chris brown at the BET awards

Did C. Brown really break down like that? When celebrity Black men start crying on t.v. that's when I turn the channel. I can't stand watching that shit.

Especially when it's some kind of public apology like the Tiger Woods one.
 
ms kourtney said:
I agree with what you saying no one should hit anyone. I actually believe in non-violence in all forms. It is not right for a woman to hit a man, but for a man to hit a woman is bringing a knife to a fist fight because a woman can not defend herself against man. Most men are bigger, stronger, faster, etc than women. I hate to say it but it is the truth.

You know damn well if your daughter came home with a bloody face because a man beat her up you would not think it would okay even if she did hit him first. But if you do think that is okay then you are a shitty ass mother. Chis Brown did not just hit her once, he beat her, and that is not okay.
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Okay first off, a woman can defend herself against a man even if he is bigger and stronger, just depends on how well trained she is in self-defense. Size isn't everything. So IMO a woman and a man can be a fair fight, and the fact that she's smaller and female are in fact typically advantages. In my experience men don't hit a woman as they would a man because they too think they have the advantage of size and strength, anytime someone underestimates you it's an advantage. If you're a bright woman, you'll capitalize on that.

If my daughter made the choice to hit someone and he smacked her back and she looked like Rhianna as a result, I'd tell her she should have kept her hands to herself. It doesn't make me a shitty mother, in fact I think it makes me a good mother. I practice what I preach. You do your children a huge disservice if you tell them what you believe to be right and wrong, and then you bend those rules for them. All that teaches them is they don't have to follow any moral code, the rules are made to be broken or they just don't apply to you if you don't want them to. As previously noted, my daughter wouldn't hit a man first anyway, both my children have been taught that you don't physically assault someone unless they hit you first, or unless they are harming someone else who can't defend themselves. It's called moral fiber, honor, manners... some of the qualities that Karma was trying to convey to you as ladylike.
 
goodlove said:
everybody momma except mine. I was born thru immaculent conception. My momma never ever had sex to get pregnant.

My momma and dad never traded sexual fluids to get me here. I came here via stork. its true thats what happened because my momma told me
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yes but did she have talking points and was she black like karma said.
 
karmacoma. said:
Welcome back!



They are evil Muslims who want to oppress women



The same exact shit that all black women talk except the ones who date white men. White chicks that hang out with sistas also adopt these same talking points



Goodlove explained it best. But hey as long as your man is happy that's all that matters. ;)
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I didn't ask what a Taliban was. So you are saying that since I have black girlfriends that I am a "neck rolling, urban, ghetto" white girl? Again what is your beef with BW? You came from one. How do you figure that I get my talking points from my black friend. In actuality she is probably the most poised, soft spoken, and polite girl that I know. Why are you assuming that she is a certain way? Is it because she is black and all black girls must act the same in your eyes.
 
ms kourtney said:
a womens physical strengh is not equal to a mans.
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Speak for yourself.

Some of us are strong & agile enough to fight a Man and still smart enough not to.

You know what small Men who know they can't win a fight with another Man do? They avoid starting fights, or they get used to being hit.

You don't wanna get hit? Don't hit.
 
ms kourtney said:
I didn't ask what a Taliban was. So you are saying that since I have black girlfriends that I am a "neck rolling, urban, ghetto" white girl? Again what is your beef with BW? You came from one. How do you figure that I get my talking points from my black friend. In actuality she is probably the most poised, soft spoken, and polite girl that I know. Why are you assuming that she is a certain way? Is it because she is black and all black girls must act the same in your eyes.
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Are we seriously pretending this person is who she says she is?

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chicity said:
Speak for yourself.

Some of us are strong & agile enough to fight a Man and still smart enough not to.

You know what small Men who know they can't win a fight with another Man do? They avoid starting fights, or they get used to being hit.

You don't wanna get hit? Don't hit.
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This is actually. She did concede quite a while ago on this argument, I believe.
 
Espy said:
Well I've never had trouble competing with men in the workplace, I think if you work your ass off and prove yourself to be an asset you'll command equal pay. I will say that the majority, not all but most, of the women I've worked with want to work 40 hours and go home, whereas men will put in overtime without bitching. I worked for a private medical practice and I always worked more hours than any other employee except a couple of the doctors, consequently I made more than everyone else there. Anytime someone bitched about it, I'd ask them if they were willing to work 70 hours a week and they'd immediately say 'hell no', so if you don't want to put in the hours, don't expect the pay.

As for being a bitch, I'm strong, independent, and educated and the only people who've called me a bitch are other women, not men. While there are a number of men who like the quiet, mousy, less opinionated women, I find there are quite a few who actually like a woman who will speak her mind politely, stand her ground, and be able to discuss just about anything. Again, I've rarely had difficulty with men anywhere, it's women that are hard to get along with. The women here on WWBM are largely exceptions to that however, they are a very unique bunch of people, and the men are equally delightful.
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I completely agree with everything you said. I am the sameway. Consider yourself lucky because you are the exception and not the rule. But I will point out that women typical are responsible for taking care of the kids and the house even if she has a husband at home. So she can not put in the same overtime that men do.
 
chicity said:
Speak for yourself.

Some of us are strong & agile enough to fight a Man and still smart enough not to.

You know what small Men who know they can't win a fight with another Man do? They avoid starting fights, or they get used to being hit.

You don't wanna get hit? Don't hit.
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Yes there are women that are strong and agile, but on average most men are bigger and stronger than most women. This is a fact.
 
ms kourtney said:
I completely agree with everything you said. I am the sameway. Consider yourself lucky because you are the exception and not the rule. But I will point out that women typical are responsible for taking care of the kids and the house even if she has a husband at home. So she can not put in the same overtime that men do.
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Try again. I worked 70+ hours every week, and I raised two kids and a husband. Where there's a will there's a way. I work for myself now, but I still almost never log less than 65 hours a week, and still raise two kids. I'll admit everything but work, kids, and taking care of things at home got put on hold for me, but that was a price I was willing to pay. After they're grown and out of the house I can scale back if I want to.
 
Espy said:
Try again. I worked 70+ hours every week, and I raised two kids and a husband. Where there's a will there's a way. I work for myself now, but I still almost never log less than 65 hours a week, and still raise two kids. I'll admit everything but work, kids, and taking care of things at home got put on hold for me, but that was a price I was willing to pay. After they're grown and out of the house I can scale back if I want to.
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Ah, Espy you're like Wonderwoman. I'll think of this when I'm feeling sorry for myself with work, college and Jacoby. When Jake's a bit older I would love to work much more but I hate missing out on milestones, I'm sentimental like that haha.
 
Espy said:
Try again. I worked 70+ hours every week, and I raised two kids and a husband. Where there's a will there's a way. I work for myself now, but I still almost never log less than 65 hours a week, and still raise two kids. I'll admit everything but work, kids, and taking care of things at home got put on hold for me, but that was a price I was willing to pay. After they're grown and out of the house I can scale back if I want to.
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Kudos to you but like I said you are the exception to the rule. I'm not trying to come at you. I am acknowledging your hard work.
 
ms kourtney said:
What do you mean by "ubran"? If you mean a city dweller then I'm not as of now, but I love the city. If you mean "urban" as in ghetto then you are far from right. I'm educated, independent, street smart,and I don't take bullshit. I speak my mind and stand up for what I believe. If that makes me "urban" then I guess your right.

I get the feeling that you have a preconceived notion of what a WW is to act like.
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Dont mind him. He feels threatened by you since you are not fawning over him and showering him with compliments, therefore he will lash out at you and accuse you of being a black woman or in this case a "neck pobbin urban white chick". He's an ignorant buffoon if you havent noticed by now.
 
Iggy said:
Dont mind him. He feels threatened by you since you are not fawning over him and showering him with compliments, therefore he will lash out at you and accuse you of being a black woman or in this case a "neck pobbin urban white chick". He's an ignorant buffoon if you havent noticed by now.
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Takes one to know one
 
ms kourtney said:
Yes there are women that are strong and agile, but on average most men are bigger and stronger than most women. This is a fact.
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Yes, most men are taller which gives them the advantage of reach, and heavier with greater upper body strength, which gives them the advantage of more power behind a punch. However that doesn't mean they can best a woman in a fair fight. Women are typically shorter and lighter, which makes us faster and more agile as Chi pointed out. It doesn't matter how hard they hit, if they don't land the right blows and you do. Ever heard the term 'glass jaw'?
 
Iggy said:
Dont mind him. He feels threatened by you since you are not fawning over him and showering him with compliments, therefore he will lash out at you and accuse you of being a black woman or in this case a "neck pobbin urban white chick". He's an ignorant buffoon if you havent noticed by now.
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Thanks for the heads up. I have noticed.
 
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