Is your attraction based on TV?

Not worked up at all. You just don't make any sense. You come off like some of the arrogant ass white dudes I live around that's all. So just wondering is all. No biggie. Carry on.

 

You missed this part:
"Besides, the bm that date a huge ww, what would they date if they dated a bw? Probably the same type"

 

Iggy many of the women on here aren't big man.You wanna debate, good but bring some quality to it.

 

Me too. Well, I've never been attracted to guys of Indian descent if I'm going to be honest. But other than that...my attraction varies person to person. But the first BM who took my fancy that I actually did something about was a fellow I worked with recently. And to be honest, now I find that when I'm out and about all of a sudden WM do not catch my eye anymore. Not sure what that's about, maybe because now living in London I am actually surrounded by so many handsome black boys that I never had the opportunity to fancy in Australia? Hmmm...

WTF!!!!!! Thank you very much I am an attractive girl and am not ugly, fat or stupid and I do NOT think that someone would be lowering their standards to date me. HMPH! I may not be someone's type but I am absolutely NOT of a low standard. There is a ceiling limit to the type of partner EVERYONE can get, irrespective of colour. I couldnt pull "Brad Pitt" for example. Not that I would want to, but it's an example.

What she said.

*sigh* I loved this Leksola, beautiful

Not this old barrel of steaming dog shit again??? BORING.

However -

A) Having seen all the pics on the pics thread, some girls here are big, some thin, some sporty, some petite, some voluptuous....there is a VARIETY on here.

B) Did you ever think those fellow with the big ladies have a preference for them? Just because it sicks you out doesnt mean it isnt going to get someone else excited! One of my best girlfriends repeatedly dates UGLY dudes. But you know what? SHE thinks they're hot. I dont get it. But I dont assume it's cos she cant get anyone else. That's shallow and plain old stupid and narrow-minded.

C) And if it IS all a particular dude can get, maybe it's not because he is black, but maybe he is an asshole irrespective of colour and she is an asshole even though she is white as well and all they can get is each other. As if a hot black dude would have SUCH low self esteem and be SO desperate to be with a female of white skin he would take 'whatever he can get'. Seriously.

What she said.

 

im exactly the same, its just how you feel, as much as some people wont like it, it is what it is, and yea london has loaaads of seyx black guys , specially where iam and other parts near hear

 

Where is Croydon from London? Must google. Perhaps we should hit the town together one night teeheehee! But you're WAY prettier than me and will steal all the boys so I think we'd have to go out together but separate on arrival somewhere hahahahahahaha

Oh you're not far at all really! Woop woop:smt034

 

haha i dont really go out in croydon these days late at night, too much attitude their in town, some dodgey people about too, but in my area its safer at night, good to go out, is a nice place on the corner 5 mins from where i live, i doss there with m8s, play pool, drink and stuff, but my m8s know once the summer is here and its hot out i will stay out till the crack of dawn haha

 

my attraction was shaped by my experiences of being around a diverse group of people, being in close contact and finding out that we had shared values, interests and then that we were attracted to each other. in general i find all kinds of women attractive whatever the race-but my emotional connection is deeper with white and hispanic women

 

I'm attracted to women in general. But I guess I naturally go to white women because my childhood and preteen years were in a cow town far from the city.

All my 'firsts' were with white/asian girls.

I didn't date my first black girlfriend until I was 14.

And don't wanna be broken record on here with atheist thing, but most black women won't even be platonic friends with me because I'm not religious.

Let me stay on topic.

So yeah. Television has no influence.
White women don't judge or shun me. And I'm already comfortable with them because of where I spent my youth.

 

For me the interest in White Women may have been shaped by television but in a different way. Not the modern media images, but instead being someone who loves nature, travel, cultures. I watched a lot of National Geographic documentaries growing up, still do to this day.

I would hear and see these white women who work in the field with very beautiful accents and I had an attraction to them because of that. Didn't hurt that they were beautiful to look at as well.

In my next life I would love to be a wildlife photographer, living in the bush with my wife and shooting documentaries together.

I love women like -


Dr. Jane Goodall


Beverly Joubert who works with her husband in the field


Saba Douglas-Hamilton (she actually was born in Kenya, her first name is Swahili for seven and was given to her by Masai women and she speaks Swahili)

Those kind of women who are committed to conservation or humanitarian causes are a real turn on.

Something about their personality and beauty combined with their careers is very attractive to me. They unleash that adventurous and cultural spirit that is inside of me.

 

Yes he does. Because he obviously being the gold standard of black malehood and obviously can't get what he considers to be the top shelf white women clearly no other black man could possibly get what he can't. Nope. No way. :smt086

 

i luv u guys.....

 

No, mine wasn't about the media. I think mine was shaped from growing up with Black girls, but being attracted to BM, just felt like a natural occurrence.

 

Maybe you are small as hell.

And you wonder why people think you're an insecure white boy on the hoe-troll.

 

Depends what I'm seeing on the TV, I grew up watching things like "Saved by the Bell" (I never liked the spanish looking boy) and "Clarissa" so I don't think I was influenced by TV when I was younger, I'd like to put it down to my having an eye for guys who look hot ( black guys)



But if this guy had been on the TV when I was younger he would have definitely become my personal hearthrob

 

Yes times infinity. DYING for the next episode! He is so handsome, especially with a shaved head. Yummy man.

 

Ahh I love him as Luther he's a big hulk of smouldering hotness, did you know he's single :smt047:smt047:smt047



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In my case, it's probably shaped by a mix of who I find attractive and who finds me attractive. I tend to be drawn to women who are also drawn to me. That being said there are certain types of women of all races who think I'm whack, while others think I'm the cat's meow. And the women I end up in relationships with are rarely the ones that I think are super-hot in a media/celebrity sense, but women with whom I am largely in sync.