Do white women prefer black men when they are older?

K said:
I read what you said. You have a consistent attitude that comes through over and over on threads you post. I try to think that it may be more about the terms you use that are so off putting. But it really seems to be more the overall attitude you express towards women.

I didn't know Amber Rose was a porn star (since you are equating her to a male porn star). I've never met a male porn star, to my knowledge, so I couldn't really answer that question. I have dated/been involved with men who had high profiles and who probably had a high count of women in their past.
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She's a stripper.

You are missing the point though. It doesn't matter if u met a male porn star or not. Would you date one?
 
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goodlove8 said:
More like queens. Lol

Also on the audition part is true but afterwards my mentality is what is she bringing to the table besides her tits and ass
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Depends because the Queen thing is usually reserved for your "independent women" types. Usually black women

The princess thing is universal for take care of me I deserve it
 
The Dark King said:
It's really more about an age thing or stage of life thing because from what I've seen there is a high level of expectation from women of a certain age. They are placing a great deal of their hopes and wishes on feeling like a princess. Men hoping for sex as payment for meals is really a young thing, grown men aren't THAT horny. It's all the expectations a lot of women have that make the experience annoying especially knowing that most of the burden falls on the man. Women in general are not that charming, they don't use charm to get men, and the financial responsibility is squarely on the man. So in most dating situations men are constantly auditioning, you may not see it because it doesn't fall on you.
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I'm not saying it doesn't happen. I know it does. I would like to think it's an age or stage of life thing, but unfortunately, I do know it goes on with all ages. My point is though, with some experience, men should be able to spot it pretty easily. Not saying there aren't those who are more smooth and it may not be shown as clearly. But for the most part, it's about our choices. If we keep having the same thing happen over and over again, maybe it's about the type of people we are choosing and we need to take a look at ourselves rather than to be blaming others.

Oh and btw it still goes on with some older men too. I went out with one a few ago who slid under my radar flashing his Amex black card going on about the trips he's going to take me on blah blah blah.

I remember when you used to be rather negative about women and saying how all/most were this and that and such and I went round with you about it. I kept saying that there were others out there and at that time, you really didn't see the possibility. You are now on the other side of it. You do see that there are others out there. Not that you don't still see the same stuff you saw before, but maybe your horizons have been broadened.

I see more than you may think. I get to hear about it all from my grown kids too. I do think there is some differences in generations and how they were raised. My 28 year old son is dating someone who is bent on paying her part always. I was thinking that may be more her generation, but I think it's more because she was in a relationship with someone who liked to use money as a way to hold some sort of power over her so she decided - never again.
 
goodlove8 said:
She's a stepper.

You are missing the point though. It doesn't matter if u met a male porn star or not. Would you date one?
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You are missing the point. I've dated/been involved with men with high profiles who had a lot of women in their past.

We all have our things about how we would size up who we would date, fuck, or marry. That's not exclusive to men.

Most of us probably also know which category we fall into (generally speaking).

But even with generalizations, people are individuals and where you may think - no way I would get with him/her....you don't really know until you are there. I know a lot of people who are in relationships with people who they never would have thought they would be with.
 
K said:
I'm not saying it doesn't happen. I know it does. I would like to think it's an age or stage of life thing, but unfortunately, I do know it goes on with all ages. My point is though, with some experience, men should be able to spot it pretty easily. Not saying there aren't those who are more smooth and it may not be shown as clearly. But for the most part, it's about our choices. If we keep having the same thing happen over and over again, maybe it's about the type of people we are choosing and we need to take a look at ourselves rather than to be blaming others.

Oh and btw it still goes on with some older men too. I went out with one a few ago who slid under my radar flashing his Amex black card going on about the trips he's going to take me on blah blah blah.

I remember when you used to be rather negative about women and saying how all/most were this and that and such and I went round with you about it. I kept saying that there were others out there and at that time, you really didn't see the possibility. You are now on the other side of it. You do see that there are others out there. Not that you don't still see the same stuff you saw before, but maybe your horizons have been broadened.

I see more than you may think. I get to hear about it all from my grown kids too. I do think there is some differences in generations and how they were raised. My 28 year old son is dating someone who is bent on paying her part always. I was thinking that may be more her generation, but I think it's more because she was in a relationship with someone who liked to use money as a way to hold some sort of power over her so she decided - never again.
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Know I still think my observations hold true because its cultural in nature. Spending time in Canada this last year has shown me that. From major cities to rural places the people are just far more inviting, kinder in nature and a lot less about materialism and consumerism. We live differently here and as a result a lot people look a relationships as something they are suppose to get something out of not something they enjoy with others. It's the American mentality, that much can't be denied. I just realize there are people who you can work with and who can be on the same page but the vast majority are so miserable and don't notice how they contribute to their own misery. I had to see how I contributed to my own unhappiness and it was largely not being patient, the unrelenting feeling that there was something socially wrong with me if I didn't have a woman in my life. That's why I would try to make trainwrecks work, constantly pushing a cube into a circle. I own that part, but I spend A LOT of time reading and listening to people and I'm sorry to say it but too many Americans are just plain awful. Albeit its been through years of conditioning and programming but it is what it is.
Your son's girlfriend is incredibly rare especially at her age. I think for older women they've had reality slap them across the face enough to realize that fairytale bs won't bring them happiness and the strings attached simply aren't worth it
 
K said:
You are missing the point. I've dated/been involved with men with high profiles who had a lot of women in their past.

We all have our things about how we would size up who we would date, fuck, or marry. That's not exclusive to men.

Most of us probably also know which category we fall into (generally speaking).

But even with generalizations, people are individuals and where you may think - no way I would get with him/her....you don't really know until you are there. I know a lot of people who are in relationships with people who they never would have thought they would be with.
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I know but if I see you walking down the street with half your ass hanging out, then in my mind I'm saying "I'll fuck her but she's not gf status". If she wants gf status she has to work mofo hard.

At gf status , in my eyes you are auditioning to be my wife.
 
goodlove8 said:
I know but if I see you walking down the street with half your ass hanging out, then in my mind I'm saying "I'll fuck her but she's not gf status". If she wants gf status she has to work mofo hard.

At gf status , in my eyes you are auditioning to be my wife.
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I get it.

The bolded part is really off putting. Work hard how? This is that part where have the thing about "earning" and proving their worth. Wouldn't someone be gf status because you like who and how she is (naturally)?

I guess when I see you put the "work mofo hard" it's like she has to go out of her way and jump through all sorts of hoops to be how you want.
 
lol thanks for correcting the stepper/stripper. I was thinking dang I'm old I have no clue what "stepper" is!

I didn't know she was a stripper (I'm not up on any of that crap). I don't think that alone makes her become unworthy of being married though. You might be surprised that there are some really amazing women out there who may have stipped for a period of time to take care of their kids or whatever reasons. I don't think I would be going to the strip clubs looking for a wife though if I was a man.
 
K said:
I get it.

The bolded part is really off putting. Work hard how? This is that part where have the thing about "earning" and proving their worth. Wouldn't someone be gf status because you like who and how she is (naturally)?

I guess when I see you put the "work mofo hard" it's like she has to go out of her way and jump through all sorts of hoops to be how you want.
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In the stripper world , they are known to turn tricks and just the fact of stripping ...
So you have a woman who is hoe-ing and surely I'm not going to make her my gf or even a jump-off. She might be a booty call but thats all.

A man never try to turn a hoe into a housewife. That includes the neighborhood slut.

What I mean by "earning" is this; when a dude steps to you in a puma sweatsuit , gold chain and a kango , and smell like he swam an a bottle of karate cologne and hes talking dumb shit.....you are gonna naturally diss him.


Another guy dressed well , articulate , show integrity throughout the four years of dating, good character and can knock the coochie Out if joint.....he's hubby material cause he earned that title.

For a guy , a woman who shows loyalty, can budget and is cheap , has a good job, and of good character and can perform like a porns star....I'm putting a mount Everest on her finger...she



K said:
lol thanks for correcting the stepper/stripper. I was thinking dang I'm old I have no clue what "stepper" is!

I didn't know she was a stripper (I'm not up on any of that crap). I don't think that alone makes her become unworthy of being married though. You might be surprised that there are some really amazing women out there who may have stipped for a period of time to take care of their kids or whatever reasons. I don't think I would be going to the strip clubs looking for a wife though if I was a man.
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Lol


Lol
 
goodlove8 said:
Ok I'll do both. People are going to be pissed cause it's gonna get raw.

For the first few dates. It's drinks , renting a movie, picnic or something light (specifically on your wallet) until you have hit it for a while and she can get promoted to a happy meal (lol).


It really depends. Example, I dated an exchange student from Russia and I hit that a couple of times before I gave her a meal. I shortened the time from cause she was going back soon.

One female I dated for a year, I had hit that several times in a span of a month before she got a meal. I never bought her a gift cause I knew I was dumping her soon.

Some women aren't worthy of stuff cause some will just be a booty calls or , jump-offs .


You can half way tell.
As far as a gift , let's say Christmas or bday and you known her for about 3 months....don't give her shit or very little. maybe a shirt from target or something but don't go all out.

You can take her ass for a happy meall and tell her to eat it or starve.

If she really like you she would be happy with that.
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If you're 22, this approach might work.

But grown men don't step to women like that.
 
andreboba said:
If you're 22, this approach might work.

But grown men don't step to women like that.
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The Dark King said:
It's really more about an age thing or stage of life thing because from what I've seen there is a high level of expectation from women of a certain age. They are placing a great deal of their hopes and wishes on feeling like a princess. Men hoping for sex as payment for meals is really a young thing, grown men aren't THAT horny. It's all the expectations a lot of women have that make the experience annoying especially knowing that most of the burden falls on the man. Women in general are not that charming, they don't use charm to get men, and the financial responsibility is squarely on the man. So in most dating situations men are constantly auditioning, you may not see it because it doesn't fall on you.
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K said:
I get it.

The bolded part is really off putting. Work hard how? This is that part where have the thing about "earning" and proving their worth. Wouldn't someone be gf status because you like who and how she is (naturally)?

I guess when I see you put the "work mofo hard" it's like she has to go out of her way and jump through all sorts of hoops to be how you want.
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The Dark King said:
Cosign
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So now you are flip flopping. Lol
 
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