How do I get a white woman?

Exactly!
DJ_1985 said:
It surely doesn't happen overnight. It's a lifestyle, just like being a ladies man is a lifestyle.



I totally agree with this view and stress it as often as possible. A woman could never give her son any sound advice on dating because she would only give him superficial advice. She's not going to tell him what his father did to get her all hot and bothered. What she's going to tell him is logical things: be a gentleman, don't slouch, pick her up on time, etc. Logic in itself is not enough because logic is not what gets us aroused.
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The Dark Knight said:
Fellas its simple just focus on doing things you like and stack PAPER and stay in/get in shape. Its a simple formula and works very well.
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You know, when I read this (and I've read it a thousand times from you and never given it much thought) my mind wandered to a guy that I work with... He's buff, he obviously spends a lot of time working out AND he has a very high paying job with a nice city high-rise apartment. But he's pretty awkward with the ladies and girls don't respond so well to him because of his approach. (My girlfriend and I have both experienced this first hand...)

So while those things might go a long way, they're not necessarily guaranteeing success.
 
whikle said:
You know, when I read this (and I've read it a thousand times from you and never given it much thought) my mind wandered to a guy that I work with... He's buff, he obviously spends a lot of time working out AND he has a very high paying job with a nice city high-rise apartment. But he's pretty awkward with the ladies and girls don't respond so well to him because of his approach. (My girlfriend and I have both experienced this first hand...)

So while those things might go a long way, they're not necessarily guaranteeing success.
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whiksy, you castle crumbler you
 
whikle said:
You know, when I read this (and I've read it a thousand times from you and never given it much thought) my mind wandered to a guy that I work with... He's buff, he obviously spends a lot of time working out AND he has a very high paying job with a nice city high-rise apartment. But he's pretty awkward with the ladies and girls don't respond so well to him because of his approach. (My girlfriend and I have both experienced this first hand...)

So while those things might go a long way, they're not necessarily guaranteeing success.
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Exactly Whikle. Looking good and supporting yourself doesn't make up for a lack of personality and humour. I've been hit on by successful, built, educated attractive men but their mannerisms/personality were such a turn off, I couldn't consider anything past the first date.
 
Ladies you guys are right its not a guarantee but it does help a lot. Its way better than the advice I normally hear women tell men. Be yourself, have confidence. If who you are isn't someone you're confident then you have little to no chance of attracting who you want. While I understand there are guys who are successful and in shape without personalities would you disagree that being success and in shape is a very good start?
 
The Dark Knight said:
Ladies you guys are right its not a guarantee but it does help a lot. Its way better than the advice I normally hear women tell men. Be yourself, have confidence. If who you are isn't someone you're confident then you have little to no chance of attracting who you want. While I understand there are guys who are successful and in shape without personalities would you disagree that being success and in shape is a very good start?
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Sure, it's definitely a good start.

But I will always be more inclined to date the guy whose persona, attitude and approach I find attractive, even if he's not traditionally good looking.

And I can say with confidence that I will never date a guy whose persona, attitude and approach suck, just because he's got the body of an adonis or has a lot of money.

Now to find a man with the lot... no woman would deny that that's ideal :D
 
And that's my whole point. Be ideal, be the best you possible to attract what you want. You owe to yourself. We can all find" someone" but if its not the right someone what's the point? Being the best you makes that task all the more easier. Very few ladies can resist charm (me lol) add a six pack and a nice place who the hell would even dare look else where. Feel me lol

whikle said:
Sure, it's definitely a good start.

But I will always be more inclined to date the guy whose persona, attitude and approach I find attractive, even if he's not traditionally good looking.

And I can say with confidence that I will never date a guy whose persona, attitude and approach suck, just because he's got the body of an adonis or has a lot of money.

Now to find a man with the lot... no woman would deny that that's ideal :D
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The Dark Knight said:
And that's my whole point. Be ideal, be the best you possible to attract what you want. You owe to yourself. We can all find" someone" but if its not the right someone what's the point? Being the best you makes that task all the more easier. Very few ladies can resist charm (me lol) add a six pack and a nice place who the hell would even dare look else where. Feel me lol
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Bolded is very true, and in the same vein, no one is ever going to be ideal for everyone, but they'll definitely be ideal for someone.

And that's why there's no easy answer to the original question!
 
whikle said:
Bolded is very true, and in the same vein, no one is ever going to be ideal for everyone, but they'll definitely be ideal for someone.

And that's why there's no easy answer to the original question!
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The man who invented it doesn't want it. The man who bought it doesn't need it. The man who needs it doesn't know it. What is it?
 
Tarshi said:
it's now 11.48pm

a) A Coffin


i should also be in bed, but i'm packing....


i hate packing
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You're a bit random, Tarshi Bear. But I loves ya. Goodnight :smt008 (I was gonna put the kissing on the cheek one, but thought of the last time we hung out and figured this one will do :D)
 
Very true but in the context of this thread for these guys to get the attention they want from the women they are attracted to nothing beats a healthy body and little cash fueled confidence. Like I said if it works why not try it.
whikle said:
Bolded is very true, and in the same vein, no one is ever going to be ideal for everyone, but they'll definitely be ideal for someone.

And that's why there's no easy answer to the original question!
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The Dark Knight said:
Very true but in the context of this thread for these guys to get the attention they want from the women they are attracted to nothing beats a healthy body and little cash fueled confidence. Like I said if it works why not try it.
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Maybe. Depends what kind of attention they're looking for.
 
whikle said:
You're a bit random, Tarshi Bear. But I loves ya. Goodnight :smt008 (I was gonna put the kissing on the cheek one, but thought of the last time we hung out and figured this one will do :D)
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lol...i read what you wrote, then had to reread it a couple more times to try and work out what you were saying (i'm exhausted), and the first thing that popped into my mind was 'riddle me this', so i thought that i'd post a riddle. again, i'm exhausted. this packing, moving, working & raising 2 kids thing is killing me & im still quite breathless after my illness as well:smt101

and i can't believe you've got photographic evidence of what happened last time we hung out...bloody hilarious
 
Tarshi said:
lol...i read what you wrote, then had to reread it a couple more times to try and work out what you were saying (i'm exhausted), and the first thing that popped into my mind was 'riddle me this', so i thought that i'd post a riddle. again, i'm exhausted. this packing, moving, working & raising 2 kids thing is killing me & im still quite breathless after my illness as well:smt101

and i can't believe you've got photographic evidence of what happened last time we hung out...bloody hilarious
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You have better photographic evidence than I do! I still remember posting them on the forum, screaming when we saw how big they were, and deleting the post immediately :D Ahhhh, we laughed so much that weekend. Good times!
 
whikle said:
You have better photographic evidence than I do! I still remember posting them on the forum, screaming when we saw how big they were, and deleting the post immediately :D Ahhhh, we laughed so much that weekend. Good times!
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brilliant weekend. and man were those photo's hideous...!!! can't believe we even posted them for the few seconds that they were up
 
Tarshi said:
brilliant weekend. and man were those photo's hideous...!!! can't believe we even posted them for the few seconds that they were up
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You need to email me those pics, btw! No need for the love box, email them straight from your phone.
 
whikle said:
You need to email me those pics, btw! No need for the love box, email them straight from your phone.
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i just thought that before when we started to speak about the pics. i've deleted them off the phone and they're on the lovebox, but i spoke to my computer geniuses and they've fixed the ol girl & she's better than ever, so i'll email them tomorro night :)
 
Tarshi said:
i just thought that before when we started to speak about the pics. i've deleted them off the phone and they're on the lovebox, but i spoke to my computer geniuses and they've fixed the ol girl & she's better than ever, so i'll email them tomorro night :)
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woo!

you and your deleting pics... there's no fun in that :p
 
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