As a female who's from LA but has lived in SD for years I can tell you that SD women are much more laid back and to me the beauty here seems more natural. I've grown up in both cities and in my experience, the SD chicks are very chill and more outdoorsy-athletic. It's just a slower pace down here and it shows in our casual attitudes

Both cities are full of gorgeous women though, just different styles imo
Yes sir. Gfunk, Coronado is crazy nice. It's a bit more of a trip than hitting mission or pb but it's worth it. La Jolla shores is also nice and La Jolla cove (if you want more than just sand and water). Enjoy your time here, your cousin will show you what's up