Idris Elba: Black Men Not Considered “Sexy” By America

quato102 said:
Interesting thread. Pretty revealing in a lot of ways on both sides. Personally, I've always had suspicions of white women who claim to soley/primarily attracted to black men. The psychology of attractiveness is to long to detail here, but suffice to say that white women, by and large, who date black men are also open to dating other races and would certainly prefer to marry within their own race if the right person/opportunity came along.
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You're suspect. Sorry, but we can't take what you say seriously.
 
quato102 said:
Not really odd at all. As they get older, white men become less interested. So therefore they become more open to wider dating spectrum. Plus, they are reinforced by the notion that black men will take any type of white woman. This is seen by the consistent talk/appreciation by black men of "thick" women, women with "meat on their bones", women with some "junk in the trunk", etc... all this translates to, in American culture, is FAT.
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so why do these white men who are not checkin for these ww complain about who they date? ive seen so many of these wm who go on about they wouldnt touch these kinda ww bm go with yet they still persist on telling them who to date etc
 
Mikey said:
You're suspect. Sorry, but we can't take what you say seriously.
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"Suspect"...why? Because I, unlike you, don't believe that most white women would crawl over a white man to get with a black man? Because I believe that most white women prefer to date/marry white men?

The only thing suspect here is your grasp of reality or ability to ascertain the culture/society you're living in.
 
Mikey said:
I agree wholeheartedly with this post.

Let Lil John, Rick Ross, Lil Wayne etc have appeal on shows like BET and other avenues like that. The exposure that they have should be limited to those places. The mainstream media should have the perception that most blacks are like Usher. That is how we'll be able to catch up.
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More black men under the spotlight who cheat on our women?

Nah man, we need more Thurgood Marshalls.
 
quato102 said:
"Suspect"...why? Because I, unlike you, don't believe that most white women would crawl over a white man to get with a black man? Because I believe that most white women prefer to date/marry white men?

The only thing suspect here is your grasp of reality or ability to ascertain the culture/society you're living in.
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lol..that's been said to him on more than one occasion
 
quato102 said:
"Suspect"...why? Because I, unlike you, don't believe that most white women would crawl over a white man to get with a black man? Because I believe that most white women prefer to date/marry white men?

The only thing suspect here is your grasp of reality or ability to ascertain the culture/society you're living in.
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I say that because I looked through your post history, and I'm aware that blacks and whites have a lot of social distance apart from each other. One area is with money. White people make more money than black people. Thus, they have more opportunity.
 
MissWacy said:
so why do these white men who are not checkin for these ww complain about who they date?
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Because the idea of any interracial intimacy is distasteful for them. Miscegenation, as it used to be called, was the primary driving force during Reconstruction, the Jim Crow era and battle over school desegregation/busing in the U.S. during the 60's. When you have a culture built on the values of racial superiority/purity, they only thing that can disrupt it is interracial sex. In sense, "polluting" the purity of whiteness. The KKK, The White Citizens Council, etc. were organization that were supremely focused on this.

There is still a deep underlying bedrock of this in American culture and around the world to some extent. Look up "skin whitening ads" - you'll see them from around world. Chemicals to make one lighter, etc...

So, even if the white men don't want to date them, the fact that they have gone over/or are willing to go over "to the dark side" is extremely distressful.
 
Mikey said:
I say that because I looked through your post history, and I'm aware that blacks and whites have a lot of social distance apart from each other. One area is with money. White people make more money than black people. Thus, they have more opportunity.
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Social distance? Hardly. Are schools/colleges not integrated? Gyms? Can you not go around your town/community without being kept out of restaurants, bars, etc. The social distance between black and whites is the smallest it has been in American history. Black and white people interact, by the thousands, everyday in work and leisure.

Black and white people are not kept on separate islands, where the water is somehow keeping them from interacting. You seem to think that the only reason white women aren't all marry/having sex is with black men is because they can't meet them. News flash. White women meet/are in contact with black men quite regularly.
 
quato102 said:
Social distance? Hardly. Are schools/colleges not integrated? Gyms? Can you not go around your town/community without being kept out of restaurants, bars, etc. The social distance between black and whites is the smallest it has been in American history. Black and white people interact, by the thousands, everyday in work and leisure.

Black and white people are not kept on separate islands, where the water is somehow keeping them from interacting. You seem to think that the only reason white women aren't all marry/having sex is with black men is because they can't meet them. News flash. White women meet/are in contact with black men quite regularly.
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I didn't mean what I said literally, I meant it figuratively. Let me re-phrase it for you.

Black people and white people are the two most socially distant groups in America, with black women and white men being even more socially distant than their respective groups.

http://homespunwisdom.wordpress.com/2011/08/16/social-distance-and-interracial-dating/
 
Mikey said:
I didn't mean what I said literally, I meant it figuratively. Let me re-phrase it for you.

Black people and white people are the two most socially distant groups in America, with black women and white men being even more socially distant than their respective groups.

http://homespunwisdom.wordpress.com/2011/08/16/social-distance-and-interracial-dating/
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Of course you meant in literally, social distance theory is about interaction in the social sphere. Let me re-phrase it for you, the social distance between black and whites is the smallest it has ever been. Period. White women interact with black men all the time. The reason the majority don't date black men is because they do not want to, not because they've never met one.

Seriously...why is this simple fact of reality so hard to grasp? Doesn't mean that one can't date interracially, just means that most white women are not interested.
 
GQ Brotha said:
Who is arguing with you, why should or would they be.

Do the majority of Asian women not marry Asian men, do the majority of Latina women, not marry Latina men, do the majority of black men not marry black women, etc, etc.

Its called culture.

Why would the majority of white women be attracted to black men, the majority of black men are not attracted to white women.

We aren't some divine being that the world revolves around.

Its a two fold equation. Not every black men, heck not most are trying to be with a white woman. Either you are attracted to them or you are not.
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Actually this demographic does prefer white men yet interestingly enough gets no flack for it
 
karmacoma. said:
A lot *do* secretly desire black men. In fact, the more they say they don't, the more they probably do.
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Sigh....pointless....

but i would be curious to see your evidence for this. For me, I simply have to look at marriage/dating statistics and the world around me for a massive amount of anecdotal evidence
 
The Dark Knight said:
Actually this demographic does prefer white men yet interestingly enough gets no flack for it
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that's because their pool of Asian men is so tiny

if more of the Asian population was infused into the US, you'd probably see more homogamy among them

it's no secret that Asian women and men go outside their race
 
Tamstrong said:
I'm with you, Sin. I have always thought of BM as beautiful & sexy, & I know there are other WW (& other non-black women) who feel the same way.



Another troll-ass fool who doesn't know what he/she is talking about. Go the hell away...it'll save the mods the hassle of having to ban your ass.




Amen.



Get him, Tarshi!



I agree, Pixie...those guys do nothing for me either.
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He never said no ww any where finds a bm attractive but that bm aren't portrayed as sex symbols. We're not objects of lust individually even though uniform stereotypes would suggest otherwise. Kind of like "BM all have big dicks" but you won't here about the sexy insert new black actor name here as being the talk of the town. The guy women fantasize about and want.
It's a valid argument.
 
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