Question? Why do ww women like black men when they get older

[rinnaye]

I think it's because we reach our sexual peaks around late 30's & early 40's. I'm 39 and feel like I have the hormones of a teenager.

Hummm!

Hormones of a teenager huh?

And just how far away is Memphis?

 

[Moskvichka]

By the time that same woman reaches her thirties she definately has the ability to tell anyone who dares say anything to her where to go and how fast to get there.... in otherwords she doesn't care what others think (including her own family).

How do you know???

I just reached my thirties.

 

[Athena]

How do you know???

I just reached my thirties.

Welcome to your thirties Mosk. You may find, as I have, that it's the best time so far in your life. I too have gained the ability to enjoy myself without caring what anyone thinks about me. Enjoy this fun "superpower" lol!

 

[Moskvichka]

Welcome to your thirties Mosk. You may find, as I have, that it's the best time so far in your life. I too have gained the ability to enjoy myself without caring what anyone thinks about me. Enjoy this fun "superpower" lol!

OMG is that your dog? It's beautiful!

 

[KnCA]

Welcome to your thirties Mosk. You may find, as I have, that it's the best time so far in your life. I too have gained the ability to enjoy myself without caring what anyone thinks about me. Enjoy this fun "superpower" lol!

it's just the start ladies! The 40s are even better. And I have some friends circling the big 50 that tell me...you just wait!

 

[Moskvichka]

once these women get too many miles on them and have broken down a few times they aren't so picky about who they give a ride to.

 

[LA]

Son, that car analogy is quite appropriate because once these women get too many miles on them and have broken down a few times they aren't so picky about who they give a ride to. It's a hard reality to face but you and the rest of these men just aren't seen as desirable to the vast majority of white women even the ones at an advanced age. Now, if you want to date WW exclusively my advice to you is to be patient and wait a decade or so and take whatever comes your way. You may have more of a choice once you get older. That is if you want white women your age. If you are into "cougars" right now and you have the right sized equipment downstairs, why don't you look to some of the old girls who are bragging about how their libidos are still firing on all cylinders. You may be muscling in on the turf of some older men who are interested but hey life isn't fair, and we know what they are after anyway.

Remember young men, if you aren't getting the play you want, you have to lower your standards or find some new prey. That's my two pennies worth.

Awesome 1st post!

:smt038

 

[Athena]

OMG is that your dog? It's beautiful!

Yes, that's my furry baby, lol.

 

[rinnaye]

Son, that car analogy is quite appropriate because once these women get too many miles on them and have broken down a few times they aren't so picky about who they give a ride to. It's a hard reality to face but you and the rest of these men just aren't seen as desirable to the vast majority of white women even the ones at an advanced age. Now, if you want to date WW exclusively my advice to you is to be patient and wait a decade or so and take whatever comes your way. You may have more of a choice once you get older. That is if you want white women your age. If you are into "cougars" right now and you have the right sized equipment downstairs, why don't you look to some of the old girls who are bragging about how their libidos are still firing on all cylinders. You may be muscling in on the turf of some older men who are interested but hey life isn't fair, and we know what they are after anyway.

Remember young men, if you aren't getting the play you want, you have to lower your standards or find some new prey. That's my two pennies worth.

LOL! :smt043

But, at the same time, I don't know if I want to slap you, or buy you a beer.

 

[Moskvichka]

Did the rest of you really enjoy Brazen Bob's post? Maybe I read it the wrong way because so many people seem to come here simply to be disruptive, but his final point was essentially that well endowed young black men should seek out older white women who are interested for companionship because they're easily attainable and only interested in sex.

Like I said, maybe I read it differently than the rest of you.

The post was just entertaining. Nobody took it seriously.

 

[Athena]

his final point was essentially that well endowed young black men should seek out older white women who are interested for companionship because they're easily attainable and only interested in sex.

I read it as his personal experience which cannot be translated onto mine. To each their own.

 

[KnCA]

Did the rest of you really enjoy Brazen Bob's post? Maybe I read it the wrong way because so many people seem to come here simply to be disruptive, but his final point was essentially that well endowed young black men should seek out older white women who are interested for companionship because they're easily attainable and only interested in sex.

Like I said, maybe I read it differently than the rest of you.

You're right there are those who definitely come in here to simply be disruptive.

I've found that if at all possible, it's best to ignore it. As they say - please don't feed the trolls.

In regards to this particular one....there was no need to comment on what he had to say. Obviously many of us "older" women don't fit into his comments at all. So there is simply no need to respond.

 

[veema]

Did the rest of you really enjoy Brazen Bob's post? Maybe I read it the wrong way because so many people seem to come here simply to be disruptive, but his final point was essentially that well endowed young black men should seek out older white women who are interested for companionship because they're easily attainable and only interested in sex.

Like I said, maybe I read it differently than the rest of you.

I think you read his post in the spirit in which it was written, Mathuels. There was nothing worth responding to.

 

[malikom]

Son, that car analogy is quite appropriate because once these women get too many miles on them and have broken down a few times they aren't so picky about who they give a ride to. It's a hard reality to face but you and the rest of these men just aren't seen as desirable to the vast majority of white women even the ones at an advanced age. Now, if you want to date WW exclusively my advice to you is to be patient and wait a decade or so and take whatever comes your way. You may have more of a choice once you get older. That is if you want white women your age. If you are into "cougars" right now and you have the right sized equipment downstairs, why don't you look to some of the old girls who are bragging about how their libidos are still firing on all cylinders. You may be muscling in on the turf of some older men who are interested but hey life isn't fair, and we know what they are after anyway.

Remember young men, if you aren't getting the play you want, you have to lower your standards or find some new prey. That's my two pennies worth.

You're all laughing,but there is alot of truth to this post

Like ive said earlier

whether you want to acknowledge this or not

many white women think of themselves as "too good" for black guys when they are int heir 20's,their beauty still in tact,and most fertile.Family pressures,and fear of social outcomes only gear them towards white guys more
When they are in their 40's,divorced with 2,3 kids out of the house,and their moms and pops are in some retirement home somewhere irrelevant in her life,she can finally do whatever she pleases(getting with black men)

SUSAN BURKOS(SP) a middle aged white women who writes about sex,basically said the same thing

 

[malikom]

That's right son. I just tried to give some helpful advice to some of the frustrated young men here. I thought that what I wrote was obvious to anyone without blinders on their eyes, but it appears that many of you are in denial. That's ok. Reality is hard to face sometimes when it doesn't favor you, but these young men need to realize that they can't change the world. Your options as a young black man who only wants to be with white women are unfortunately very limited. You can either find yourself a big girl, find an older woman, travel halfway around the world for a woman who views black men as exotic treats if you can afford to or be celibate for a long while until something nice comes along. Another hard truth as that the boys who aren't well built upstairs and downstairs if you know what I mean just won't have any luck at all with these women. Again, if we're honest, we will all realize that the alleged masculinity and virility of the black male are what women view his best traits not his intellect and sense of responsibility.

Like I said before. If you can't find what you're looking for, look for something else. I pity some of the poor young men who are here daydreaming about the unattainable when their time and energies are better spent elsewhere. Good luck friends.

Agreed

but what about young white guys who like black women?

Ive seen a handful,and everytime their girlfriends are attractive(and would be seen as desirable among black men)

Granted these black girls arent your "typical" black girl either

they usally act just like "valley white girls",but they still look banging.Many of these girls happen to be biracial also

but nonetheless,they look good

Why is a white guys prospects,of getting a young,hot,fertile black chick so good,and the total opposite for young black guys when it comes to white girls?Not really talking about Europe either,im talking about america

 

[Bug]

The prospects for a young white man looking for a relationship with a woman of any race (black, white, Latina, Asian or otherwise) are several fold better than a young black man in the same position. This has to do with the relative positions of white men and black men in the racial hierarchy of American society. Unfortunately, white men are on the very top and black men are in the very bottom. Things may change, but they won't change quickly. Many people are in denial about this fact just as many are also in denial about the very existence of racism or the racial hierarchy that we are all subjected to.


My intention is not to cause harm but rather help educate some of the young black on this forum about their chosen lifestyle and their options for the pursuit of happiness.

But surely the pursuit of happiness does not involve taking whatever is on offer, yeah i think some have exspectations to high, so do white guys, they all wanna model aswell , chances are they won't get one.:smt110

If they wanna be pickie as to where they "dip there wick" (yes horrible term, trying to reafirm my ghetto tag, NOT! lol) then let them be pickie, we should all be personally pickie.

 

[Bug]

I'm sorry I didn't mean to imply that a person should settle for anyone. Perhaps I should have made myself clearer. If they have high standards, they should adhere to them. My only point was that they should be realistic. These young black men need to realize that their options are more limited than other people in their position. So they should keep their expectations in check and not become too disappointed if either they don't find what they are looking for or it takes them a very long time to find what they are looking for.

Yeah you got a point, i give you that!

Everyone has to be realistic about who they are compatible with, myself included, i personally blame it on mothers lying to there kids telling them they are gorgeous when in fact they aren't , setting them up for a lifetime of disapointment ( i have a cousin who was told this constantly, it led to nothing but problems lol)
White or black we can't all be Brad Pitt or Tyresse whatever? its a sad fact that all of us have to face. :lol:

 

[malikom]

What makes you think young black dudes,would want to slam middle aged white women,with semi saggy tities and gone bodies?

I can understand the coco types lol

 

[malikom]

The prospects for a young white man looking for a relationship with a woman of any race (black, white, Latina, Asian or otherwise) are several fold better than a young black man in the same position. This has to do with the relative positions of white men and black men in the racial hierarchy of American society. Unfortunately, white men are on the very top and black men are in the very bottom. Things may change, but they won't change quickly. Many people are in denial about this fact just as many are also in denial about the very existence of racism or the racial hierarchy that we are all subjected to.


My intention is not to cause harm but rather help educate some of the young black on this forum about their chosen lifestyle and their options for the pursuit of happiness.

I knew the answer to my question

just was checking if we really were on the same page

 

[rinnaye]

Brazen Bob,

I must say, I can appreciate your candor, and after reading the few more posts you've made, I've come to the conclusion that you may not be a disruptive troll afterall, as your logic is sound. I'd by you that beer, good buddy!

Now the only problem I have with your initial statement is, what you say about black guys having a limited selection on white women. This may apply in Texas, but in my 20+ years of dating, living here in L.A. I can honestly tell you, I have had my way with all races, and especially white women, going all the way back to High School in the 80's. So I'm lost on much of what you're saying, even though it does make logical sense reasonably.