do black women not like ww/bm together?

I haven't seen any different so far but older black woman liked the idea of myself having a ww. I'm from Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape. Now I'm living in DC. I have a bad experience with older ww, but I'm not holding anyone for it.

I know what you mean about the older white women they tend to be bitches who hate everything, they are even like that with their own. Poor white people and rich white people are two different races. They are bitter and overcompensating for their attraction to bm or even bw, closeted lesbians are the worst. They are the ones that give up on trying to date out and turn sour. Next time it happens, check her out if you already don't catch her staring at your crotch, watch the racist mask fade away.
 
Yeah, still here. At least for the next couple of years.
I know xenophobia is something else as well. I decided to open myself up and it's been working out fine for me. I date whosoever I'm attracted to. If I'm going to live my life according to S.A standards I won't live at all. I'd rather live according to my standards.
 
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I just watch the video and it doesn't lie at all. That's how life is in South Africa. He can't made something like that up, he's been there so he saw it first hand. It feels good when African Americans visit South Africa because mostly white people have resources to visit US so Americans only hear one side of the story. When African-Americans visit S.A they see the reality.
 
Fuck Tariq Nasheed and fuck Hidden Colours, it has good information but the direction he leads you and for the purpose he leads you is to maintain things. Too many black leaders misleading black people.
I just watch the video. Well, that's the reality of South Africa. It doesn't lie. It's good when African-Americans visit South Africa and see for themselves.
 
I just watch the video. Well, that's the reality of South Africa. It doesn't lie. It's good when African-Americans visit South Africa and see for themselves.
What the hell is going on there?? I'm wondering how can white people oppress blacks when they are less than 10 percent of the population? I'm sure they are getting support from other racist countries, but wtf is going on there on the ground floor? Are black people not supporting one another?
 
You know being born in such a country. I'm asking myself those questions everyday. How did it get to the point of being control. Same question you can ask here! How is it possible native Americans are controlled. They get support elsewhere. Look President Robert Mugabe of Zimbabwe what happened when you stand up for your country. The west will sanction such country and these people are standinh up for what is their own.
It pisses me off when I think about it. How did mu forefathers allow such nonsense. Trevor Noah said apartheid was a system that was desinged to oppress black people. Same here the system doesn't fully accommodate black people.
 
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South Africa is holding the title of racism and is not going change anytime soon.
I would say more at times, Xenophobia is a big problem here. We don't really have black on white violence here, its more like someone will do or say something then drama for the next two months about it.

SA can't hold the title of most racist if what nero said is true.
 
SA can't hold the title of most racist if what nero said is true.
Guys I've been here for only 4 years and I was born in S.A, I know exactly what I'm talking about. Smh, there's no black on white racism. When did you hear about xenophobia and when did it started? It started after year 2000 and it comes and goes. Black on white racism is been there since I was born. I was born few years after white people wanted to enforce Afrikaans as a first languange at schools. Black students protest and they were massacred, I mean middle schools students were shot in cold blood. The first student to die was Hector Petersen a middle schooI boy. Ican tell you a lot of stories of such as that in my years. Do you think Taariq is lying, he saw racism first hand. I read S.A newspaper everyday online. I can tell you right now S.A is a ticking time-bomb. Black people are so fed up of racism. There's a place that is only white community and they made their own currency in South Africa. I can tell you a lot about racism in South Africa, don't believe everything. The best way for to understand is to ask black people who've been to South Africa but not South Africans. Then you'll understand better.
 
Taariq blames an internal racial problem on the white man and builds hatred for them without reason. White supremacy only fights against IR relationships with bm because mixed race children especially bm and ww fuck with racial privileges and rights, and any non-white groups from obtaining wealth enough to become a political threat. Hidden Colours was funded by rich white racists to maintain the victim mentality black people have. As long as you think it is a racial problem you think you cannot change it because you can't change your race. It's race baiting at its finest. Whenever racial tensions die down, you race bait to raise tension between poor black and white people so they kill each other off. Rich white people get rid of poor white and black people at the same time, two birds with one stone. People like Taariq who is considered a hero to black people is throwing us all under a bus he's just a professional race baitor just like BLM which is funded by George Soros.
 
Taariq blames an internal racial problem on the white man and builds hatred for them without reason. White supremacy only fights against IR relationships with bm because mixed race children especially bm and ww fuck with racial privileges and rights, and any non-white groups from obtaining wealth enough to become a political threat. Hidden Colours was funded by rich white racists to maintain the victim mentality black people have. As long as you think it is a racial problem you think you cannot change it because you can't change your race. It's race baiting at its finest. Whenever racial tensions die down, you race bait to raise tension between poor black and white people so they kill each other off. Rich white people get rid of poor white and black people at the same time, two birds with one stone. People like Taariq who is considered a hero to black people is throwing us all under a bus he's just a professional race baitor just like BLM which is funded by George Soros.
We'll have different views on this issue because I grew up during the days of apartheid. What I've seen those days were white man who were killing black man. I still remember some incidents who had happened right in front of my eyes. I'm still traumatized by those memories. In those days there were no rich and poor white people, there were white people who wanted to exterminate black race in their homeland. I don't care who were funding it, the end result were black people being massacred everyday.
Did you know about Prohibition of Mixed Marriages Act, Terrorism Act and Suppression of Communism Act. White people were happy when those laws were passed to suppress black people including IR. If they were not happy they were going to protest against those laws, the same way those young kids protest against Afrikaans as the first language and were massacred . Do you blame Taariq for bringing these things to light. How many ww are willing to date ordinary black man voluntarily in S.A regardless of age. None except a bm is either a Rugby star, cricket star or soccer star or he makes 6 or 7 figures. That's why I tell people on this forum as South Africa bm we're interested in dating ww but it's a non-starter in SA. I dated an exchange student ww in S.A and she was confroted by a old ww. She asked her, there were no wm that she can date this boy. It happened right of my eyes, she didn't call her aside or something. I'll never forget that day. Who do you blame? Do you blame black people for having a victims mentality? I'm going to say it again bm are still willing to date ww in S.A but ww are not willing period.
 
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We'll have different views on this issue because I grew up during the days of apartheid. What I've seen those days were white man who were killing black man. I still remember some incidents who had happened right in front of my eyes. I still have traumatized by those memories. In those days there were no rich and poor white people, there were white people who wanted to exterminate black race in their homeland. I don't care who were funding it, the end result were black people being massacred everyday.
Did you know about Prohibition of Mixed Marriages Act, Terrorism Act and Suppression of Communism Act. White people were happy when those laws were passed to suppress black people including IR. If they were not happy they were going to protest against those laws, the same way those young kids protest against Afrikaans as the first language. Do you blame Taariq for bringing these things to light. How many ww are willing to date ordinary black man voluntarily? None in South Africa except a bm is either a Rugby star, cricket star or soccer star or makes 6 or 7 figures. That's why I tell people on this forum as South Africa bm we're interested to date ww but it's a non-starter in SA. I dated an exchange student ww in S.A and she was confroted by a old ww. She asked her, there were no wm that she can date this boy. It happened right of my eyes, she didn't call her aside or something. I'll never forget that day. Who do you black people for having a victims mentality. I'm going to say it again bm are still willing to date ww in S.A but ww are not willing period.
Very informative and thank you for sharing your experience.
 
Poor white people have been a thing in both America and South Africa since the 1920s, there are even books about it. I know about the apartheid stuff and I'm not trying to diminish it but that phase of life is gone and we need to move past it to progress as a people. It happened and it was fucked up but harping on about it does not help us. What has complaining about it accomplished? Its sad that black people define themselves as victims who suffer, knowing your roots is knowing your suffering under the white man, defining your identity with the white man. Tackle black on black violence if you have a problem with black people being massacred everyday.
It's not white privilege, it's ruling privilege. We are taking what happened too personally, Asia is a bigger threat to white supremacy than black people. Asian people have actually had it worse than black people. Look up the Nuclear Testing at Bikini Atoll and Shanghai's colonization. The only difference is that China stopped blaming the white man for everything and became the world's strongest economy. It's empires fighting for power, quashing rebellions and and suppressing dissent, real life Game of Thrones. Everything that happened to the Islanders was in a bid to threaten and destroy China.
Women in general, not just ww, don't date men who have nothing going for them. A man must provide. Most black men in S.A don't have anything going for them and the only women who date black men who have nothing going for them are black, coloured and poor white women. How many Asian, Indian or Arabian women have you seen dating black men in S.A?
 
Nero
First of all you're a minority. The number of rich bm in South Africa these days can make 1/3 of entire white nation. I'm a decent man a lawyer by profession in S.A and a nurse that is studying further in America. I know the concept of a man must provide, I also know the concept of gold digging, there's a difference there. I have a friend in Durban that is engaged to an Indian girl. A ww can date a not so rich asian than a rich bm in S.A and in the US ww date Hispanics before bm. It's the issue of color but white people find ways to justify it.
I grew up in one of the dangerous neighborhoods in Port Elizabeth surrounded by tarvens and clubs everywhere and I never get robbed, stabbed or shot and I have University education and all of my friends are like me and we grew up in the same neighborhood. They were never stabbed or shot as well.I have two brothers who are still alive and were never shot and they're not thugs on top of that. I'm not saying people are not robbed, stabbed or killed but the percentage is exaggerated. The reason why it's exaggerated, it's because white people want to indoctrinate their kids that it's dangerous in the black townships they must not even set their foot there, so being with a bm it's not an option. I like it when white people say apartheid was bad, but lets move on as if nothing happened. You know in my township, every weekend there were funeral of people who died during the week, about 40 Saturday and 40 Sunday in my township alone. About 80 people every weekend. You say that's nothing let's move on. I moved on but I'm still traumatized to this day and you're telling me that we were never victims. If not, what is the definition of killing unarmed innocent man, who's the victim and who's not, because within the two there's a victim and there's a bully and in this situation black people were the victims.
When I was in high school, there was a friend of mine that was staying close to the school. He had a dog and his dog was chained most of the time and in our townships we put a long wire and attach chain on that wire so that a dog cannot pass a certain jurisdiction . His dog will bark everytime we're there, we used to teased the dog by standing next to the end of the chain. It will come to us running and we knew it'll stop close to us. One day we didn't notice that the chain was broken and the dog was free. It came to us running, we didn't run because we didn't know that it was free. To our surprise it stop exactly at the place were it normally stop when is chained. We noticed later thay it was free. The dog thought it was still in chains, it didn't understand that it was free because it is used to the chain and the jurisdiction thereof. That's the mind of black people in S.A. You can't destroy people psychologically and you think by a piece of paper that say you're free, automatically all the trauma and hurt will vanish or be reversed. It's a psychological issue, a piece of paper that say FREEDOM or DEMOCRACY cannot cure that inflicted sickness. My friend who put the chain on that dog was laughing and surprised at the same time that his dog cannot pass the jurisdiction of the chain, forgetting that he's the one that put the chain and set that jurisdiction. That's what white people are doing in S.A. They're laughing at black and say they have victims mentality forgetting that they're the ones that created it. Apartheid was the system that was studied and approved. People who came with system travel to all the countries that owned slaves studying their method of control including Willie Lynch who wrote the letter to the slave owners, explaining his method of making slaves. He further said if this method is properly applied it can last up to 300-400 years. You still going to see generations of black people like the ones you're seeing now, unless that individual decided to free one self.
I can agree with you only one thing the messed up leadership that you have there now.
I'm still saying it, I'm willing to spend time with ww because I enjoy their company the same way I enjoy bw.
Nero! Can you date a S.A bm?
 
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