I'm the fixer in my family, so anytime someone has a problem they don't know how to solve, or just don't want to deal with, they call me and then just sit back and wait for me to handle it. I'm good at it, but I decided a couple years ago that I was just enabling them all to be immature, and they needed to learn coping skills. They're all bright, they just don't think sometimes, or more precisely they prefer not to deal with unpleasant things. So anyway, I cut them all off except for true emergencies. This happens to qualify though, it involves a major life decision, so I'm lending my aid. But I'm a little tired of the asshole in the bunch making everyone's life difficult. Anytime I have to utter the words 'do not make me fly out there' to a damn 30 yo adult male, it's not good. I got it handled though, for the time being. Just seems like I have an abundance of assholes to deal with lately, time for a break, or a vacation or something.