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The Dark Knight said:
Tam how many women have you actually dated? How many have you pursued? So who's in a better position to say what women want or at least what they're generally attracte
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:smt005 You'll try just about anything to twist something to fit your so-called "logic" won't you? Give it a rest already, man.

You need to recognize that nothing anyone has said to you comes from a bad place, & that there is more to life & women than you seem to think.

WOMEN are in a better position to say what WOMEN want & what WOMEN are generally attracted to. If you want to understand women, you need to be open to listening & learning from women. By refusing to do that, you'll never truly understand us.

Insisting you know more about women than women do is ridiculous. That would be like me lecturing men on what it's like to be a man...I know I can't do that. If I want to understand something about men, I have sense enough to know that I'd need to get that input from men.
 
Im gonna pull a Mikey right now because when Jaisee said in the How Do I Get WW thread that if you want to get women you shouldn't listen to other women where was this beautiful point? Just wondering? Lol
Tamstrong said:
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:smt005 You'll try just about anything to twist something to fit your so-called "logic" won't you? Give it a rest already, man.

You need to recognize that nothing anyone has said to you comes from a bad place, & that there is more to life & women than you seem to think.

WOMEN are in a better position to say what WOMEN want & what WOMEN are generally attracted to. If you want to understand women, you need to be open to listening & learning from women. By refusing to do that, you'll never truly understand us.

Insisting you know more about women than women do is ridiculous. That would be like me lecturing men on what it's like to be a man...I know I can't do that. If I want to understand something about men, I have sense enough to know that I'd need to get that input from men.
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The Dark Knight said:
Im gonna pull a Mikey right now because when Jaisee said in the How Do I Get WW thread that if you want to get women you shouldn't listen to other women where was this beautiful point? Just wondering? Lol
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Hey, don't drag me into this!

Tamstrong said:
WOMEN are in a better position to say what WOMEN want & what WOMEN are generally attracted to. If you want to understand women, you need to be open to listening & learning from women.
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I'd like to know and understand the way a woman's mind works, so maybe you have some much needed advice and knowledge.
 
The Dark Knight said:
Im gonna pull a Mikey right now because when Jaisee said in the How Do I Get WW thread that if you want to get women you shouldn't listen to other women where was this beautiful point? Just wondering? Lol
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LOL...nice try, kiddo. I never agreed that the guy shouldn't listen to women at all, but men like Jaisee are good to listen to for a realistic & sensible male POV, because they don't go around spouting know-it-all nonsense.

Believe it or not, I hope you can find what you are looking for, but I think it's sad the way you limit yourself. Take that however you want; I'm done.

Peace.
 
The Dark Knight said:
Im gonna pull a Mikey right now because when Jaisee said in the How Do I Get WW thread that if you want to get women you shouldn't listen to other women where was this beautiful point? Just wondering? Lol
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You know why I said that though... because a woman will tell a '2' to just go talk to the '10' sitting at the other side of the bar because 'women don't care about looks, or how much money you make, or how big your dick is (I had several women confirm that motion in the ocean bullshit is bullshit this morning)'. To some degree, everything matters. Your swag, your career, your physique. One of my female co-workers did that just a few weeks ago.,. told a friend of hers who is short, out of shape, pale and pimply to just talk to the hot tanned vegan lawyer who is in incredible shape from running every morning and doing Pilates. "Just talk to her" she says.... I asked her why she would even gas him up like that, she replies "Well, you never know... she might like him". Based on what commonalitiies? The fact that they're both carbon based life forms? I would have told him "Go to Gamestop and pick up the first chick that comes in to pick up the newest world of warcraft expansion".

Beautiful, Tan, Active, Successful
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Meh, Pale, Sedentary, Successful

Sure, it's possible.... but.... whats the probability?

That's why I say don't talk to women. In many cases (not all) they seem afraid to just be honest for fear of hurting someones feelings. It's all about managing ones expectations.
 
pettyofficerj said:
And that my friends is a paradox
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jaisee said:
You know why I said that though... because a woman will tell a '2' to just go talk to the '10' sitting at the other side of the bar because 'women don't care about looks, or how much money you make, or how big your dick is (I had several women confirm that motion in the ocean bullshit is bullshit this morning)'. To some degree, everything matters. Your swag, your career, your physique. One of my female co-workers did that just a few weeks ago.,. told a friend of hers who is short, out of shape, pale and pimply to just talk to the hot tanned vegan lawyer who is in incredible shape from running every morning and doing Pilates. "Just talk to her" she says.... I asked her why she would even gas him up like that, she replies "Well, you never know... she might like him". Based on what commonalitiies? The fact that they're both carbon based life forms? I would have told him "Go to Gamestop and pick up the first chick that comes in to pick up the newest world of warcraft expansion".

Beautiful, Tan, Active, Successful
vs.
Meh, Pale, Sedentary, Successful

Sure, it's possible.... but.... whats the probability?

That's why I say don't talk to women. In many cases (not all) they seem afraid to just be honest for fear of hurting someones feelings. It's all about managing ones expectations.
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having said that...do you think you could break it down to the dark knight this way...since he is a little chunky perhaps he might give the chunky girls a chance...they can go on shedding for the wedding together and both end up looking fabulous...just and idea:D
 
I still think you are a dumb ass. I laugh at your posts and the way you bastardize the english language.

You are really really dumb
 
The Dark Knight said:
Is there a way to search the phrase" fair enough" because I really think i'm painted a little unfairly. Do I stand by position firmly and announce it often? Sure do but I really bow out when someone makes a point. You people only see what you want to see. Other men have expressed the same thing I've said on this board just not as often so why aren't they misguided why aren't they called out. I know a lot of you aren't attracted by wealth but to act like its some weird isolated incident that happens amongst shallow gold diggers is inaccurate but we'll agree to disagree.
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Sigh, that would be you! Seriously.
We aren't seeing only what we wanna see. - we are TRYING to make you see other perspectives and explore. We actually are trying to help, not prove you wrong.
That is the only point we are trying to make, breach out.. but you dont even want to explore the possibility that you have a narrow view and that there is more to it. It isn't as black and white as you think.

We never said that women attracted and going for money is some weird isolated incident. We never have, you really read what you want to read. Really, come on now. We even have spelled it out for ya, you just ignore it:

What we have said is, of course that happens, we ALL know it exists and is fairly common - what we ARE saying is that it is NOT the majority. That is all, Mr stubborn.

Still love ya, I think thats why we keep communicating w you about this - you dont see anyone trying w Freddy do you? Ya dig?:smt002
 
Mikey said:
True. But I was thinking about this more-so through a financial perspective and not really a dating/relationship perspective.

I was browsing on the hater site I like to whine about's financial section and found a good thread about income inequality between blacks and whites. I think a lot of these issues with regards to the financial hierarchy and power structure in this country are caused by the white Republicans in Congress.

Here's the thread I was talking about. Take a look:

http://www.lipstickalley.com/f243/what-resources-do-whites-use-get-ahead-321229/


I think Andrae made a typo, he probably meant to say "men" not "women". Andrae, I'm lending you some help, fam.
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No, he meant women.
 
lipstick said:
having said that...do you think you could break it down to the dark knight this way...since he is a little chunky perhaps he might give the chunky girls a chance...they can go on shedding for the wedding together and both end up looking fabulous...just and idea:D
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What are you basing that off again Looney? I wont post shirtless pics so that makes me chubby I often offer to skype with people without my shirt and several of the women on here have seen me without my shirt so try again old and dried up. And I don't say this because you're 1000. I say it because you're a miserable bitter bitch who took a shot at me.
 
The Dark Knight said:
What are you basing that off again Looney? I wont post shirtless pics so that makes me chubby I often offer to skype with people without my shirt and several of the women on here have seen me without my shirt so try again old and dried up. And I don't say this because you're 1000. I say it because you're a miserable bitter bitch who took a shot at me.
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Why u stealin my shirtless swag?
 
Wait a minute this sounds familiar yet no" Jaisee" you need to get out of you're owwn bubble? No stop telling women what they think and want?
hmmmm interesting
jaisee said:
You know why I said that though... because a woman will tell a '2' to just go talk to the '10' sitting at the other side of the bar because 'women don't care about looks, or how much money you make, or how big your dick is (I had several women confirm that motion in the ocean bullshit is bullshit this morning)'. To some degree, everything matters. Your swag, your career, your physique. One of my female co-workers did that just a few weeks ago.,. told a friend of hers who is short, out of shape, pale and pimply to just talk to the hot tanned vegan lawyer who is in incredible shape from running every morning and doing Pilates. "Just talk to her" she says.... I asked her why she would even gas him up like that, she replies "Well, you never know... she might like him". Based on what commonalitiies? The fact that they're both carbon based life forms? I would have told him "Go to Gamestop and pick up the first chick that comes in to pick up the newest world of warcraft expansion".

Beautiful, Tan, Active, Successful
vs.
Meh, Pale, Sedentary, Successful

Sure, it's possible.... but.... whats the probability?

That's why I say don't talk to women. In many cases (not all) they seem afraid to just be honest for fear of hurting someones feelings. It's all about managing ones expectations.
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The Dark Knight said:
Wait a minute this sounds familiar yet no" Jaisee" you need to get out of you're owwn bubble? No stop telling women what they think and want?
hmmmm interesting
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Apples and oranges, DK. Jaisee is suggesting you don't aim for a home run when you're selling peanuts in the bleachers

He's saying women are too polite to tell you when you're reaching too high.

We're saying listen to women when we tell you what we want, stop lumping us all together in one monolithic group, and stop assuming any woman who doesn't fit your limited stereotype is somehow "unusual" or an "exception."
 
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