I'm single, in my late 20's and I've only had one girlfriend. It was several years ago and the relationship didn't even last two weeks. Since then I have had no luck with women. And before that I had no luck with women either.
I am open to dating women of other ethnicities as well, but I am especially attracted to white women, so I'd prefer to just cut to the chase and just go after what I mainly want. I've tried talking to women in the past and it doesn't really turn out too well. I'm generally not shy, but I can be sometimes. In the past when I would get rejected, ppl at work or school would ridicule me and gossip about me. I don't even chase after women anymore because I don't wanna be talked about and I don't want to be "that guy".
Over the years, I've received a ton of advice from friends, co-workers, online articles, and even PUA's (be more aggressive with women, don't worry about trying to get a girlfriend so much, just wait one will come along one day, there's someone for everyone, dress differently, improve your game with women, etc). And it's all so confusing now on what to do to be successful with women, especially white women since not all of them date black men or may be hesitant to.
I go back to college next month. A part of me is hoping that I'll meet someone there, because lots of guys tell me that it's supposedly mad easy to get chicks in college. But I didn't get girls in high school. Guys also told me when I was overseas that white women go nuts for African American guys, but they didn't go nuts for me. It seems like no matter what I do (be aggressive, relax and don't think about it),that I don't get no girl.
How do I get a woman successfully without being rejected and clowned? I read something off another forum where people stated that regardless there will always be a portion of the population that doesn't have someone. Should I just become at peace with being single for life and make the most of it aside from that? What do yall think I should or could do?
I am open to dating women of other ethnicities as well, but I am especially attracted to white women, so I'd prefer to just cut to the chase and just go after what I mainly want. I've tried talking to women in the past and it doesn't really turn out too well. I'm generally not shy, but I can be sometimes. In the past when I would get rejected, ppl at work or school would ridicule me and gossip about me. I don't even chase after women anymore because I don't wanna be talked about and I don't want to be "that guy".
Over the years, I've received a ton of advice from friends, co-workers, online articles, and even PUA's (be more aggressive with women, don't worry about trying to get a girlfriend so much, just wait one will come along one day, there's someone for everyone, dress differently, improve your game with women, etc). And it's all so confusing now on what to do to be successful with women, especially white women since not all of them date black men or may be hesitant to.
I go back to college next month. A part of me is hoping that I'll meet someone there, because lots of guys tell me that it's supposedly mad easy to get chicks in college. But I didn't get girls in high school. Guys also told me when I was overseas that white women go nuts for African American guys, but they didn't go nuts for me. It seems like no matter what I do (be aggressive, relax and don't think about it),that I don't get no girl.
How do I get a woman successfully without being rejected and clowned? I read something off another forum where people stated that regardless there will always be a portion of the population that doesn't have someone. Should I just become at peace with being single for life and make the most of it aside from that? What do yall think I should or could do?
