe you visited?

Also why not visit Poland and Romania again? if you don't mind me asking?

In another post you said you worked for the Air Force, awhile back. Is that what allowed you travel to these countries, or it was on your own time??

Hey Raul sorry about that, I was working in the Air Force when I went to Netherlands. I was in the Air Force for 8 years though. Spent my early years in Illinois. I was a contractor when I went to Portugal (2009/10). My father was in the air force when I travelled as a child. I went to Netherlands on two different occassions though, lived there when I was 15 and then later at 23.

Dortmund was awesome, had that club that look like a dome, called Catwalk or something like that. But atmosphere during the day time was contrast. Munich too. Frankfurt is crazy too though during the night time, but day time much quieter.

Best country overall I visited would probably be tie between Australia and Netherlands. Belgium is close second. But nothing beat those two. Beautiful women and always something to do no matter what. I kinda miss it, planned on going there instead of going back to portugal to visit friends.


Were you in the military by any chance?

Poland just had a dark environment and people just were not that friendly there, plus Polish and Romanian seem to have stereotypes against black folks. One walked up to me and asked if I had weed in Poland. Romanians are still kinda closed off since the 80s. New things dont seem to go over well with them.
 
There's some sick crimes that occur in the city as well.

I've seen plenty of the devil in the city.

Pure Evil happens in the city, no doubt. But at least people don't use the excuse of GAWD to kill people -

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/06/01/us/01tiller.html

I might be okay with this kinda behavior but they KEEP DOING IT. Proving once again these morons only care about the fetus as some statement of Gawd's handiwork, but once that child is born especially to a Single Black Mother, ALL BETS ARE OFF!
 
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