Young Black Man seeking advice on meeting White Women

Cherok33 said:
lmbo yeah, that sounds like fun. Will your mama make us dinner? Have you ever had a girl over to the house?? Or will they be out of town lol
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lol I haven't had a girl there in ten years. Before my ex I hadn't brought anyone to meet them in nearly 7 years. My mom was beginning to "wonder" about me. So since the traffic is low they'd be more than happy to see me bring another pretty woman around. If you like Jamaican food my mom will be cooking lol
 
The Dark King said:
lol I haven't had a girl there in ten years. Before my ex I hadn't brought anyone to meet them in nearly 7 years. My mom was beginning to "wonder" about me. So since the traffic is low they'd be more than happy to see me bring another pretty woman around. If you like Jamaican food my mom will be cooking lol
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lol @ wondering about her baby

Cool, I would def love to hang w ya. I love food in general, so I'd be game. I'd even bring your mama a bottle of wine for her hospitality :mrgreen:
 
HeroeoftheWeb said:
once i watched a wedding series on Belgrade TV it is called "48 hours wedding" they feature couples and pay them the wedding and make a show out of it. Once they featured a niggerian immigrant or kenyan immigrant i forgot but he was black with a blonde serbian woman, and he said that lots of white girls in serbia approached him secretly and asked "if blacks really have what is said they have" and that he had many sexual offers etc. But I agree it is fetishised, but he could use it to his advantage if he is into casual sex etc. but i would probably also feel offended if someone fetishised me for my race, so im sorry that i brought it up
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reported
 
The Dark King said:
Mods you guys should be checking this dude out. Reminds me of someone who has been banned.
Just saying
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we're on it

HeroeoftheWeb said:
once i watched a wedding series on Belgrade TV it is called "48 hours wedding" they feature couples and pay them the wedding and make a show out of it. Once they featured a niggerian immigrant or kenyan immigrant i forgot but he was black with a blonde serbian woman, and he said that lots of white girls in serbia approached him secretly and asked "if blacks really have what is said they have" and that he had many sexual offers etc. But I agree it is fetishised, but he could use it to his advantage if he is into casual sex etc. but i would probably also feel offended if someone fetishised me for my race, so im sorry that i brought it up
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you're on some mighty thin ice.
 
blakluvr69 said:
Though it is the beach, it is also a metro area with a high male-to-female ratio because it has a big military presence.

The U.S. Navy's Atlantic Fleet is based there.
Langley AFB is there.

So the pickings aren't as good as one may think.
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If you are military and single, the world is your oyster. If not, you better be rich, famous, or at least professional.
 
I feel like confidence proceeds a man. And yes there's a difference between arrogance and confidence. I'm not one to use the "swag" word but its obvious to everyone when a man or woman is sure of themselves. there's no secret to approaching a woman regardless of her race, and there's also no magic pick up line. It's as easy as walking up to her, looking her in her eyes, smiling and saying hey. SERIOUSLY. if she likes you and gives back, then cool. if she doesn't then its on to the next one. You have to realize that its her loss because there's only so many good guys. And that homie, is real.
 
GentlemanJ337 said:
I feel like confidence proceeds a man. And yes there's a difference between arrogance and confidence. I'm not one to use the "swag" word but its obvious to everyone when a man or woman is sure of themselves. there's no secret to approaching a woman regardless of her race, and there's also no magic pick up line. It's as easy as walking up to her, looking her in her eyes, smiling and saying hey. SERIOUSLY. if she likes you and gives back, then cool. if she doesn't then its on to the next one. You have to realize that its her loss because there's only so many good guys. And that homie, is real.
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I've been trying to tell these people!! Glad to see this come from a man!
 
GentlemanJ337 said:
I feel like confidence proceeds a man. And yes there's a difference between arrogance and confidence. I'm not one to use the "swag" word but its obvious to everyone when a man or woman is sure of themselves. there's no secret to approaching a woman regardless of her race, and there's also no magic pick up line. It's as easy as walking up to her, looking her in her eyes, smiling and saying hey. SERIOUSLY. if she likes you and gives back, then cool. if she doesn't then its on to the next one. You have to realize that its her loss because there's only so many good guys. And that homie, is real.
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RaiderLL said:
I've been trying to tell these people!! Glad to see this come from a man!
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GentlemanJ337 said:
gurl get outta my head. lol. stealing my thoughts n stuff
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I love the fantasy you guys live in I want to live there too
 
RaiderLL said:
Hahaha don't hate. Take a peek at that man then tell me you doubt for one second that he could pull any woman with a simple "hey". What's fantasy for one could be reality for another :)
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But then you are ignoring the factors that are making it easy for him. So lets say he's 6'5 and in ridiculous shape, sure everyone can't be 6'5 but they can be in shape and you should lead with that. Make sure you're your best you before trying to approach woman because it increases your chances of getting what you want. Just going up to women and saying hi with a smile is incredibly misleading and false information. Feel me?
 
The Dark King said:
I love the fantasy you guys live in I want to live there too
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I agree with them. It does heavily rely on perspective. It is just hard to not be offended by a turn down.I keep this unisex because women do make the first move sometimes. I try to be as nice as possible in pointing out that it is me if I have to turn her down(it often is. If I don't have the time for you, i.e. school and work, I don't want to waste your time because I would want someone to give me most of their time and I can't do that). I just wish some people did the same.
 
The Dark King said:
But then you are ignoring the factors that are making it easy for him. So lets say he's 6'5 and in ridiculous shape, sure everyone can't be 6'5 but they can be in shape and you should lead with that. Make sure you're your best you before trying to approach woman because it increases your chances of getting what you want. Just going up to women and saying hi with a smile is incredibly misleading and false information. Feel me?
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I feel you love. I'm not discounting the fact that attractive people (the 6'5 in ridiculous shape types you mentioned) have it easier, but confidence does play a factor, and attraction varies with some degree from person to person.

I think the point is that you don't have to be rich and 6'5 to be able to approach a woman. Be confident in who you are and strike up a conversation with some eye contact and a simple hello. And like Gentlemanj said..."if she likes you and gives back, then cool. if she doesn't then its on to the next one".
 
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