What brings me here (this site, and life in general)...

LadyJ said:
... is to understand as much as I can, and be understood. This is something words cannot tell a person, you just know the feeling when it's experienced.

So, my current situation... I am with someone, and there seems to be some differences that I'd like to know if it has to do with us in general, or us growing up with different color skin.

To put it out there... he's married, with a nice size family. Which lately, I'm thinking we may be coming to a halt, because this can only go so far. (One of my curses seems to be that I'm attracted to unavailable people.) I'm starting to think it'd be nice to wake up with someone instead of an empty bed.

A huge thing that we've been dealing with, is the fact he wants to have a child with me. Well aparently, it's not so huge of a deal for him, and he thinks the words, "I got you" brings me comfort. He doesn't pressure or anything, and don't get me wrong... I do want a (biracial) child, he is handsome, I trust he'd support.. BUT, I want a family myself (which he can't give me), and am super nervous about being a single mom.

So, this is TMI for an intro, but that's kinda my style.. I'm gonna have a look around, and hopefully meet new (understanding) new people.. btw, some general info about me is, I'm 33, (yes, white) female, living in Chicago, but I did just check that stuff off on my profile, so if there's more you'd like to know, feel free to ask . . . . Lady J ;)
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What does this have to do with different skin color?

Are you sleeping with a married man?
 
IntoTheQCD said:
What does this have to do with different skin color?

Are you sleeping with a married man?
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He mentioned to me that maybe it was a "cultural" difference when we discussed having a baby. For me, it's a lot to think about, but he says things like, "what's there to think about?, either you want a baby or you don't.".. So, I am involved with a man that is married, yes (but don't need/want to get into the details right now)... I am looking for something lasting, especially when it comes to starting a family.
 
LadyJ said:
He mentioned to me that maybe it was a "cultural" difference when we discussed having a baby. For me, it's a lot to think about, but he says things like, "what's there to think about?, either you want a baby or you don't.".. So, I am involved with a man that is married, yes (but don't need/want to get into the details right now)... I am looking for something lasting, especially when it comes to starting a family.
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Ah I see, well good luck, and welcome to site.
 
Well , basically I was watching love and hip hop Atlanta series 3 episode 12, googled Jocelyn Hernandez sex tape , which then led me onto another porn star that said she doesn't do black men , which was linked to this site. :???:

It's now 3am in foggy England and I'm currently reading a topic on " white woman's feet "

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So I've signed up for the ride!!!!
 
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