Hello!~Looking for Mr. GOODANDSEXY!!!!

Archman said:
Now I stand to be corrected by so many of you wiser forum friends .........But it seems you guys are unduly hard on this woman.......You guys know damn well they are alot of opportunistic thugs out there that will take advantage of a struggling, single mother. Whether she has a job or is getting government assistance, they will freeload their ass in her place and eat her food.......they will bust their nut with-out asking if she is protected.......they will drive her car and use up her damn resources.......they will come and go as they please doing other shit on the side without trying to mentor or help her cultivate her kids....they will even run from the responsibility of fathering their own un-planned child with a woman......so it can't all be on the woman.......the truth of the matter is that women take chance with men.....every get-together is a chances.......and no one knows the exact percentages of success.....this woman took three chances to rebuild her live with men and got three bad breaks.....
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Whatever man. Her three kids by three babydaddies may end up being the kids who break in your car or house. Enough with the pity party. As much as I hear women throw around words like strong and independent maybe they should take some responsibility too. God knows if a guy fucked up even once peeps are ready to throw him in the trash, let alone three strikes. They put brothas in prison on three strikes.
 
karmacoma. said:
Whatever man. Her three kids by three babydaddies may end up being the kids who break in your car or house. Enough with the pity party. As much as I hear women throw around words like strong and independent maybe they should take some responsibility too. God knows if a guy fucked up even once peeps are ready to throw him in the trash, let alone three strikes. They put brothas in prison on three strikes.
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Fair enough.......Argument well presented.....I am the first to admit I have an irrational soft side for single mothers..........
 
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meldoraley said:
Hi, my names Melissa and Im new to all this. Im a single women and have dated interacially all my life. I am currently looking to get to know a good guy! My experience with men has not been that great and I keep wondering why I am still attracted to black men when all they seem to do is hurt me. So maybe its the quality of men that I have met. I have been in a relationship with my son's father for 6 years and it has run its course mostly because i am no longer the person that I was when I met him. He however has changed slightly, but not enough for me to continue to invest time in someone who does not want better for themselves. You see I am currently in recovery and he is not. We no longer live together and I am trying to end the emotional connection that we have to eachother. He seems to not want things to end even though we are both living seperate lives. Yes its crazy, he still concideres me hes BM/girlfriend. I want so much more for my life and it seems that Im stuck in this disfuctional relationship. So my thoughts are to meet some higher quality men to see if it still love I feel or just comfortable. I am scared to get involed again with another man. Im not looking forward to investing myself and being disappointed AGAIN!!!!! Ive never been married and have 3 different fathers for my kids. Im not lose I was in commited relationships with all of my kids fathers. No doubts about whos my baby daddy, however they are all bumbs!!! I wonder if its me or has it just been that I pick all of these men to have relationship with in my acctive addiction. So now that I know what I need persay and not what I want can I find a good guy that I am attracted to and not settle for someone who is just good for me. I want someone good and sexy all at the same time. So if your reading this HELLO and think that you may like to get to know me better, please do so!!!!!
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if you just broke up with your man and u had bad stories in the past, i would suggest you to stop dating for a bit and enjoy being single. Going from a man to another for too much time is never good. Don't mind some unwelcoming people. We are having some trolls around so people aren't being too nice with new people lately.
 
Archman said:
Now I stand to be corrected by so many of you wiser forum friends .........But it seems you guys are unduly hard on this woman.......You guys know damn well they are alot of opportunistic thugs out there that will take advantage of a struggling, single mother. Whether she has a job or is getting government assistance, they will freeload their ass in her place and eat her food.......they will bust their nut with-out asking if she is protected.......they will drive her car and use up her damn resources.......they will come and go as they please doing other shit on the side without trying to mentor or help her cultivate her kids....they will even run from the responsibility of fathering their own un-planned child with a woman......so it can't all be on the woman.......the truth of the matter is that women take chance with men.....every get-together is a chances.......and no one knows the exact percentages of success.....this woman took three chances to rebuild her live with men and got three bad breaks.....
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LOL and those dudes are called bums. :)

Those are the dudes that get shown a lot of love and then women complain about no good men, when they get burned for picking those kind of fleas to deal with. Hah, they should have spotted a dude like that from a mile away.
 
GQ Brotha said:
LOL and those dudes are called bums. :)

Those are the dudes that get shown a lot of love and then women complain about no good men, when they get burned for picking those kind of fleas to deal with. Hah, they should have spotted a dude like that from a mile away.
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Bam.
 
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