Online Dating????

[4north1side2]

if you don't know what you are taking about then you should refrain...

On POF you must be a paying member to retrieve "meets" I know exactly what it is because I tried it...didn't pay and had over 200 meets in my box that I couldn't see...I also never hit the YES/NO button for any man...so the match thing is silly because at some point someone has to message anyway...if he can't write a message then he is LAZY and just looking to play games...example: you playing games

I never feel left out but apparently you do because you always come back for attention with some stupid wild tale that probably isn't even true

 

[BrianJ]

A LOT of men's profiles have things like that.

I always found it rather amusing as to how many people are on those sites acting like they aren't looking for anything/anyone. You are on a f'ing DATING SITE dumbass! You aren't fooling anyone.

LOL Indeed. Why act coy?

 

[K]

LOL Indeed. Why act coy?

It's just another way to waste time. There are so many people on those things who have NO intention whatsoever of ever actually meeting someone in person.....it's crazy. I don't get how they get their egos boosted so much that way either. Ok so you received a bunch of hits on a dating site. Many of them are fakes or flakes.

 

[Ches]

It's just another way to waste time. There are so many people on those things who have NO intention whatsoever of ever actually meeting someone in person .....it's crazy. I don't get how they get their egos boosted so much that way either. Ok so you received a bunch of hits on a dating site. Many of them are fakes or flakes.

Yep. Pathetic to waste people's time.

 

[goodlove]

I believe a lot of those profiles are made by the company

 

[goodlove]

Fellas just go out after work wearing a suit it's like lingerie for men to women lol

My man is suited and booted.

Mack rule #1...dress for success

Why would it have to be one extreme or the other? I'm sure you could probably figure out a couple of sentences to write to send someone (something that may actually connect to that persons profile).

Hi or hello should be enough. Why should he ,from the start, or anyone spill their guts.

 

[Ches]

Hi or hello should be enough. Why should he ,from the start, or anyone spill their guts.

Mentioning something about my profile is far from spilling your guts.

 

[goodlove]

Mentioning something about my profile is far from spilling your guts.

I'm just more inclined to just say "hi" and wait for you to respond just like IRL.

I usually say "hi"

Then she says "hi"

Then I start breaking things down to her.

 

[Peach State Scholar]

Fellas just go out after work wearing a suit it's like lingerie for men to women lol

Yeah, this. On days when I wear a suit it gets me more attention overall. For added effect, I throw on a pair of shades and an overcoat. I'm not vain or anything but there's no better way to look badass.

 

[goodlove]

Yeah, this. On days when I wear a suit it gets me more attention overall. For added effect, I throw on a pair of shades and an overcoat. I'm not vain or anything but there's no better way to look badass.

Oh yes. I'm not a shades person...I may not found the right kind. But wearing a suit is cool. I'm more of a nice shirt and slacks type dude. At the club....then yes a suit or a nice coat is the joint.

 

[K]

I'm just more inclined to just say "hi" and wait for you to respond just like IRL.

I usually say "hi"

Then she says "hi"

Then I start breaking things down to her.

This seems to be the norm lately. The thing is that it's often not a matter of it being a texting situation. Just because some are using their phones, others are not. So, often it's coming across as an email. An email that just says "hi"

What's wrong with saying something like "I like what you said about....(fill in the blank) and I'd like to get to know you better" ?

I've noticed guys getting pissy if they aren't responded to instantly too. I think they just don't get that for many it's not a texting situation.

 

[K]

Yeah, this. On days when I wear a suit it gets me more attention overall. For added effect, I throw on a pair of shades and an overcoat. I'm not vain or anything but there's no better way to look badass.

Ok now we need a picture with all that.

 

[K]

Oh yes. I'm not a shades person...I may not found the right kind. But wearing a suit is cool. I'm more of a nice shirt and slacks type dude. At the club....then yes a suit or a nice coat is the joint.

um how old are you??

going "the club"????

 

[goodlove]

um how old are you??

going "the club"????

U damn right. There are night clubs for old school sounds. The south is full of them. The IR people hook up at those places like that all the time.

You also have bars and what not.

The bros and sistas get together like that too. Mostly for happy hour.

Old school is big business......its growing for hip hop now

Whodini Story: http://youtu.be/j9EB5U155mM

 

[RaiderLL]

Oh yes. I'm not a shades person...I may not found the right kind. But wearing a suit is cool. I'm more of a nice shirt and slacks type dude. At the club....then yes a suit or a nice coat is the joint.

Invest in a ten dollar pair of Locs. Crazy cheap and I've never seen them not look sexy on a guy.

 

[goodlove]

Invest in a ten dollar pair of Locs. Crazy cheap and I've never seen them not look sexy on a guy.

Okey dokey

 

[The Dark King]

I'm just more inclined to just say "hi" and wait for you to respond just like IRL.

I usually say "hi"

Then she says "hi"

Then I start breaking things down to her.

Been saying this for years. Its practical manners, I greet you you reply if you're inteerested. It's like so many of them want a man do prove himself before knowing if she's worth proving anything to

 

[The Dark King]

Yeah, this. On days when I wear a suit it gets me more attention overall. For added effect, I throw on a pair of shades and an overcoat. I'm not vain or anything but there's no better way to look badass.

You ain't lying
I always thought suits looked a little stuffy especially when you wear them to work it just becomes common place but then I started noticing a lot of looks when I wasn't in the office. Been dressing like this my entire life from elementary school to hs and on weekends for church and girls never cared so I didn't think it mattered boy was I wrong lol

 

[The Dark King]

This seems to be the norm lately. The thing is that it's often not a matter of it being a texting situation. Just because some are using their phones, others are not. So, often it's coming across as an email. An email that just says "hi"

What's wrong with saying something like "I like what you said about....(fill in the blank) and I'd like to get to know you better" ?

I've noticed guys getting pissy if they aren't responded to instantly too. I think they just don't get that for many it's not a texting situation.

Because doing it over and over feels like work after awhile especially if there isn't a response.
A simply greeting is much easier. Again women want a example of interest that they would never ask for in real life. It's a back and forth not an audition.

 

[goodlove]

Because doing it over and over feels like work after awhile especially if there isn't a response.
A simply greeting is much easier. Again women want a example of interest that they would never ask for in real life. It's a back and forth not an audition.

Also there are other women too.