To the poster that asked for a link to the website:
http://lovers-rock.com/ Click on "The Forum" option to read the board rules that I posted in the OP.
That is just the opening page. You'd have to register to actually participate on the forum (and it usually takes about 24 hours before admin allow you to post).
I've been a member of the board for about 4 years now and I must say that, I only recall ONE black female poster that dared to defy the board rules by bashing black men. Let me tell you, ALL the ladies (and a few of the men) on the board ripped her a new one when she got out of line and the moderators eventually banned her for making derogatory, blanket statements about black men.
As far as the forum being an IR fiction site, it is true that IR fiction is the primary theme of the board, but most of the ladies and gents there are either married or dating interracially and we share our personal stories in a family like atmosphere much like this site.
What I don't understand is, how/why some of the people on this particular board tolerate the frequent black women bashing but by the same token, complain about being judged for their choices or preferences in dating outside their race.
Can some of you not see the obvious hypocrisy in that? Or could it be that some of these IR relationships are built off the idea of adversity (imagined or not) and some people actually have no desire for a utopian world where we are all judged by the content of our character?