Hello my fellow IR lovers

Bumping because its needed...god!

You guys remember that bullcrap article from the idiot black woman that listed 8 reasons to date a white man? Well here's some responses from the (black) women on the site I referenced in the OP (black women that are dating or married to white men btw).

A bit too general..just be open to dating different races

This article seems to be putting white men on a pedestal and treating them as if they all think the same way. No thanks, I'd rather judge people on an individual basis.

I'm sorry but the woman who wrote this article is making it seem as through White men are the ONLY men who takes care of their responsibilities or are educated or like there isn't plenty of Black men out there that is taking care of his family, or are getting an education. And I know PLENTY. It seems as though she is trying to degrade Black men...And that's kind of pissing me off.

I mean there are PLENTY of white men who are jackasses, don't pay their bills, are uneducated, and DON'T take care of their responsibilities just as much as there are Black men who do the same.

As much as I prefer White men...I would NEVER degrade Black men the way this article is doing...wonder what her Husband thought about this...

And just like Aleks said...I would rather judge people on an individual basis not some generalization. Because I have met some assholes in all races during my short lifetime.

Just my opinion


This shit gets on my nerves. I work with redneck engineers most (white) most who never went to college and and are ignorant as they come. I hate the need to put all black men in on stereotype to justify interracial dating. Black women should date all MEN and stop waiting on the black prince. YES. But this shit here, is insulting. Not all black men are bafoons and not all white men are Princes. Geez, if you need a reason to date outside your race then here's my thought DON'T you aren't ready!


exactly! and the picture was a turn off too. the article + the pic imply to me that BM are the opposite of all the 8 qualities. its BS and anyone that puts one race on a pedestal is dumb. heck i don't even know how people can say they "prefer" a certain race over others. but w/e, i'll be damn if i let an article dictate my life. probably same person that wrote this article wrote why the article about why BW are the undesirable race of women and why we should let down or standards and date outside our race. pish!
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There's TONS more where that come from as well...

Why can't we all just live by the GOLDEN RULE and get along?
 
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There are rotten apples in every race. I say date whoever makes you happy regardless of race. I wonder if she let her husband read the article.

there are A LOT of brothers out there that could put this "theory" to shame. Because we have brothers out there that DO treat their sistas with love and care.

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Not only is this article utter ridiculousness, it completely dismisses the institutional structures in Western Society that have led to some of these issues for black men, especially regarding the "financial" reasons to date a white man. But, you know--white is right and black is whack.

Her reasons 2-8 IMO are just plain ignorant. This article comes across racist ...... Doesn't she know that these problems are universal for any woman, any color?

Your preference is your own decision, but you should date someone because you like them, really like them, not because of it's a good idea to date white men. Many of these articles are getting a bit boring now!

from one of the annoying, staunch BW/WM members

Interesting. I agree that the article is dumb, primarily because I think there's only one reason to date a white or any other man: Because you want to. However, I think it's equally dumb to grade black men on a curve (Not saying that you do, but I know plenty of black women that do) because of "institutional structures in Western society." If black men are less likely to be financially solvent how it came to be isn't going to change the impact it will have on you and your children. As I've said before, there are all sorts of reasons why things are the way they are. The important thing is, how does it impact you and yours.
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I swear, some of the people on this site can't go 24 hours without discussing black women in some way, shape or form--even when black women aren't the topic of discussion :-/

This is the most bizarre thing I've ever witnessed.

I promise you guys, we are not discussing black men, or white women (in a negative light) on the site I belong to.

What is really going on around here?

*and of course this doesn't apply to everyone on the site*
 
blueskies2 said:
I swear, some of the people on this site can't go 24 hours without discussing black women in some way, shape or form--even when black women aren't the topic of discussion :-/

This is the most bizarre thing I've ever witnessed.

I promise you guys, we are not discussing black men, or white women (in a negative light) on the site I belong to.

What is really going on around here?

*and of course this doesn't apply to everyone on the site*
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dunno what site your thinking of
 
As my boy Lenny Kravitz says, "It is time for a love revolution". Some of the folks around here (here! Of all places!!!) not only have/and will miss the boat, but are contributing to the reversal of the progress that "we" are trying to make in this world.

eta: and by "we" I am referring to those that DO NOT for any reason condone, or DISMISS intolerance, hatred, prejudice, racism in ANY form
 
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Sorry, sista girl. You posting a few selected posts to prove that the people on your forum are somehow better than the people over here isn't convincing, Especially, considering this gem:



from one of the annoying, staunch BW/WM members

Interesting. I agree that the article is dumb, primarily because I think there's only one reason to date a white or any other man: Because you want to. However, I think it's equally dumb to grade black men on a curve (Not saying that you do, but I know plenty of black women that do) because of "institutional structures in Western society." If black men are less likely to be financially solvent how it came to be isn't going to change the impact it will have on you and your children. As I've said before, there are all sorts of reasons why things are the way they are. The important thing is, how does it impact you and yours.
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I think that this probably speaks to the real collective attitude about black men that the women on your site have, and it's something that I've seen firsthand on other sites where BW talk about relationships with non-BMs. Take your BS somewhere else because I'm not buying it.
 
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Frederick said:
Sorry, sista girl. You posting a few selected posts to prove that the people on your forum are somehow better than the people over here isn't convincing, Especially, considering this gem:






I think that this probably speaks to the real collective attitude about black men that the women on your site have, and it's something that I've seen firsthand on other sites where BW talk about relationships with non-BMs. Take your BS somewhere else because I'm not buying it.
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same here, again ive seen this also but when you mention it seems to be considerd "bashing" :roll:
 
Frederick said:
Sorry, sista girl. You posting a few selected posts to prove that the people on your forum are somehow better than the people over here isn't convincing, Especially, considering this gem:






I think that this probably speaks to the real collective attitude about black men that the women on your site have, and it's something that I've seen firsthand on other sites where BW talk about relationships with non-BMs. Take your BS somewhere else because I'm not buying it.
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Hence why I noted that she is one of the very few annoying staunch BW/WW cheerleaders....did you miss that part?
 
Frederick said:
Sorry, sista girl. You posting a few selected posts to prove that the people on your forum are somehow better than the people over here isn't convincing, Especially, considering this gem:






I think that this probably speaks to the real collective attitude about black men that the women on your site have, and it's something that I've seen firsthand on other sites where BW talk about relationships with non-BMs. Take your BS somewhere else because I'm not buying it.
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Also, the bolded, does not mean your "thoughts" are right. As much as you probably wish they were. They are not...not even close.
 
blueskies2 said:

I promise you guys, we are not discussing black men, or white women (in a negative light) on the site I belong to.
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We don't care what you are discussing, that's why none of us are on your site, much less post on it. Can't say the same for you.
 
To whomever this may apply to:

The notion of a "perceived" enemy should not be the foundation upon which your relationship (or your self worth for that matter) stands, my friend. Without all the many rude, neck rolling, attitude having black women that some of you seem to encounter on a daily basis, ask yourself if your relationship is honest and stable (and whether your self esteem is truly intact).

I guarantee you, what you give out (consciously or subconsciously), the universe ricochets right back in your direction.

Law of attraction 101
 
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Was it something I said?

Seriously, did I say anything offensive to anyone in here because I could have sworn I was being civil.

I wonder...do some people need to create an enemy in their heads in order to not feel invisible? "They hate us therefore we are IMPORTANT." Yippie!!!

Self worth should come from within...

Much love to everyone.

eta: Oh, of course, and fck me. *For the people in the cheap seats.* Right. Of course we can't forget about that.

Nothing but love
 
No hate...

Nothing but love and peace.

Gnarles Barkley "Hurt people hurt people. This is always how. Oh, I've been entered by evil, so someone best love me right now."

My heart is full therefore I can do nothing but love
 
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