The Negative Thread

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Persephone said:
ok to whoever sent me the rep, how bout you go fuck yourself with something covered in sandpaper. How fucking original, lets go make a retarded insult about someone being overweight on the internet because Im a fucking pathetic piece of shit. You dont even fucking KNOW how i look., though i can be pretty sure you look like your mother fucked a baboon, you certainly have the intelligence level of one.
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First comes the assumption of ugly/fat/dried up, next up, you're a seekrit lesbian man hater...I could go on, it's a simple pattern repeated over and over again.

It's typical attack mode, it's all over the internet where ever independent smart minded women gather and dare to disagree with men who are insecure and intolerant.
 
Persephone, how many points did you lose? Multiply that number by 2 and you'll know who gave you the rep.
 
TreePixie said:
No, we've simply established that they don't use blackness as a determination on not dating someone. Other than that, we seem very much like every other group of women I've ever known.
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Being open to dating Black men as you would any other man in the United States in 2011 is definitely a deviation from the social mainstream of this country. It shows maturity and open mindedness not the "I think all people are equal" lip service while you only hang out with people who look like you but true open mindedness.
 
The Dark Knight said:
Being open to dating Black men as you would any other man in the United States in 2011 is definitely a deviation from the social mainstream of this country. It shows maturity and open mindedness not the "I think all people are equal" lip service while you only hang out with people who look like you but true open mindedness.
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I don't fully agree Andrae, I think it is based on what region of the United States you are in. In a state like South Carolina or Georgia for instance BW and WM would act more vocal towards relationships involving BM/WW because of racial hangups and the history of the state.

The Northeast is more politically liberal, so you would have to deal with less intolerance, although the intolerance isn't eliminated completely. Trust me man, your game is great in NYC, just as great as it is where I live as well, which is known as the DMV (District, Maryland, Virginia).
 
TreePixie said:
I couldn't, I have to spread it around first.
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Yeh there are so many reps I want to send out but am also stuck and cant rep.

The Dark Knight said:
Being open to dating Black men as you would any other man in the United States in 2011 is definitely a deviation from the social mainstream of this country. It shows maturity and open mindedness not the "I think all people are equal" lip service while you only hang out with people who look like you but true open mindedness.
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Errr no. It does NOT mean maturity and open-mindedness. WTF DK??? It is simply a preference.
 
Thanks for the rep, Mikey, I appreciate the thought, but most of the time I never even look at how many points I have...I honestly have no idea what number it is right now. I just look at the comments, because 99 percent of the time theyre pleasant and or communication from ppl I appreciate hearing from. I dont get negative rep often, and its not the subtraction of points that bothers me, its the fact that most of the neg comments have nothing really to do with the post in question, its generally an insult towards my weight. Its ridiculous in the first place that anyone would even stoop to such ignorant behaviour, but the fact that these reprehensible insults apparently stem from the fact that dumb assholes think they know what my body looks like when theyve never even seen it is pretty stupid. Just because Im not posting underwear shots doesnt mean I look like shit, and even if that were the case its nobodys goddamn business what I look like naked, except my boyfriend's, and he cant keep his hands off me.
 
Persephone said:
Thanks for the rep, Mikey, I appreciate the thought, but most of the time I never even look at how many points I have...I honestly have no idea what number it is right now. I just look at the comments, because 99 percent of the time theyre pleasant and or communication from ppl I appreciate hearing from. I dont get negative rep often, and its not the subtraction of points that bothers me, its the fact that most of the neg comments have nothing really to do with the post in question, its generally an insult towards my weight. Its ridiculous in the first place that anyone would even stoop to such ignorant behaviour, but the fact that these reprehensible insults apparently stem from the fact that dumb assholes think they know what my body looks like when theyve never even seen it is pretty stupid. Just because Im not posting underwear shots doesnt mean I look like shit, and even if that were the case its nobodys goddamn business what I look like naked, except my boyfriend's, and he cant keep his hands off me.
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Nah, don't sweat it, it isn't that bad. I also suspect that it possibly could have been another female on here that said that to you in the rep as well. Or it could be one of the guys that Nerdy Girl referred to. Maybe if we could figure it out, we could put him/her on blast.

Women deserve some more respect on the site. We know who's guilty of causing those problems.
 
LA said:
No need to do that. It would be helpful if you didnt.
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We need to make it obvious, however. Some people still can't figure it out.

Like it or not, I'm posting it because I have the will and courage to do so and I actually give a damn about the quality of the site. If some people get emotional and bent out of shape about the truth with who's shown disdain to white women on this site, that's their loss.

- APPIAH
- IGGY
- GOODLOVE
- KARMA
- DARK KNIGHT
- YMRA
- PETTY
- FREDDY

(currently so far)
 
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The Dark Knight said:
Seriously Ra suck my fat black dick. Do you have any clue what I did today. I went to the homes of 47 neighbors to check on them and even helped one pump out their basement full of water. I regualrly volunteer and encourange others to donate food to the salvation army. This is leisure for me. I do a lot of other things in between playboy.
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Hmmm. You're not ghetto minded, so you say, but once again going for the petty insult I see to put me in my place. Very rational & logical that was. I didn't know any better I'd think I got under your skin. "Dumb old man ain't givin' me my due respect." And aren't you the guy that's always quick to call others sensitive? Hmmm...

But anyway, I don't buy that you do all the things that you say you do. It's smoke & mirrors just like with everything you do on this forum. You've finally overplayed the I'm "intellect & logical" card that you have used to rationalize all the ignorant and petty things you say and it's catching up with you and everyone sees you for how you really are. And all because of stupid ego & insecurity. Such a waste, son. Such a waste. You're a prime example of why we as black men still don't get the respect we are owed.
 
Kunoichi said:
True, but by the same token, a poor man puts in a lot of hours also to make ends meet, no? Or maybe he works a manual job and he's too tired when he gets home to give the wife and kids his attention. Or maybe he likes to unwind at the local watering hole for hours, creating passive-agressive stress at home. It goes both ways. In fact, money problems can even make a person become bitter or resentful - there are a myriad of negative domino effects that can occur as a result.

My point is, finding that a man who makes a great living as having an attractive quality is nothing to be ashamed of, nor does it necessarily mean the woman is then a whore or gold-digger as a result - or even assume that she has no money of her own.

By the same token, on quite a few occasions I've heard men who work hard for what his money buys him, state he does it to eventually share it with his future woman. Just another form of his symbolic peacock feathering.
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Before I leave this thread and not post anymore in it, I wanted to address this. I understand both sides of this equation. I've lived both sides. I just didn't feel the need to write out a long thesis explaining both sides.

I understand the highs and lows of being with men of varying financial backgrounds.

Also, when I stated about it not being in my top 10, I didn't literally mean my top 10. It's not that important to me, I don't have a set list of qualities I look for, I just rounded up to the next even number past 5.

It's not based on anything scientific. I was merely talking about my own experiences and feelings on the matter. My words were not meant to be taken literally. :smt023
 
lipstick said:
you deserve a dig when you stick your nose into something just to stir the pot...i don't have to recind much because i was and never will be one of your pandering lapdogs...i see a real problem here on the forum with the women pumping up undeserving men to only have them act like fools and go on with unrealistic expectations of themselves...

no it is not true that i have made any effort to stop seeing black men...i will tell you that i am in a point in my life that i won't just settle for any black man and if a really interesting hispanic or caucasion man catches my eye i will certainly entertain the idea of dating them...here is the deal though, i haven't found that there is a lack of good black men...but i will also share that the type of black men i would date would not put up with this forum for any length of time...they are on such a differnt level then most of the men here...this forum to them would be childs play...

nerdy girl may have a point...this has turned into a sausage fest of really bitter men...i'm sorry you guys can't find dates and maintain relationships but at some point you have to own that...

i do have a news flash for you and all the other men that love to take their digs on lippy...your negative attitudes are the number one reason women are not available to you...it is like repellant...as soon as women hear a man complaining without a good reason it's over...it's just not attractive

you all need to learn how to be a magnet...draw people to you with something other than your skin
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I'm not trying to stir any pot, I just posted my initial reaction to Fredrick's post. Sorry if you took offense.

I have admonished Fredrick and others for the very behavior you are speaking about countless times (this is where you probably witnessed the many “accolades' from my female “lapdogs”), but alas, he can drop some truths no matter how scathing. I'm glad you swearing off Black men was not one of them.

I have male and female members that like what I post. I relate to them as people, not as representatives of “the men” or “the women”. This is not the virtual White Women Mixer for me. I treat my female friends in a sisterly manner, and have White Women in real life I think of as family. If and when I decide to dig into a female poster, it will be on her demerits alone.
 
Bookworm616 said:
Before I leave this thread and not post anymore in it
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Yeah, right. You'll be back. I guarantee it.
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Watch....
 
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