Feeling Guilty About Attraction to White Women?

I think nobody should feel guilty for dating a person because they are of another race. I don't think it's self hate if you have a preference for people outside your race. I DO think you have a self-hating mentality though if you CANNOT whatsoever find beauty within your own race.
 
Inner Beauty said:
He hates he even thinks about a WW and he's not interested in WW, so I don't get it....
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I wish I could stop being attracted to White women as well, I hate it with a passion. I'm not attracted to most White women (and not any of the ones I see in real life) but the women I do have romantic feelings for, the ones I see on internet message boards or in television shows/movies/porn videos, are usually White-afrolove
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this dude needs :smt100
 
AfroLove said:
I really wonder why this is, I'm sure that it can be explained psychologically. Why would this happen? From an evolutionary stand point, you should be attracted to most women who appear healthy and fertile and as though they would make good mothers and partners.
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I agree but I don't believe for a minute the originator of this thread feels he losing his attraction to ALL BLACK women. Halle Berry is a beast as is Meagan Good. I'm personally attracted to WOMEN across all ethnicities...
 
Malik True said:

I agree but I don't believe for a minute the originator of this thread feels he losing his attraction to ALL BLACK women. Halle Berry is a beast as is Meagan Good. I'm personally attracted to WOMEN across all ethnicities...
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All the ethnicities can get the dick but only ww get the heart. Just the way its always been.
 
pettyofficerj said:
this is why i dont get the brothas, that flat-out have problems with BW. Cuz, dont you know when you pass your seed, your baby girl will probably have brown skin? Same goes for the ones that hate white guys. Cuz, dont you know your son might end up looking white?

I just dont get this shit. Maybe some people arent really thinking about relationships and having kids with WW. Maybe this shit is all about the sex afterall.

SMDH
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+1


xoxo said:
By 2011, 130% of Black women will be single.




and guess what?




It's all your fault!!!!!
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hahaha! I had to click there :D
 
Inner Beauty said:
Thank you!



I'm just curious, but why are you here?



Nice post....

I had a woman try and talk shit about my dating choices (Black men) and said that I date them cause I have low self esteem (usual racist stereotypical rhetoric bullshit). I attract White men too, I'm just not interested. I told her, White men don't mirror me and nor do I base my self esteem off of them.
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That low self-esteem shit is played-out....and it's only directed toward WW and BM.
 
Malik True said:

I agree but I don't believe for a minute the originator of this thread feels he losing his attraction to ALL BLACK women. Halle Berry is a beast as is Meagan Good. I'm personally attracted to WOMEN across all ethnicities...
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:D :D :smt006
 
andrae09 said:
There have been moments where I have. Two nights ago my baby cousin asked me if I thought bw were ugly and said absolutely not. All woman can be beautiful no matter what their race. She then said how come her whole life why have I only brought ww around. I'm not gonna lie that shit really stung. I'm one of the few positive male influences in her life and what does it say to her that I never date bw. Black isn't beautiful? I'm self loathing? I'm probably never going to shake that feeling but you have to do what feels right or you'll never have a relationship that can survive.
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i understand where your coming from Andrae. Similar situation with me as well many other brothers on this board and/or off . I personally am willing to date women of any background, provided she meets my standards. I am with WW most often, because i can't help it, i find them the most attractive. It hurts to have black females in your life whether close family or friends and make you feel guilty for not being with BW.
 
Raul Sinclair said:
i understand where your coming from Andrae. Similar situation with me as well many other brothers on this board and/or off . I personally am willing to date women of any background, provided she meets my standards. I am with WW most often, because i can't help it, i find them the most attractive. It hurts to have black females in your life whether close family or friends and make you feel guilty for not being with BW.
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Yeah especially the younger ones because like it or not we're the ones they model relationships after but like I said before we can only make ourselves happy.
 
I guess if you weak minded adult male then you would feel guilty about having preference for white women. If you were real man like myself then this type of bitch ass shit wouldn't even cross your mind. I will never understand why black men are made to feel guilty for dating ir. It's like everyone is entitled to date outside their race but us. I've watched non black women that date us get a lot of ridicule for dating a black man. However, you never see these men bitch each other out for dating women outside their race. I watch how black women feel like they are entitled to dated outside their races but as soon as a black man does it, he's wrong. He should only desire black women definitely if he's successful. If black women have problem with me preferring to date white women then that is there problem, not mine. I don't owe the black female gender absolutely anything. I don't owe them companionship, love, respect, support, etc. If I choose to give them these things then I will. The way I see it brother is that any black man that's feel guilty for being attracted to a white woman isn't man at all. He's nothing but a brainwashed pussy that's not man enough to think for himself.
 
I thought this forum was for black men who love white women and vice versa? Why is it that we have some many fake ass white women loving niggas on here that always make black women a topic of discussion?
 
Trey1540 said:
I guess if you weak minded adult male then you would feel guilty about having preference for white women. If you were real man like myself then this type of bitch ass shit wouldn't even cross your mind. I will never understand why black men are made to feel guilty for dating ir. It's like everyone is entitled to date outside their race but us. I've watched non black women that date us get a lot of ridicule for dating a black man. However, you never see these men bitch each other out for dating women outside their race. I watch how black women feel like they are entitled to dated outside their races but as soon as a black man does it, he's wrong. He should only desire black women definitely if he's successful. If black women have problem with me preferring to date white women then that is there problem, not mine. I don't owe the black female gender absolutely anything. I don't owe them companionship, love, respect, support, etc. If I choose to give them these things then I will. The way I see it brother is that any black man that's feel guilty for being attracted to a white woman isn't man at all. He's nothing but a brainwashed pussy that's not man enough to think for himself.
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flaminghetero said:
You best believe BW that date IR never go through bullshit like this...nor do they have to explain why they don't date Brothers.

BM seem to be the only ones booking reservations for the guilt trip.
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thefieryphoenix said:
I feel no guilt at all about my attraction. I like all women but prefer WW of the same social class and with similar values. I realize that many people may not understand the attraction but I am old enough to not lose sleep over it.
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Cyrus said:
"Fuck everyone" wasn't what I was saying, at least. The exact opposite, really.

I do have three neices, all in their teens. I have three sisters, and I have a mom that taught us all that in the end of the day, you need to live true to yourself. This is meant, whether you are generally worshipped or reviled by others: Regardless of what other people think, at the end of the day, you know if you've done right or wrong. And however it looks from the outside, if your life is really a lie or a cheat, it will bring you no real happiness, nor will you have any to give...

My mother and sisters are beautiful, confident women, and they are raising my neices with that same sense of innate self-worth. They do not need me to bring home somebody who looks like them, to know I think they are beautiful. My mom also raised us to believe that people are people -- that appearances ultimately are only skin deep, that qualities like kindness or intelligence or hatefulness or stupidity play no particular favorites when it comes to race.

So when I say you do your thing and I do mine, I'm not being dismissive. I'm actually reflecting the values I was raised with. Only your heart can tell you who to love, and you can only be true to your heart. I would never try to tell my neices anything different than that.
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:smt023 and a co-sign to all.
 
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