Go ahead. Bring up overweight people.... if you can do it without pointing fingers and without going off telling people what they think and feel if they are overweight and you aren't actually in their shoes, then go ahead.
Otherwise, have a Coke and a smile.
My point was, ya'll are running around complaining like you know what women want and need, about getting money and shit... and you might as well be teenage boys trying to get your first paper routes so you can afford to buy your first Playboy for all you know. You guys really have no sense when it comes to women, and can't get it through your thick skulls that if a woman is going to judge you by the number of zeros on your bank statement, she's a shallow shell of a human being that you shouldn't waste your time with, and if you DO, you shouldn't bitch about it cause that's what your equally shallow, vapid ass signed up for. But don't come around here like you're the expert when you're picking these brainless Barbie dolls who think the key to happiness is the number of carats on their fingers.
Fortunately, ShoDIZZLE is not one of those types, and he was making the point that he didn't want a life like that, or a woman like that, so he realizes that maybe he needs to move on from his current situation. You all jumped on him like he's all wrong. Sometimes, you realize that the location you're at is not a match for you because you have different values and goals than those around you. He's recognized that. I'm not going to hate on him for his disappointment, and I think that recognizing he's not in the right place is more than most men in this place will do- bitch and bitch and bitch about how they can't get women, and various other generalities and refuse to make a change in their own lives. The difference was- he was VENTING. Most of us vent here. He knows he can't do anythign about it RIGHT NOW, but he's planning on making the change, and is hoping to ease the frustration somehow.
So you hate on him? Seriously? At least he's man enough to make a change, or at least make plans to make a change. That's more than most of the whining man-children running around this board whimpering poor me because they just don't get it. But, no one can tell you guys that, because you keep doing the same dumb shit over and over, picking the same dumb ass women over and over, and you think you're the authority on what goes on in my mind, or in Tam's mind, or in TreePixie's mind. I guarantee you that if most of you guys actually listened to what we said and put it into practice, you'd have a little more luck with the ladies, rather than arguing with us about WHAT WE THINK.
But, of course, I don't know anything, right? Because I'm a woman, my opinion isn't valid. Because I'm a woman who also isn't a gold digger, my opinion isn't valid. Because I'm overweight, my opinion isn't valid. Because I'm a feminist, my opinion isn't valid. Because I'm in Buffalo, my opinion isn't valid. Because I'm 29, my opinion isn't valid. Because I'm a liberal, my opinion isn't valid. Because I'm a homeowner, my opinion isn't valid. You, in particular, my darling Andrae, continue to remind me, that my opinion isn't valid for various reasons.
So, tell me. When is my opinion valid? When I start agreeing with you? lol Come on now, that's just ridiculous.
If I actually agreed with you, it would come out something like this: OH YES...all women only want men with money and hot bods!! Fuck! I don't care if you're an asshole! Just fuck me and give me diamonds and I'm happy. Let me stare at pretty things and take care of me so I never have to work and use the education that I've worked and paid for- thinking is such hard work. And then, when you decide you're tired of me, because I don't think, and all I do is shop, so you trade me in for a younger/prettier/perkier model, I will step aside quietly, and since I haven't used any of my skills for the duration of the relationship, I won't even ask for any money to support myself now that all of my education is useless and out of date. After all, I never contributed anything to the marriage other than being a wet hole or two.
Gosh, you men are all so right. All we women want is to sit around, giggle, and shop all day long. We don't have thoughts. Or personalities. Or desired. We don't want to have conversations with the men in our lives. We don't want to feel like we can contribute to anything. Just throw an apron on me and send me into the kitchen- as long as you give me my weekly allowance for my mani-pedi, I won't even care when you have a mistress. *happy sigh* What a life!
Sounds ridiculous, right? LOL Come on, guys.
