How do I get a white woman?

The Dark Knight said:
Sex and companionship don't be naive kid
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I wouldn't want companionship with someone who bored me out of bed, even if they didn't bore me in bed. Part of the problem with the guy I've been seeing - out of bed we just don't have a lot in common.

I need a better FWB match :-)
 
TreePixie said:
I wouldn't want companionship with someone who bored me out of bed, even if they didn't bore me in bed. Part of the problem with the guy I've been seeing - out of bed we just don't have a lot in common.

I need a better FWB match :-)
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Apparently everyone isn't like you sweetheart. I have a lot of other people in my life to connect with.
 
DJ_1985 said:
I generally find women to be boring so it doesn't matter much to me. I'm not like "Oh my god, it's a boring woman".
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You're not talking to the right women, or enough of them, apparently. But I feel your pain. I find most men to be incredibly dull, on the whole. You have to meet a lot of people or really get lucky to find one who puts a spark in your eye - you need to find someone on your same intellectual level. The more intelligent you are, the harder it is to find a match.
 
saintaugusta said:
You're not talking to the right women, or enough of them, apparently. But I feel your pain. I find most men to be incredibly dull, on the whole. You have to meet a lot of people or really get lucky to find one who puts a spark in your eye - you need to find someone on your same intellectual level. The more intelligent you are, the harder it is to find a match.
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So finding one for yourself should be as easy as finding a swimming fish :cool:
 
saintaugusta said:
You're not talking to the right women, or enough of them, apparently.
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I don't talk to enough women. Sadly, my pride means more to me than the possibility of finding a connection. Contrary to the old saying "treat others as you would like to be treated", it's not in our nature to be fond of those who do not treat us as we'd like to be treated. If you're not in my shoes (mid-twenties and never been in a relationship) it's nearly impossible for you to fathom my state of mind.

But I feel your pain. I find most men to be incredibly dull, on the whole.
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My view is the exact opposite, but I'm viewing it from a male's perspective. When I'm on the prowl, so to speak, the first thing I'm looking for is physical attractiveness. Physical attractiveness is either there or it's not. If I don't see it, I can move on. Women are more than likely looking for a unique personality. A unique personality is something that you may not notice right away, and it may take time and effort to discover it in a person. First impressions are overrated and often inaccurate.

You have to meet a lot of people or really get lucky to find one who puts a spark in your eye - you need to find someone on your same intellectual level. The more intelligent you are, the harder it is to find a match.
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I don't talk to enough women. But I'm no Nikola Tesla. I'm just a guy who reads a lot and appreciates a vast array of cultures and philosophies. One thing that I think I need to do is try to find some places where there's not a predominate amount of white women. I'll probably get a lot of flack for that comment but one thing that I consistently see around here is black people at white clubs looking totally out of place and unwelcome.
 
The Dark Knight said:
Wow some of you guys make me wanna slit my wrist talk about downers lol. Fellas its simple just focus on doing things you like and stack PAPER and stay in/get in shape. Its a simple formula and works very well. Oh most importantly stop listening to other women on the subject because as well meaning as some of them are
1. Most of them have a hard time figuring out what they want themselves so how can they coach anyone?
2. You can not ask prey how to capture other prey. What experience do they have getting women? They know what they like to see men do but they have zero clue how to do it.
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I (respectfully) disagree. Many women know exactly what they want - they just can't find it. As for your second statement, that just doesn't compute with me. Surely you've seen TV shows on criminals who have (supposedly) left their shady ways and now help authorities track other criminals. Why? Because they know all the tricks of the trade! Men may think they "know what to do" but, 1) how did they come by that knowledge, and 2) how do they know it's really the right thing to do? Only a woman holds the answer to both.
 
JordanC said:
I feel sorry for people who are new here who lay it all out and geniunely request help. Then they are made fun of. :(

Nobody has any reassurance or kind words to help him out?? Seriously??!!

And DK he is a STUDENT......so off with your post your income crap.
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Oh please girl.. i'll answer his ?s..

1)Be at least 6'1". Anything else, and you're s.o.l...(if you need translation here, i'll help

2)Like the other brotha so eloquently stated: play for the nfl.. or nba, or mlb.. or rap, dance & sing

3)Be an a-hole.. be willing to get as much in as little time as possible..if you're a nice guy.. and i think you are, you're also s.o.l...

4)Then cheat some more...

5)Be willing to deal w/a large amount of craziness from gals.. (love 'em, but the emotional sh#t is a strain on your well being....
 
fexo said:
Oh please girl.. i'll answer his ?s..

1)Be at least 6'1". Anything else, and you're s.o.l...(if you need translation here, i'll help

2)Like the other brotha so eloquently stated: play for the nfl.. or nba, or mlb.. or rap, dance & sing

3)Be an a-hole.. be willing to get as much in as little time as possible..if you're a nice guy.. and i think you are, you're also s.o.l...

4)Then cheat some more...

5)Be willing to deal w/a large amount of craziness from gals.. (love 'em, but the emotional sh#t is a strain on your well being....
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You NY guys are brutal. :smt045
 
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