Attraction to Black Men = Perversion?

jaisee said:
I just got back from Trinidad for Carnival. Trinidad was FULL of beautiful women, mostly black and indian. I went with three of my best friends, all black. Now, let me preface by saying; I am equally as attracted to black women as I am to white women, as I am to hispanic women. If there's a more appropriate website for me, it would be www.womenblackmen.com. I like to think I'm equal opporpoonity. Anyway, without fail, every single white girl that we came across, one of my friends would point her out and go 'there ya go', or 'that's you Jack'. Because, ya know, all that matters is that she is white.

It was the most annoying shit I've dealt with in a long time.
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I know that story all too well smh
 
Ches said:
Then how about abiding by the basic guidelines of this forum:

"We discourage (especially negative) discussion primarily directed towards genders/ethnicities outside of the realm and context of this site."
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This. :smt023
 
Ches said:
Then how about abiding by the basic guidelines of this forum:

"We discourage (especially negative) discussion primarily directed towards genders/ethnicities outside of the realm and context of this site."

http://whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/showpost.php?p=84293&postcount=1
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Thanks. I don't think she's all up there... maybe even a troll. I love to hear about other's experiences in life but I never could understand how folks could come on here and shit on their own people with such outlandish negative blanket statements.
 
Although I'm not physically attracted to WM any longer, I see few differences between WM and BM otherwise. Even sexually. I've been with several well-endowed WM, and all but 2 of the BM I've been with were average to below average. So the generalization that ALL BM are hung is hysterical to me. I've been with selfish WM and BM, I've been with insecure WM and BM. In fact, the BM I've been with had more troubling issues than the WM I've been with. The most sensitive and caring man I've been with was white. So these assertions that one race is superior to another across the board is ridiculous.

I've only ever gotten questions regarding my attraction from white men.
 
4north1side2 said:
Thanks. I don't think she's all up there... maybe even a troll. I love to hear about other's experiences in life but I never could understand how folks could come on here and shit on their own people with such outlandish negative blanket statements.
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I am not a troll. I just spoke my piece. As a result, people got all up in arms, and threw the forum guidelines at me, and now I will be gone. I'd rather not be here, than not be allowed to speak freely. Waste of my time.
 
southfloridagirl said:
I am not a troll. I just spoke my piece. As a result, people got all up in arms, and threw the forum guidelines at me, and now I will be gone. I'd rather not be here, than not be allowed to speak freely. Waste of my time.
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LOL, you're taking it way too seriously SouthFloridaGirl, I think they are just asking you to be respectful about slagging off on an entire gender. Just like you don't care for white men to treat you with disrespect or insecurity.

Hey you can say black men are da bomb, alphas, sex gods, chilled as fuck in your experience, that is no problem. Its when you do it in a context opposed to white males that it becomes problematic and stereotypical.

You don't have to be politically correct as you say, but when you draw flat inferences on entire genders it creates the kind of person you say you despise, based on how white males you dealt with treated you. Comes across like you just want revenge on them or something. :D

Folks have been checked on here for doing the same thing with black women as well and saying white women are the cat's pajamas and black women weren't spit on the bottom of their shoes.

Its not anything against you personally, its just maintaining some civility and decorum. I've often had to check myself from making blanket statements about black women in America.

It leaves you sounding more pissed off at white men, kind of the way some black men are in regards to black women, rather than genuinely appreciating white women.
 
jaisee said:
I just got back from Trinidad for Carnival. Trinidad was FULL of beautiful women, mostly black and indian. I went with three of my best friends, all black. Now, let me preface by saying; I am equally as attracted to black women as I am to white women, as I am to hispanic women. If there's a more appropriate website for me, it would be www.womenblackmen.com. I like to think I'm equal opporpoonity. Anyway, without fail, every single white girl that we came across, one of my friends would point her out and go 'there ya go', or 'that's you Jack'. Because, ya know, all that matters is that she is white.

It was the most annoying shit I've dealt with in a long time.
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I bet. Man, that sucks. I hate how people need to belittle others or make them feel awkward or insignificant (even when they think of themselves as your 'friends'). It's almost like they make your preference (if it's even fair to call it that, as opposed to something that just happens) something abnormal or unnatural in the effort to make themselves superior. You could not possibly actually like the people you have dated, you're just addicted to their melanin count (or lack thereof). Sorry you had to go through that.

Anyway, enough with the idiocy. How amazing were those Trini lasses? I LOVE the African/Indian mixed Trinis. Gorgeous. And I bet that soca was blasting. Please brighten your forum-mates day with a few pics.

southfloridagirl said:
Try being a young, attractive, 5'8" white girl, with a high IQ, trying to have a trusting relationship with a white man, in a multicultural society. Then you might not be so quick to call me ignorant. It's my own experiences, and they've made made who I am, and they have created what I feel inside today. Perhaps if the world was a little more perfect, I would not be saying these things.

At this point in time in my life, even if I found a trustworthy white man, I would not go for it, for the simple fact that since being introduced to black men, I have a found what I am truly attracted to. And I never got insecure vibes from a black man, ever. Go figure that one.... But no, because then we might have to get into some more politically incorrect conversations that might lead to some inconvenient truths.... No matter how intelligent I am, I am still a woman, and I am attracted by a strong, secure, confident man, and turned off by an insecure one, who is always questioning me and himself.
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Guess I don't have a chance then. I'm awkward, nerdy, lack confidence, under-endowed and cannot play sports. I usually meet my dates at the comic book store. Lol. Is there a forum just for us? Hahaha
 
orejon4 said:
Anyway, enough with the idiocy. How amazing were those Trini lasses? I LOVE the African/Indian mixed Trinis. Gorgeous. And I bet that soca was blasting. Please brighten your forum-mates day with a few pics.



Guess I don't have a chance then. I'm awkward, nerdy, lack confidence, under-endowed and cannot play sports. I usually meet my dates at the comic book store. Lol. Is there a forum just for us? Hahaha
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Haha, the dougla girls they are called, that black/indian combo. They have that Brazilian look to them. Plenty of them in Guyana where I'm originally from as well.

Hey man nerdy white girls are the truth. :)
 
GQ Brotha said:
Haha, the dougla girls they are called, that black/indian combo. They have that Brazilian look to them. Plenty of them in Guyana where I'm originally from as well.

Hey man nerdy white girls are the truth. :)
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My buddy from Guyana is like that. He looks African but with the Indian surname, he calls it the "coolie man" name. Lol

Yes, they are. If they're not foreign, then I go for nerds second. Seriously almost all of my successful relationships with US-born women are with nerds/alt-music types. And with that being said, I'm about to flip a coin to see if I should go see Robocop, lol.
 
orejon4 said:
My buddy from Guyana is like that. He looks African but with the Indian surname, he calls it the "coolie man" name. Lol

Yes, they are. If they're not foreign, then I go for nerds second. Seriously almost all of my successful relationships with US-born women are with nerds/alt-music types. And with that being said, I'm about to flip a coin to see if I should go see Robocop, lol.
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LOL, yep although calling an Indian coolie is akin to calling a black person nigger, it comes from bound coolie, a term the British used when Indians were brought from India to work the plantations in Guyana, Trinidad, Suriname, etc.

Love me a smart white woman that can go in-depth on a topic, the smarter she is even better.
 
GQ Brotha said:
LOL, yep although calling an Indian coolie is akin to calling a black person nigger, it comes from bound coolie, a term the British used when Indians were brought from India to work the plantations in Guyana, Trinidad, Suriname, etc.

Love me a smart white woman that can go in-depth on a topic, the smarter she is even better.
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Yeah, I had a feeling it wasn't the kindest remark you could make. Ras Bobby can be politically incorrect. He's like a father to me in Miami. Great guy. Constantly regaling me with tales of his exploits with the ladies as a young man in Germany and England in the sixties, lol.

Some of the women I met in Miami through Meetup groups, especially cycling and environmental issues, were like that. Not as "explosive" as the typical Miami woman, but brilliant and great to be around. Not as many in Missouri, though. Chicago has a ton of them, but it's too cold, lol.
 
orejon4 said:
Yeah, I had a feeling it wasn't the kindest remark you could make. Ras Bobby can be politically incorrect. He's like a father to me in Miami. Great guy. Constantly regaling me with tales of his exploits with the ladies as a young man in Germany and England in the sixties, lol.

Some of the women I met in Miami through Meetup groups, especially cycling and environmental issues, were like that. Not as "explosive" as the typical Miami woman, but brilliant and great to be around. Not as many in Missouri, though. Chicago has a ton of them, but it's too cold, lol.
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Dude sounds like he had lots of fun. :D
 
southfloridagirl said:
I am not a troll. I just spoke my piece. As a result, people got all up in arms, and threw the forum guidelines at me, and now I will be gone. I'd rather not be here, than not be allowed to speak freely. Waste of my time.
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GQ Brotha said:
LOL, you're taking it way too seriously SouthFloridaGirl, I think they are just asking you to be respectful about slagging off on an entire gender. Just like you don't care for white men to treat you with disrespect or insecurity.

Hey you can say black men are da bomb, alphas, sex gods, chilled as fuck in your experience, that is no problem. Its when you do it in a context opposed to white males that it becomes problematic and stereotypical.

You don't have to be politically correct as you say, but when you draw flat inferences on entire genders it creates the kind of person you say you despise, based on how white males you dealt with treated you. Comes across like you just want revenge on them or something. :D

Folks have been checked on here for doing the same thing with black women as well and saying white women are the cat's pajamas and black women weren't spit on the bottom of their shoes.

Its not anything against you personally, its just maintaining some civility and decorum. I've often had to check myself from making blanket statements about black women in America.

It leaves you sounding more pissed off at white men, kind of the way some black men are in regards to black women, rather than genuinely appreciating white women.
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Well stated!
 
4north1side2 said:
So smart but yet so damn ignant. I must ask you to please refrain from dissing white men as a whole and be mindful that many of the posters here have white father's, brother's, son's etc who don't fall under these negative labels.
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Wow. Bravo. So proud of you, my friend.
 
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