Going White

Apollonia said:
This has not been my experience however I know that the actions of a few do not represent the majority so I usually give it no voice.
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Absolutely agree with you yet some of things you've posted eludes to the contrary.
Maybe its a regional thing, I don't know where you're from, but culturally bm in the US don't exude a possessive nature towards "our" women like other ethnicities/races. Our culture is matriarchal so we don't feel a sense of ownership, which is probably why there are so many absentee fathers in the black community, so when you say some of the things you say in regards to bw/wm relationships it just doesn't hold any water from what I've seen in life.
 
The Dark King said:
Absolutely agree with you yet some of things you've posted eludes to the contrary.
Maybe its a regional thing, I don't know where you're from, but culturally bm in the US don't exude a possessive nature towards "our" women like other ethnicities/races. Our culture is matriarchal so we don't feel a sense of ownership, which is probably why there are so many absentee fathers in the black community, so when you say some of the things you say in regards to bw/wm relationships it just doesn't hold any water from what I've seen in life.
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But how would you even presume to know WM/BW experience if you are neither a BW or a WM in a relationship with a BW?

I have experienced more than my fair share of 'incidents' including and up to physical intimidation and verbal threat of physical/sexual assault. But I have the common sense not to paint everyone else with a broad brush despite run-ins with individuals who have issues.
 
Apollonia said:
But how would you even presume to know WM/BW experience if you are neither a BW or a WM in a relationship with a BW?

I have experienced more than my fair share of 'incidents' including and up to physical intimidation and verbal threat of physical/sexual assault. But I have the common sense not to paint everyone else with a broad brush despite run-ins with individuals who have issues.
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A page straight out of TDK s gamebook! And very well put.
 
Apollonia said:
But how would you even presume to know WM/BW experience if you are neither a BW or a WM in a relationship with a BW?

I have experienced more than my fair share of 'incidents' including and up to physical intimidation and verbal threat of physical/sexual assault. But I have the common sense not to paint everyone else with a broad brush despite run-ins with individuals who have issues.
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FG said:
A page straight out of TDK s gamebook! And very well put.
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Well I am black male and like with most racial groups you are privied to how the culture may act when others aren't looking. Great example is how many Hispanics and Indians feel about black people, its something that is usually spoken about amongst only within those groups. Many feelings about other groups and cultures is shared knowledge within certain cultures. For example most people wouldn't know or understand that Jamaicans don't really like Haitians, the same with Puerto Ricans and Dominicans. So as someone who is a black male I would think that what you're describing is something I would hear about more often. Like I said it could be a regional thing since I don't know where you live but its not this widely accepted thing because of the matriarchal structure of the black race in America. Just like you don't hear about white, Asian, or Middle Eastern women getting publicly annoyed (or privately for all I know) about "their" men dating outside of their group.

FG you can do better than that. That was weak boo
 
Ches said:
Not to be mean, but what do you have to back that up? I think that's a gross exaggeration.
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Every strip club, porn company and brothel back up my statement lol.The sex industry is big business and is one of the few things in America that isn't heavily imported.
 
KWillo said:
Every strip club, porn company and brothel back up my statement lol.The sex industry is big business and is one of the few things in America that isn't heavily imported.
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Seriously???? The porn industry is "most women in America"??? I have no words....
 
medullaslashin said:
wow. I wrote nothing even close to that.
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I beg to differ.

medullaslashin said:
"ridiculous stereotypes" :smt043

Damn right adversarial stuff should be abandoned, unfortunately some adversarial stuff is a-okay, thanks to the values of the society we live in.

Would be nice if IRRs were devoid of stuff like using your unions to antagonize others. If a ww I was with acted like many, many bw who date wm, she would be dumped with a swiftness. :!:

If she wanted to use me to make bw's "heads explode", it wouldn't help us bond, it would make me look at her differently, because I think that kinda thing is stooopid, and I have more respect for myself than that.

Unfortunately, in the case of "the antics" as in other racial stuff, bm grievances are dismissed as figments of their imaginations, though the antagonism of wm and the belligerence of bw toward bm over the last few generations are things that are stark and obvious. Combine them and you get stuff that it's taboo to address directly -- so many would rather simply dismiss it as "ridiculous stereotypes".

Bw with wm is simply unlike ww with bm, in all kinds of ways. The "antics" are one of those ways :!:
Interracial unions are faaaaaar from devoid of good old fashioned racism. IR has ALWAYS occurred throughout human history, and has NEVER been devoid of racial politics.

With all due respect, a better platform for a bw to preach about abandoning the "adversarial stance" would be the one in which bw rally around making people's "heads explode".

There are no bm here who want to hurt bw with their unions with ww. On the flipside, there are black women who pursue that in real life and say as much on the web.

And I know it's not winning me any friends among ww here by saying this stuff, but it's true and needs to be said. Wonder what kind of heads baby girl will want to make explode next?
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