Is your attraction exclusively toward ww/bm?

KingAesop said:
I was on my pro-black kick in college, but it was me trying to find my place in the world. For some reason, white women were more attracted to my qualities. I couldn’t avoid them because they made their presence known. It got to a point where I caved and tried one out. White women didn’t disappoint in the least bit. Originally, it seemed that it would be hard for them to relate to black men, but nothing could be further from the truth. I’ve found that they experience many of the same things in their communities that black men experience in our own communities, which makes for an interesting dynamic. Culturally, I’ve found many white women to be communicators. I’m attracted to that. I like having informed debates and meaningful discourse. It has never been beneath any of the white women I’ve dated to have a conversation about any topic, even if they don’t necessarily like it or can relate to it. White women intrigued my mind first and foremost, and as a result, the physical attraction to white women followed. The rest is history.
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I can't even say it was nearly as complex for me as it was for you. It just feels like white women came at me harder than black women. I'm generally pretty quiet and introverted to be honest (not shy, though) and even if I'm really attracted to someone it would be hard for me to make the first move because doing that doesn't even really cross my mind, for a number of reasons. But before I met my GF and I had profiles on dating sites, white women sent me a lot more messages than black women, and I live in the south where there are lots of black women. They were also a lot more likely straight up ask me out.
 
Since1980 said:
I can't even say it was nearly as complex for me as it was for you. It just feels like white women came at me harder than black women. I'm generally pretty quiet and introverted to be honest (not shy, though) and even if I'm really attracted to someone it would be hard for me to make the first move because doing that doesn't even really cross my mind, for a number of reasons. But before I met my GF and I had profiles on dating sites, white women sent me a lot more messages than black women, and I live in the south where there are lots of black women. They were also a lot more likely straight up ask me out.
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This has been my experience as well, including with my current girlfriend.

Signed,
Monsieur Sans Swag :)
 
Over the years my attraction got more and more exclusive towards black men. I mean I had dates with white guys here and there but I felt that it's a lot better dating black men.

It's a whole different feeling. But I don't care if he's African American or African or from South America... As long we vibe and he's hot lmao
 
SarahFoxy said:
Over the years my attraction got more and more exclusive towards black men. I mean I had dates with white guys here and there but I felt that it's a lot better dating black men.

It's a whole different feeling. But I don't care if he's African American or African or from South America... As long we vibe and he's hot lmao
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White women just hit different, so the feeling is mutual. Everything just feels a bit more intense and passionate. I really can't explain why, but it does.
 
SarahFoxy said:
Over the years my attraction got more and more exclusive towards black men. I mean I had dates with white guys here and there but I felt that it's a lot better dating black men.

It's a whole different feeling. But I don't care if he's African American or African or from South America... As long we vibe and he's hot lmao
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This is my story too, I’m now at the point where I’d say I’m exclusively into black men, regardless of their background haha
 
Truth is personally having grown up in Africa I just never knew about white women so I only started dating them later on and truthfully I believe I personally exclusively now prefer being with white women.
There's a whole lot I have learned to see about them and culturally for me its perfect because I am learning new types of things continuously which improves my views of the world out of where I grew up.
So truly for me am really only now focused on getting a white woman to have babies with and family together because I am mentally now ready for that and I believe it's the best decision for myself .
 
beccaomecca said:
I love them all :) I'm not greedy
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Well am African and I realise most dudes end up lying but that's mainly because most already have wives and kids in Africa and are trying to make you a second wife or sometimes even a third wife at times .
Let that not confuse you though because I surely know as an Adrican there's very many guys where I come from myself inclusive with no baby mamas wives and never been married before. So we literally living a genuinely real life.
My only problem would be I support Irish Rugby so the Wallubies would be a team I would be against . Maybe for you that light change up
 
breanna03 said:
this! dated a couple white guys in high school, moved out on my own/went off to college, dated my first black man, signed up for this website, and the rest is history :)
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The truth is interracial loving is the best feeling ever. Realising the fact that this person is choosing you no matter the beliefs and culture he was raised up in is so pure in its own self. As an African I surely notice and realise that anyone willing to find a way to their true love despite all the opportunities of being with people of his culture and he chooses to find be it white or latino or asian is someone that truly is in their element and is certain about what they truly need in their life. So I understand and feel all the joy when I see people making those steps to end up with their own real life experiences of love and gloriously a family later on ‍‍‍
 
Vin256 said:
Well am African and I realise most dudes end up lying but that's mainly because most already have wives and kids in Africa and are trying to make you a second wife or sometimes even a third wife at times .
Let that not confuse you though because I surely know as an Adrican there's very many guys where I come from myself inclusive with no baby mamas wives and never been married before. So we literally living a genuinely real life.
My only problem would be I support Irish Rugby so the Wallubies would be a team I would be against . Maybe for you that light change up
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That's cool, and sad that some feel the need to be that way. Speaking of lying, I remember dancing with this black guy at a club when I was like 17 he told me he was Jamaican thinking he could fool me. Not realising I knew the distinctive difference between accents lol I always wondered why you'd lie about where you're from. He didn't even attempt to master the Jamaican accent lol. The only sport I watch is baseball, boxing or basketball I hate football/soccer to watch but enjoy it to play.
 
It didn't start out that way but overtime it has essentially become an exclusive attraction to white women. I will occasionally date a Latina or Asian woman, but I know deep down it won't last as white women are the ones who get my passion and desire truly burning.
 
beccaomecca said:
That's cool, and sad that some feel the need to be that way. Speaking of lying, I remember dancing with this black guy at a club when I was like 17 he told me he was Jamaican thinking he could fool me. Not realising I knew the distinctive difference between accents lol I always wondered why you'd lie about where you're from. He didn't even attempt to master the Jamaican accent lol. The only sport I watch is baseball, boxing or basketball I hate football/soccer to watch but enjoy it to play.
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Nice you know a Commonwealth Brother from a accent.
 
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