Is your attraction exclusively toward ww/bm?

Yes! I’m 34 and have dated various races but have found myself increasingly in environments that result in black men being the majority of contacts. My last few relationships have been with black men.

I think a big factor in who we find attractive is who we surround ourselves with. As I’ve worked in a predominantly black environment, I’ve been invited to go to events that are predominantly black. Living in a diverse community means that when I go for a jog or just go to the store, I am likely to encounter black men.

 

Welcome to the site Rach You have no idea how much I envy your position lol. Coming from Australia I'm surrounded by people I have no interest in being around lol.

 

Echo a lot of what has already been said but it has pretty much been exclusive to WW. I tried in high school to talk to/date a great young lady who wasn’t and, again, like others said just no spark. Similar to an earlier poster im shy by nature (yet do media stuff on camera behind a mic lol) so I’ve always appreciated the straightforwardness. Really though above all else is the vibe and level of care. As a black man sometimes you feel, I don’t want to say invisible, but that your plight, feelings, concerns, etc aren’t important and I’ve never felt that way in my previous relationships. Always safe and supported. Not to mention having a way to drag me out of my comfort zone and experience more to life. My two cents

 

thank you for sharing your perspective on this it sounds like you've gotten to where you want to be and I can feel the energy, thank you for sharing that with us too

 

Aw shucks there you go making me blush again . Glad to share! Figure I’m not the only one to have gone through these experiences and hopefully it can be used for something positive. Look like it already did

 

I wouldn't ever rule out dating another white guy. I've dated them in the past. But Im usually more attracted to black men and prefer dating them. I feel more comfortable with them. I haven't been with a white guy in over 3 years. They've been few and far between.

 

Despite my white preference, I’m open to all women of any color.

 

I used to be open and didn’t care much for ethnicity, a pretty woman is a pretty woman.

But the older I get, the more exclusive my attraction is to white women. If it’s a crime to have that, then take me to jail.

 

Let me join in the cell.